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Mind games we play
Do Sagittarians Play Mind Games and Why
Sagittarians are known for honesty and openness but may engage in mind games to protect their independence or test boundaries. Their love for adventure and truth can sometimes lead to misunderstandings. Understanding their desire for freedom helps explain their complex behaviors in relationships.
I used 2 when i was younger.
Id say things just to see how ppl would react.
Id sleep with someone s friend just to get a reaction.
Hot mess.
Posted by DMV
I used 2 when i was younger.Id say things just to see how ppl would react.
Id sleep with someone s friend just to get a reaction.
Hot mess.
Thank you for your honesty...
I've noticed on here we have a lot of people who only mentions their positives...
But I did with one person , to test her .. But I liked her so much and I was afraid. I eventually came around after like two weeks. She was also a sag, but for some reason I don't understand her reasoning for things.
And I think as a sag, I should be the one who gets her.
Posted by arose32
Any sag's here ever played mind games before? Be honest and why?? I'm curious on how we love and where our bad rep comes from...
No, I don't like games in intimate relationships and believe I suck at them.
I'm over them also... No energy, but I do believe we have this real bad side we keep under control. But, then again... That can be anyone.?
I think they do my bff a sag i think its a trait they picked up from the scorpios.
I'm a sag and we are cruel at times...
Posted by arose32
I'm a sag and we are cruel at times...
Id agree. We just love getting on our soapboxes and acting holier than thou.
Sometimes we take our need for freedom to the extreme. Blame our mutability. We prefer to go with the flow until we cant take it anymore. Then we just blow our lid.
Sag men are hard to tame. Imo they need a true partner first then girl friend secondly
Posted by arose32
I'm a sag and we are cruel at times...
oops, I blamed it on my Lilith in Scorpio. But now that you confess..... need a second thought.
But I feel like that's every sign.
Sometimes everyone needs reassurance, and we all test people. It's just about how you go about doing it. I'm noticing also, some people play games to leave a print on your heart... But that's where maturity comes in at?
I'll never forget my ex... Lol. The crazy stuff we went through. But she's too much of a heartbreaker. And sometimes like I said I can understand because we are both Sag's, but she's a little less evolved than me.
Posted by arose32
I'm a sag and we are cruel at times...oops, I blamed it on my Lilith in Scorpio. But now that you confess..... need a second thought.
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Naw we got a bad rep for a reason. We are very very very charming. But it's like this other side comes out of us and we will act a fool. I think that's the "half beast" part of a sag?
Posted by lovely77
I think they do my bff a sag i think its a trait they picked up from the scorpios.
Idk where it comes from. But we are horrible at times. It got to a point I just encouraged her talking to other people. The only thing that hurt me is the shutting out completely ... But I stopped caring a long time ago about anything else she did. But it's like when I wasn't effected by her actions, she would keep trying and trying until she found something else to hurt me. Her moon was in cancer and Venus in Scorpio. Mines was Leo and Aqua Venus.
Any sag date another sag before? TERRIFIC/TERRIFYING
Posted by lovely77
I think they do my bff a sag i think its a trait they picked up from the scorpios.Idk where it comes from. But we are horrible at times. It got to a point I just encouraged her talking to other people. The only thing that hurt me is the shutting out completely ... But I stopped caring a long time ago about anything else she did. But it's like when I wasn't effected by her actions, she would keep trying and trying until she found something else to hurt me. Her moon was in cancer and Venus in Scorpio. Mines was Leo and Aqua Venus.
Any sag date another sag before? TERRIFIC/TERRIFYING
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Damn that with venus scorpio explains it all. I never dated one i think they r cool though long as they watch their words
Posted by arose32
Any sag's here ever played mind games before? Be honest and why?? I'm curious on how we love and where our bad rep comes from...
Yes I have. Reverse psychology, pretending I was mad or upset when I wasn't because I wanted affection and was too ignorant to realize that I should have just spoken up. I acted hard and behaved stubborn even when I wanted to give in.. Blah blah.
I think it comes from the sag mentality of not wanting to admit weakness, or (what i believed to be my weakness - craving attention) at least for me.
