@Ram416
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That moment when...
Not exactly, but I've had similar experiences. As a Taurus with Scorpio moon, me being friends with someone whose sun is Scorpio will usually end up in flames. It usually doesn't matter what the scorpio's moon is. Nothing against scorpios in general, but typically we are not compatible in the long run and things end horribly. But I hit it off with scorpios insanely well. It's just that when someone gets mad or irritated, it gets so ugly between us. So whenever I meet someone who I get along with well and feel like we have a connection, it's almost always a Scorpio. So sometimes I avoid the subject of astrology because I'm afraid to find out that they are a Scorpio. I want a miracle to happen and for me to have this kind of connection with someone who is not a Scorpio. But at the end of the day, i somehow always find out that they are a scorpio. I'm the kind of person who keeps an open mind and says "this time it'll be different" but it never is.
Posted by TabethaRose
Not exactly, but I've had similar experiences. As a Taurus with Scorpio moon, me being friends with someone whose sun is Scorpio will usually end up in flames. It usually doesn't matter what the scorpio's moon is. Nothing against scorpios in general, but typically we are not compatible in the long run and things end horribly. But I hit it off with scorpios insanely well. It's just that when someone gets mad or irritated, it gets so ugly between us. So whenever I meet someone who I get along with well and feel like we have a connection, it's almost always a Scorpio. So sometimes I avoid the subject of astrology because I'm afraid to find out that they are a Scorpio. I want a miracle to happen and for me to have this kind of connection with someone who is not a Scorpio. But at the end of the day, i somehow always find out that they are a scorpio. I'm the kind of person who keeps an open mind and says "this time it'll be different" but it never is.
I kind of have a similar experience as you lol.
Posted by tiziani
All the time.
I feel as if this time, just knowing her sun sign is enough for me. Although I still get that nagging (clue on what her sun is here) feeling she might have an air moon.
Still, I'd rather keep everything light and simple without knowing too much.
Posted by Koniuchaa
No, I always want to know Lol
But why?
Before bovine nation gets all agitated, my mom is taurus,
LOL @ bovine nation.
I do look it up for immediate family and close friends. And for a while I did it for potential love interests...but for some reason THIS ONE is different. It's like I don't feel like it anymore and I'd rather just work with the fact that she's an earth sun.
Posted by Koniuchaa
No, I always want to know LolBut why?
Just curiosity because I'm into astrology. I never judge anybody on it
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But do you ever ask yourself, why the curiosity? Why not leave it alone and go with the flow instead?
My Scorpio moon is just DYING to know..but something about this one keeps bugging me to just leave it.
I'm torn 😭
Posted by tiziani
Maybe this is the first time in a while you've met someone where you like them more than you like astrology.
Possibly...it's a great relief actually. She's not a big fan of astrology and even questions MBTI.
Posted by tiziani
Maybe this is the first time in a while you've met someone where you like them more than you like astrology.Possibly...it's a great relief actually. She's not a big fan of astrology and even questions MBTI.
Which is a good thing cause it's all downhill once they discover you have a Scorpio Moon.
Spare her the horror, Ram.
Spare. Her. The. Horror. lol
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LMAO!
I'll keep that in mind the next time astrology pops up in our conversations.
Posted by Ram416
Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
I've met people where I didn't even need to know their zodiac sign. The best way to know if you're compatible is to actually get to know them without charts.
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In this instance, this is what I prefer to do right now.
Update :
I just realised today, it's quite odd that in conversation I don't even think about asking her for her location of birth (I already know her date and country of birth).
I only start thinking about it if and when we are not in conversation.
Like something at the back of my mind keeps reminding me, "If you do this, you will never be satisfied."
Posted by Ram416
Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
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Posted by Ram416
Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
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It's hard being fixed!! 😭
(I'm fixed dominant)
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Posted by Ram416
Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
It's hard being fixed!! 😭
(I'm fixed dominant)
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So the question is do you still do it without looking up the person and/ or feel it instead? And still give it a chance.
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Posted by Ram416
Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
It's hard being fixed!! 😭
(I'm fixed dominant)
So the question is do you still do it without looking up the person and/ or feel it instead? And still give it a chance.
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I find that, without knowing the person's placements, I have a clearer focus for potential red flags that may come up.
Touch wood, nothing so far. And I haven't found a concrete reason to attempt at looking up her chart.
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Posted by Ram416
Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
It's hard being fixed!! 😭
(I'm fixed dominant)
So the question is do you still do it without looking up the person and/ or feel it instead? And still give it a chance.
I find that, without knowing the person's placements, I have a clearer focus for potential red flags that may come up.
Touch wood, nothing so far. And I haven't found a concrete reason to attempt at looking up her chart.
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So what would you as a person look it up for ? I mean when do you actually think oh I need to look at this chart for what purpose?
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Posted by Ram416
Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
Actually yeah I didn't know nothing of his sign or birthday but the actions were already making think twice. Sad but it's so struggling because I'm so fixed.
It's hard being fixed!! 😭
(I'm fixed dominant)
So the question is do you still do it without looking up the person and/ or feel it instead? And still give it a chance.
I find that, without knowing the person's placements, I have a clearer focus for potential red flags that may come up.
Touch wood, nothing so far. And I haven't found a concrete reason to attempt at looking up her chart.
So what would you as a person look it up for ? I mean when do you actually think oh I need to look at this chart for what purpose?
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In the past, to see if there is any compatibility or any potential obstacles (squares, opposites, poor aspects). But with this one, there seems to be no need for that. For the question that you posed to me, for what purpose? On hindsight, finding out a person's chart only fed my fear of what I might find. With this one, I seem content to just go with the flow and let everything fall into its rightful place.
Posted by Ram416
Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
I've met people where I didn't even need to know their zodiac sign. The best way to know if you're compatible is to actually get to know them without charts.
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I do like to get to know people without charts also, but once they mention their birthday, I just gotta know more. I crave the knowledge because I really do believe astrology is an indicator of who will get along with whom. Knowledge is empowering. IMO. I can't ignore that. I feel like I would be cheating myself.
Update :
So today she told me her placements...without me asking.
FML lol.
But we discussed it and decided we won't go further down that path. To just let things be and move on together and grow together.
So she knows I'm a Scorpio moon now, but doesn't know my mars, mercury or venus. And we're keeping that way.
@tiziani She has your Mars and elle's Venus lol
Posted by Ram416
Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?
I've met people where I didn't even need to know their zodiac sign. The best way to know if you're compatible is to actually get to know them without charts.
I do like to get to know people without charts also, but once they mention their birthday, I just gotta know more. I crave the knowledge because I really do believe astrology is an indicator of who will get along with whom. Knowledge is empowering. IMO. I can't ignore that. I feel like I would be cheating myself.
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I can agree that knowledge is indeed empowering - but sometimes too much knowledge can be self-sabotaging.
Too much of anything can be bad.
Yeah true.
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Have you ever had this moment when, you meet someone interesting...and you just don't want to find out their placements on their natal chart?
And you feel like there's really no need to, you know her sun sign already and that's enough for now. So what would be the rationale you would use?