thanks sagittarius16b

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put so much pressure on me about my situation that i wont discuss but u really opened my eyes and gave me such good advice. i really appreciate that. i dont need to be held hostage for my mistakes and i down owe anyone anything........ i just need to move on and live my life!

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you guys have no remorse for a hurting woman. no proper advice here just flat out disses, insults and horrible comments..... i hope u guys are proud of urselves for treating a person like this!
I don't think this is the best place to look for advice when you've cheated. Nobody likes a cheater. But I'll give you mine. Tell him the truth. Don't lie anymore because he will find out eventually and you wouldn't being able to live with yourself until you tell the truth. Scorpios have this six sense so he will find out eventually. You obviously don't want him back so tell him the truth and move on so he can do the same. He will probably hate you both for the rest of his life but that's a choice he has. Just my two cents.

the" cheating " I'd she actaully stayed so long after losing feelings for him. She already fell in love woth someone else. Unfortunately shen indeed with him physically too. It may be a big mistake in his life but she doesn't " owe " any truth to the scorpio rather than she wants to move on as much as she used to love him orior. Telling " the truth " about the couch would bring a lot fo problems for every party involved. If he had " sixth sense ",why is he lacking it now? And if he finds out in the future , let it br. Telling thta truth won't help ANYONE. it is her luggage to carry and she wants to leave so all she needs to do is be firm and tell him and go. The rest of ehat you all suggest is " drama" you try accuse her of. He is not married to her and that's grest. He will find another woman .
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SHE IS FREE To LEAVE WITHOUT An EXPLANATION too. He will suffer and then get over it. She needs continue and he needs continue. It s an experience. Obviously they won't be " moving to a house and having children together". It s done. That's the only truth that matters be told.
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thank u so much for ur messages. i didnt have time to read them only today morning and they really set me free from my baggage. u are 100% right and the ppl who tried to peer pressure me to tell my ex just wanted me to have problems and drama. i dont need anymore of that in my life!! i moved on, i broke up with him and im happy w/ another person now. thats all there is about it and he doesnt need 2 know my life.

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Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
they did. they called me a horrible person and tryed to force me to tell the hole story and wanted to see me self destruct. :/

you should have read what they wrote about me.
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Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
they did. they called me a horrible person and tryed to force me to tell the hole story and wanted to see me self destruct. :/

you should have read what they wrote about me.
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Yeah but they can't see you...

And Why have you spelled "whole" as "hole" completely wrong throughout your entire tale.

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Posted by TaurusGal92
Posted by happyface1
Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
they did. they called me a horrible person and tryed to force me to tell the hole story and wanted to see me self destruct. :/

you should have read what they wrote about me.

Yeah but they can't see you...

And Why have you spelled "whole" as "hole" completely wrong throughout your entire tale.

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it still hurt my feelings.....
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Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
they did. they called me a horrible person and tryed to force me to tell the hole story and wanted to see me self destruct. :/


And you allowed total strangers on the internet to affect you adversely. People who don't know you at all.

We get it.

😈

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sorry im human and im a good girl and have a soul. :/
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Posted by happyface1
Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
they did. they called me a horrible person and tryed to force me to tell the hole story and wanted to see me self destruct. :/

you should have read what they wrote about me.

Yeah but they can't see you...

And Why have you spelled "whole" as "hole" completely wrong throughout your entire tale.
it still hurt my feelings.....
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Why haven't you spelled whole correctly this entire time !
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Posted by happyface1
Posted by TaurusGal92
Posted by happyface1
Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
they did. they called me a horrible person and tryed to force me to tell the hole story and wanted to see me self destruct. :/

you should have read what they wrote about me.

Yeah but they can't see you...

And Why have you spelled "whole" as "hole" completely wrong throughout your entire tale.
it still hurt my feelings.....
Why haven't you spelled whole correctly this entire time !
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i did it was just a typo
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Posted by TaurusGal92
Posted by happyface1
Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
they did. they called me a horrible person and tryed to force me to tell the hole story and wanted to see me self destruct. :/


And you allowed total strangers on the internet to affect you adversely. People who don't know you at all.

We get it.

😈
sorry im human and im a good girl and have a soul. :/
Sigh..you just don't get it do you?

Yes you're human.

I don't know you personally so I cannot say if you are indeed a good person - I just base my answers on what you post.

My point was:

You allowed complete strangers, people you don't know from Adam, to affect you so adversely, in the same way a family member or lover would hurt you in an argument.

I always thought Taurus women were tougher than this...

Or maybe my grandmother was the exception :/
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we are not that tough we are just good at acting tough. but i have no reason to act tough on a internet forum where no1 knows me. :/
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Posted by happyface1
Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
they did. they called me a horrible person and tryed to force me to tell the hole story and wanted to see me self destruct. :/

you should have read what they wrote about me.

Yeah but they can't see you...

And Why have you spelled "whole" as "hole" completely wrong throughout your entire tale.
it still hurt my feelings.....
Why haven't you spelled whole correctly this entire time !
LMFAO that's been bugging your Virgo bits all this while— 😆
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Yes...she's doing it on purpose ! Lol
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Posted by trollbait
Posted by TaurusGal92
Posted by happyface1
Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
they did. they called me a horrible person and tryed to force me to tell the hole story and wanted to see me self destruct. :/


And you allowed total strangers on the internet to affect you adversely. People who don't know you at all.