Posted by lovely77
I think they do my bff a sag i think its a trait they picked up from the scorpios.Idk where it comes from. But we are horrible at times. It got to a point I just encouraged her talking to other people. The only thing that hurt me is the shutting out completely ... But I stopped caring a long time ago about anything else she did. But it's like when I wasn't effected by her actions, she would keep trying and trying until she found something else to hurt me. Her moon was in cancer and Venus in Scorpio. Mines was Leo and Aqua Venus.
Any sag date another sag before? TERRIFIC/TERRIFYING
Damn that with venus scorpio explains it all. I never dated one i think they r cool though long as they watch their words
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The Venus scorp thing... Yea, I did that too. Tsk tsk
^^ man she got me to pick her over everyone .. (Lesbian couple) and she messed up. Worked for a month and I was like it'll never be the same but forgave her. After that it's been a beautiful choas. We don't talk anymore. Been about two weeks because I told her it's time for her to get her stuff together...
But idk. She stays on my mind, even though she's gone now. But she always leave. This time the way she left was like a for good one. But it's almost as if we afraid to settle but we crave intimacy. Idk. I'm giving her a little more time, but each day I'm falling more and more out of love.
Posted by lovely77
I think they do my bff a sag i think its a trait they picked up from the scorpios.Idk where it comes from. But we are horrible at times. It got to a point I just encouraged her talking to other people. The only thing that hurt me is the shutting out completely ... But I stopped caring a long time ago about anything else she did. But it's like when I wasn't effected by her actions, she would keep trying and trying until she found something else to hurt me. Her moon was in cancer and Venus in Scorpio. Mines was Leo and Aqua Venus.
Any sag date another sag before? TERRIFIC/TERRIFYING
Damn that with venus scorpio explains it all. I never dated one i think they r cool though long as they watch their words
The Venus scorp thing... Yea, I did that too. Tsk tsk
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She's a good person she just can't help herself. Because it's like she truly hates when I shut her out but she's built on revenge.
And yeah I think we try too hard to act like we don't care to the lover. I be missing my significant other so much but try so hard to contain it. But it works because ppl swear we don't care. My heart be broken !! Lol. I guess it's a survival technique.
Posted by lovely77
I think they do my bff a sag i think its a trait they picked up from the scorpios.Idk where it comes from. But we are horrible at times. It got to a point I just encouraged her talking to other people. The only thing that hurt me is the shutting out completely ... But I stopped caring a long time ago about anything else she did. But it's like when I wasn't effected by her actions, she would keep trying and trying until she found something else to hurt me. Her moon was in cancer and Venus in Scorpio. Mines was Leo and Aqua Venus.
Any sag date another sag before? TERRIFIC/TERRIFYING
Damn that with venus scorpio explains it all. I never dated one i think they r cool though long as they watch their words
The Venus scorp thing... Yea, I did that too. Tsk tsk
She's a good person she just can't help herself. Because it's like she truly hates when I shut her out but she's built on revenge.
And yeah I think we try too hard to act like we don't care to the lover. I be missing my significant other so much but try so hard to contain it. But it works because ppl swear we don't care. My heart be broken !! Lol. I guess it's a survival technique.
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I know right!? Lol
Ironically enough, "acting like we don't care, it isn't survival though, it's alienation.
Pride has damned every sag at one point or another : )
Posted by lovely77
I think they do my bff a sag i think its a trait they picked up from the scorpios.Idk where it comes from. But we are horrible at times. It got to a point I just encouraged her talking to other people. The only thing that hurt me is the shutting out completely ... But I stopped caring a long time ago about anything else she did. But it's like when I wasn't effected by her actions, she would keep trying and trying until she found something else to hurt me. Her moon was in cancer and Venus in Scorpio. Mines was Leo and Aqua Venus.
Any sag date another sag before? TERRIFIC/TERRIFYING
Damn that with venus scorpio explains it all. I never dated one i think they r cool though long as they watch their words
The Venus scorp thing... Yea, I did that too. Tsk tsk
She's a good person she just can't help herself. Because it's like she truly hates when I shut her out but she's built on revenge.
