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Not exactly, but I've had similar experiences. As a Taurus with Scorpio moon, me being friends with someone whose sun is Scorpio will usually end up in flames. It usually doesn't matter what the scorpio's moon is. Nothing against scorpios in general, but typically we are not compatible in the long run and things end horribly. But I hit it off with scorpios insanely well. It's just that when someone gets mad or irritated, it gets so ugly between us. So whenever I meet someone who I get along with well and feel like we have a connection, it's almost always a Scorpio. So sometimes I avoid the subject of astrology because I'm afraid to find out that they are a Scorpio. I want a miracle to happen and for me to have this kind of connection with someone who is not a Scorpio. But at the end of the day, i somehow always find out that they are a scorpio. I'm the kind of person who keeps an open mind and says "this time it'll be different" but it never is.
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Not exactly, but I've had similar experiences. As a Taurus with Scorpio moon, me being friends with someone whose sun is Scorpio will usually end up in flames. It usually doesn't matter what the scorpio's moon is. Nothing against scorpios in general, but typically we are not compatible in the long run and things end horribly. But I hit it off with scorpios insanely well. It's just that when someone gets mad or irritated, it gets so ugly between us. So whenever I meet someone who I get along with well and feel like we have a connection, it's almost always a Scorpio. So sometimes I avoid the subject of astrology because I'm afraid to find out that they are a Scorpio. I want a miracle to happen and for me to have this kind of connection with someone who is not a Scorpio. But at the end of the day, i somehow always find out that they are a scorpio. I'm the kind of person who keeps an open mind and says "this time it'll be different" but it never is.
I kind of have a similar experience as you lol.

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Maybe this is the first time in a while you've met someone where you like them more than you like astrology.
Possibly...it's a great relief actually. She's not a big fan of astrology and even questions MBTI.


Which is a good thing cause it's all downhill once they discover you have a Scorpio Moon.

Spare her the horror, Ram.

Spare. Her. The. Horror. lol
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LMAO!

I'll keep that in mind the next time astrology pops up in our conversations.
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Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?

And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
I've met people where I didn't even need to know their zodiac sign. The best way to know if you're compatible is to actually get to know them without charts.
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In this instance, this is what I prefer to do right now.
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Posted by Ram416
Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?

And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
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Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?

And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
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It's hard being fixed!! 😭

(I'm fixed dominant)
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Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?

And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
It's hard being fixed!! 😭

(I'm fixed dominant)
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So the question is do you still do it without looking up the person and/ or feel it instead? And still give it a chance.
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Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?

And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
It's hard being fixed!! 😭

(I'm fixed dominant)
So the question is do you still do it without looking up the person and/ or feel it instead? And still give it a chance.
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I find that, without knowing the person's placements, I have a clearer focus for potential red flags that may come up.

Touch wood, nothing so far. And I haven't found a concrete reason to attempt at looking up her chart.
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Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?

And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
It's hard being fixed!! 😭

(I'm fixed dominant)
So the question is do you still do it without looking up the person and/ or feel it instead? And still give it a chance.
I find that, without knowing the person's placements, I have a clearer focus for potential red flags that may come up.

Touch wood, nothing so far. And I haven't found a concrete reason to attempt at looking up her chart.
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So what would you as a person look it up for ? I mean when do you actually think oh I need to look at this chart for what purpose?
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Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?

And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
It's hard being fixed!! 😭

(I'm fixed dominant)
So the question is do you still do it without looking up the person and/ or feel it instead? And still give it a chance.
I find that, without knowing the person's placements, I have a clearer focus for potential red flags that may come up.

Touch wood, nothing so far. And I haven't found a concrete reason to attempt at looking up her chart.
So what would you as a person look it up for ? I mean when do you actually think oh I need to look at this chart for what purpose?
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In the past, to see if there is any compatibility or any potential obstacles (squares, opposites, poor aspects). But with this one, there seems to be no need for that. For the question that you posed to me, for what purpose? On hindsight, finding out a person's chart only fed my fear of what I might find. With this one, I seem content to just go with the flow and let everything fall into its rightful place.
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Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?

And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
I've met people where I didn't even need to know their zodiac sign. The best way to know if you're compatible is to actually get to know them without charts.
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I do like to get to know people without charts also, but once they mention their birthday, I just gotta know more. I crave the knowledge because I really do believe astrology is an indicator of who will get along with whom. Knowledge is empowering. IMO. I can't ignore that. I feel like I would be cheating myself.
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Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?

And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
I've met people where I didn't even need to know their zodiac sign. The best way to know if you're compatible is to actually get to know them without charts.
I do like to get to know people without charts also, but once they mention their birthday, I just gotta know more. I crave the knowledge because I really do believe astrology is an indicator of who will get along with whom. Knowledge is empowering. IMO. I can't ignore that. I feel like I would be cheating myself.

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I can agree that knowledge is indeed empowering - but sometimes too much knowledge can be self-sabotaging.

Too much of anything can be bad.