We get it.

😈
sorry im human and im a good girl and have a soul. :/
Sigh..you just don't get it do you?

Yes you're human.

I don't know you personally so I cannot say if you are indeed a good person - I just base my answers on what you post.

My point was:

You allowed complete strangers, people you don't know from Adam, to affect you so adversely, in the same way a family member or lover would hurt you in an argument.

I always thought Taurus women were tougher than this...

Or maybe my grandmother was the exception :/
Fuck off. She is 24.
Age is never excuse. I know 30 year olds who haven't matured in life.
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just because people viciously bullied me on the internet for a mistake and i got offended by it it doesn't mean im immature :/

it means i have a heart
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I don't know the whole story, but I remember someone always told me:" thank god, that he is gof himself!"

I think sometimes people created god, because they can't handle to ask for mercy from people.

We don't know about anything sit behind these names

Ah we can't know what people through every day, inside them maybe there is a died souls, a sad and maybe they are screaming all the time, but smile at the same time


I will talk shyt about anyone, but the last thing I want to give someone is feeling guilty about something they done

Feeling guilty is what destroy us the most
yes thats why i feel like i did the right thing and im not gonna feel guilty anymore
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I don't know the whole story, but I remember someone always told me:" thank god, that he is gof himself!"

I think sometimes people created god, because they can't handle to ask for mercy from people.

We don't know about anything sit behind these names

Ah we can't know what people through every day, inside them maybe there is a died souls, a sad and maybe they are screaming all the time, but smile at the same time


I will talk shyt about anyone, but the last thing I want to give someone is feeling guilty about something they done

Feeling guilty is what destroy us the most
yes thats why i feel like i did the right thing and im not gonna feel guilty anymore
Don't got me wrong.

Yea don't feel guilty about it cuz no one can change what you destroyed, but don't do it again...

And people here always will tell the truth, they will not gonna make it easy, so take it or leave it.
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i think its ok to tell the truth but not ok to label someone a horrible person and insult them like tacha did to me and arielle and many others....
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Posted by happyface1
Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
I agree.
She has to notice that she had the choice to filter what she reads and responds to. If she chooses to focus on and respond to those who label her......

We won't ever be able to keep other people quiet. But we can keep our own minds quiet.
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Posted by TaurusGal92
Posted by happyface1
Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
they did. they called me a horrible person and tryed to force me to tell the hole story and wanted to see me self destruct. :/

you should have read what they wrote about me.
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I did not label you. But I told you tell the truth.

Cheating is a sin. Telling lies is a sin.

Jesus suffered to show us not to identify with our sins. That release does not suggest to do a new sin right after the last one's feelings of guilt have vanished.
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The reason why we are afraid of what other people think about us
is
that we've been like them for a long time. Juding others.



Like if you have found old people disgusting the whole time and then one day you find out that you are old. So you feel bad. You feel you are ugly and smelling bad and all the stuff.

So you've been previously a "good girl" meaning there are these "disgusting bad girls out there". All of a sudden you are one of them. This is what bothers you. If you think you only did a mistake, then focus on doing the right things in future. That is simple. Focusing on what gossip girls say is a battle you cannot win. No need to defend yourself. Just aim to be good in future.
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Of course you don't owe the ex anything. But this is not the way we handle each other. We, as humans, have this thing called EMPATHY.

Empathy makes that we release each other from further suffering if it is in our power.
You need not to swim in ex's pains. But it is a better start for him to know the whole truth.

But if you are weak and cannot carry that big burdon, that will automatically drive you to optimize the situation only for yourself.
Whether it is really that optimal, you'll know it later. This is why principals come to the game. For when the brain is tired. In case of doubt follow the hard cold principles.

Yet I don't insist. Every solution has good and bad sides to it.
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people cheat, we get it.
the reason why people
were upset is because
you asked for advice
and ignored it to do
what made you feel
better, which was lie.

there is never such thing
as accidentally cheating
and accidentally lying to
cover up what you did, no.
those are done purposely.

it was not so much cheating
that made people lash out.
it was the lying to his face,
and then trying to find dirt
on him to make you feel
better about what you did.

accidents and good person.

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Posted by TaurusGal92
Posted by happyface1
Lol...no one put pressure on you. People stated their thoughts on your post. If you felt pressure from people on the world wide Web who have no control over you...

maybe you should stay away for a while
they did. they called me a horrible person and tryed to force me to tell the hole story and wanted to see me self destruct. :/

you should have read what they wrote about me.
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really holey story
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Posted by TaurusGal92
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I think you deserve a trophy.
i think i handled the situation as best as i could
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You asked for advice, we told you not to lie, you lied, then you planned a trip and were gonna have your mom pick your shit up. Then to top it all, still gonna lie by keeping your new man on the DL.

People are aggro, because once again, here is someone who isn't serious at all and just wanted validation for her to take the easy way instead of the right way.