And yeah I think we try too hard to act like we don't care to the lover. I be missing my significant other so much but try so hard to contain it. But it works because ppl swear we don't care. My heart be broken !! Lol. I guess it's a survival technique.
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Awww it b ok couples need communicate may b hard sometimes both parties need reassurance. Both may not like xyz but it must b done for the sake of love
I love sag men. Dated 2. One was amazing, we had better synastry.
The other, omg. Terrible
Posted by DMV
I love sag men. Dated 2. One was amazing, we had better synastry.The other, omg. Terrible
Yeah... The ultimate highs and lows ... Only girl she's ever talked to. Which is why I'm giving her time because no matter how many dudes come around, she's always came running back. And me also. I've always ran back.... But it's like with her we can not talk for weeks etc and back at it. But I'm over that stage now. Beginning to demand more of of her.
She has until June 16th this time (get in my first store) if she's not back by then. I'll have to shut her out completely ..
Posted by DMV
I love sag men. Dated 2. One was amazing, we had better synastry.The other, omg. Terrible
Sag men are great. Down for whatever. Camping on the beach, sex in the sand, protective and wild all at the same. Quick to get over it once you announce its nothing more.
Posted by lovely77
I think they do my bff a sag i think its a trait they picked up from the scorpios.Idk where it comes from. But we are horrible at times. It got to a point I just encouraged her talking to other people. The only thing that hurt me is the shutting out completely ... But I stopped caring a long time ago about anything else she did. But it's like when I wasn't effected by her actions, she would keep trying and trying until she found something else to hurt me. Her moon was in cancer and Venus in Scorpio. Mines was Leo and Aqua Venus.
Any sag date another sag before? TERRIFIC/TERRIFYING
Damn that with venus scorpio explains it all. I never dated one i think they r cool though long as they watch their words
The Venus scorp thing... Yea, I did that too. Tsk tsk
She's a good person she just can't help herself. Because it's like she truly hates when I shut her out but she's built on revenge.
And yeah I think we try too hard to act like we don't care to the lover. I be missing my significant other so much but try so hard to contain it. But it works because ppl swear we don't care. My heart be broken !! Lol. I guess it's a survival technique.
I know right!? Lol
Ironically enough, "acting like we don't care, it isn't survival though, it's alienation.Pride has damned every sag at one point or another : )
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Well she acts so hard at times I promise I'm like wth. She had my name tattooed before and after almost three years told me she was never in love. But I've done some cruel stuff to her. But I'm letting her go. I refuse to hit her up. We both are about to graduate, she's still so lost. And I let her know I'm not allowing my kids or anyone mess up what I'm working for. I grew up poor, and I'm paranoid to go back..
I'm just venting.. (It's easier than to hit her up) I feel like she could have anyone in the world ... I just want my best friend back. But it's life. She needs drama. And I would give it to her but I'm not there face to face.. I swear I'd slap her, for "giving up" when she was the one who taught me about dedication. But I wish her the best nonetheless...
Posted by arose32
I'm a sag and we are cruel at times...Id agree. We just love getting on our soapboxes and acting holier than thou.
Sometimes we take our need for freedom to the extreme. Blame our mutability. We prefer to go with the flow until we cant take it anymore. Then we just blow our lid.
Sag men are hard to tame. Imo they need a true partner first then girl friend secondly
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+1
Posted by DMV
I love sag men. Dated 2. One was amazing, we had better synastry.The other, omg. Terrible
Sag men are great. Down for whatever. Camping on the beach, sex in the sand, protective and wild all at the same. Quick to get over it once you announce its nothing more.
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Man, idk.. I've always had passionate relationships. But could be my moon in Leo... It wasn't that that made me fall in love with her. She wasn't the prettiest either... But it's like I've turned more feminine and her masculine... It's weird. Lol. But I can go days of being okay, and then it's days where she's in my dreams... Where she's on my mind, and I get this craving... Like she's still right there. But forget her... I recently got in a store and EVERYONE told me congrats but her... The only one who opinion mattered. I hate her lol.
