@Aquastic
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red flag ...?
Red flag.
sex flag
And visit him— FOH, what happened to actually taking you OUT for a date? What does he wanna do? Netflix & chill? I hate that phrase actually. Who made that bullshit up...
Yep red flag.
At least you know where his head is at
3 weeks? My did that on meeting 2 haha but we were long distance
I love posts like this. 3 weeks and someone is complaining that someone wants face to face interaction instead of a keyboard relationship? What in the hell is he thinking?!
I'm saying this with all assumptions that he's a decent guy.
Hmm.. Idk. Maybe like a purple flag because I'm not sure.
Wait no. It would be a yellow flag. Proceed with caution.
Posted by Aquastic
A guy I met 3 weeks ago is asking me to visit him at his place. I mean it's only been 3 weeks but he's already sending me "I miss u " messages.What game is he playing at
?Is this a red flag or paranoia?
Have you guys been out at all yet? Have you seen him in person?
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We met at a mall , he approached me and asked for my digits, then we started chatting.
I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.
I tried to sense his intentions by telling him I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.
Posted by Aquastic
I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.But why play games? Would you like it if he did such things? He may be doing it now but just tell him straight you don't want to have sex right now. What are you afraid of? It's not like you're in a real relationship. Don't stress about something that hasn't even started. Just enjoy the moment and if your intentions don't align tell him and split. You can't control him you can only control your expectations of him. Keep it simple, lighthearted and fun. The only thing I can suggest is to see how much he talks the talk and how much he walks the walk. Don't let him use those words to confuse you. One last thing don't get soo damn invested in the beginning.
Have fun.😅
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You are right , I need to loosen up and be frank, and not too much.
Posted by Aquastic
I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.But why play games? Would you like it if he did such things? He may be doing it now but just tell him straight you don't want to have sex right now. What are you afraid of? It's not like you're in a real relationship. Don't stress about something that hasn't even started. Just enjoy the moment and if your intentions don't align tell him and split. You can't control him you can only control your expectations of him. Keep it simple, lighthearted and fun. The only thing I can suggest is to see how much he talks the talk and how much he walks the walk. Don't let him use those words to confuse you. One last thing don't get soo damn invested in the beginning.
Have fun.😅
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You are right , I should just loosen up and have fun but also ensure that I don't fall for any tricks.
Posted by Aquastic
I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.
Well d*mn you did more than "sense his intentions". His peen probably shrunk up a few inches.
Meh. If you don't feel comfortable, don't go. Doesn't matter what his intentions are.
Posted by Aquastic
I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.Well d*mn you did more than "sense his intentions". His peen probably shrunk up a few inches.
Meh. If you don't feel comfortable, don't go. Doesn't matter what his intentions are.
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Well I don't , decided to cut him out. If only I was desparate... So...
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You not alone on that
Posted by GetMisted
What's the issue here, really?When I first started dating the Ex Aries, I invited her over to my place for an afternoon of lunch, beer, and coloring on the sidewalk with chalk.
No sex was involved.
I think the real issue here, is that you assume all men are attempting to nab the taco. Either because of ego, or horrible choice of men in the past.
Maybe m damaged
Posted by Aquastic
I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.Well d*mn you did more than "sense his intentions". His peen probably shrunk up a few inches.
Meh. If you don't feel comfortable, don't go. Doesn't matter what his intentions are.
Well I don't , decided to cut him out. If only I was desparate... So...
But he was good enough to chat with for 3wks?
Nobody here knows the nature or frequency of those interactions and you should definitely go with your gut, but you don't hafta be rash either.
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It's hard when u've been through the same thing before only to find that they are after one and one thing only
Posted by HouseCleaning
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A guy I met 3 weeks ago is asking me to visit him at his place. I mean it's only been 3 weeks but he's already sending me "I miss u " messages.
What game is he playing at?
Is this a red flag or paranoia?