But yeah it's a mirror effect I promise .. Push and pull. I asked her would we ever accept the fact that we supposed to be in each other life forever . And she said probably not yet and I was like yeah I agree...
@arose32 yawl aren't together?
Posted by Mohini
@arose32 yawl aren't together?
Not anymore... But it's okay. We were off and on for a long time ... Due to distance and stuff but we always came back to each other no matter what, sort of like a unspoken rule... But it's okay I guess.. She recently told me she was never in love and when she called me she was super super happy and told me she was dropping my things off (a pair of shoes I didn't want) at my house... In a mockingly tone..
Just curious on certain things... But I'm happy she's happy. She's never been that happy, made me think she might be faking it. Trying too hard almost ... I know her. She drinks because she can't express emotions, now she tries to act super super happy whenever we talk. Bubbly like
Posted by Mohini
@arose32 yawl aren't together?Not anymore... But it's okay. We were off and on for a long time ... Due to distance and stuff but we always came back to each other no matter what, sort of like a unspoken rule... But it's okay I guess.. She recently told me she was never in love and when she called me she was super super happy and told me she was dropping my things off (a pair of shoes I didn't want) at my house... In a mockingly tone..
Just curious on certain things... But I'm happy she's happy. She's never been that happy, made me think she might be faking it. Trying too hard almost ... I know her. She drinks because she can't express emotions, now she tries to act super super happy whenever we talk. Bubbly like
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What happened? Like, why did yawl break up? When?
She told me she was never gay and never in love. I showed my vulnerable side and cried to her and let her know I was hurt and asked her to stay... She ignored me. So I left her alone.. She hits me up in my clothes and sends me pictures and I respond and told her I loved her and she was cruel. So I told her don't send pictures to me it'll confuse me. She sent me pictures of her with a baby and dressed up and I told her don't send those because "that's gay" and she got mad. She hit me to check on me due to the rain because it was flooding and I told her don't hit me up because she stated she never cared, so let it go. She told me I always make her the bad guy...
But honestly .. I knew it was coming . She texted me while she was drunk a week before she called it off and stated, "idk why you're in love with a girl like me... Etc" and I knew what's was next. She's not as smart as me, not that pretty, etc... But I picked her. She's not the only person to have told me this before.. "I know you have options, I can't be the one to slow you down, etc" but I don't care about that type of stuff. Just make me happy.
And I guess I'm demanding more now. But I don't have to settle and I won't... I refuse to let you hurt yourself any longer... You know?
It's just a bunch of who can act the hardest , and I'm over it. Love isn't ego trips... We have been holding on for almost three years now... And it's either time to be honest with ourselves or let each other go. Right now we letting each other go. But each day goes by, I fall in love with her more. While falling out of love.. I don't want her to anyone but myself ... And I can admit that.... She's too prideful to ever admit that. So I'm letting her leave for good now. But I'm ready to be out of love already guys... We have been trying to leave each other alone for two years now... So maybe this time it's for good.
Posted by arose32
It's just a bunch of who can act the hardest , and I'm over it. Love isn't ego trips... We have been holding on for almost three years now... And it's either time to be honest with ourselves or let each other go. Right now we letting each other go. But each day goes by, I fall in love with her more. While falling out of love.. I don't want her to anyone but myself ... And I can admit that.... She's too prideful to ever admit that. So I'm letting her leave for good now. But I'm ready to be out of love already guys... We have been trying to leave each other alone for two years now... So maybe this time it's for good.
I can't imagine it's easy to come out about your sexuality. And even if you do, there are what ifs. Its not easy.
But it happens. Good luck. : )
Thank you. I literally just saw a picture of her on a mutual friends page. I deleted the friend.... She'll be great, and my company is getting in its first store soon. I just feel so empty... At times. And I still feel the same way I did a year ago. But trust me, I'm ready for the feelings to be gone for good...
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Any sag's here ever played mind games before? Be honest and why?? I'm curious on how we love and where our bad rep comes from...