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What is a Venus in Scorpio like?
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Posted by Toti
The most Possessive and jealous people have Venus in Scorpio. My best friend has it. She is always in a sort of a romantic drama. She isn't romantic, but she expects much from her partners. Two failed marriages. She cheated in all her relationships. Perhaps is more due to Venus square mars placement than Venus in Scorpio. I don't know... But, she can't find happiness in love for some reason.
maybe its her venus square mars.
or just her ..
Posted by Jade_Alexander
I have a Scorpio Venus...
I’m not particularly romantic..
I don’t fall for many, I’m super guarded and I really have only loved two or three men my entire life and I struggled to vocalize it.
When I do fall in love I want the whole thing... not some semi commitment
Yeah.
It’s very painful... falling in love, very painful ):
Posted by GC06Posted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06
My Libra has Scorpio Venus ❤️
Him: I’m going to make a fake Instagram account and stalk you.
Me: I don’t add ppl I don’t know.
Him: I will slowly gain your trust and then get you to leave your bf. Then you will find out it’s me again!! Hahahahaha stuck with me! 😈❤️
i missed this one xd
jeeezz... that scorpio venus on a man is terrible sometimes xd
LoL, I’m okay with it. 🤷🏻♀️click to expand
one of the best definitions of that venus in a man is this..
"And men with Venus in Scorpio search exactly for that kind of woman, with sadness in her eyes and a scar on her heart, the one they want to save and turn to joy. Ok, they do exaggerate afterwards and demand that she ONLY laughs for them and when she is with them, to only give THAT smile to him and nobody else, to have that word JUST for him and that voice, that sexiness that others just can’t resist.""
-peric
my man gets very very jealous if i even laugh at other people's jokes too. he gets short and angry.
he knows its unreasonable and stupid but he can't help himself.
Posted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_Alexander
I have a Scorpio Venus...
I’m not particularly romantic..
I don’t fall for many, I’m super guarded and I really have only loved two or three men my entire life and I struggled to vocalize it.
When I do fall in love I want the whole thing... not some semi commitment
Yeah.
It’s very painful... falling in love, very painful ):click to expand
for women ..it's how she flirts... usually. my mother and sister have this.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_Alexander
I have a Scorpio Venus...
I’m not particularly romantic..
I don’t fall for many, I’m super guarded and I really have only loved two or three men my entire life and I struggled to vocalize it.
When I do fall in love I want the whole thing... not some semi commitment
Yeah.
It’s very painful... falling in love, very painful ):
for women ..it's how she flirts... usually. my mother and sister have this.
click to expand
Not how she feel!?
Posted by GC06Posted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06Posted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06
My Libra has Scorpio Venus ❤️
Him: I’m going to make a fake Instagram account and stalk you.
Me: I don’t add ppl I don’t know.
Him: I will slowly gain your trust and then get you to leave your bf. Then you will find out it’s me again!! Hahahahaha stuck with me! 😈❤️
i missed this one xd
jeeezz... that scorpio venus on a man is terrible sometimes xd
LoL, I’m okay with it. 🤷🏻♀️
one of the best definitions of that venus in a man is this..
"And men with Venus in Scorpio search exactly for that kind of woman, with sadness in her eyes and a scar on her heart, the one they want to save and turn to joy. Ok, they do exaggerate afterwards and demand that she ONLY laughs for them and when she is with them, to only give THAT smile to him and nobody else, to have that word JUST for him and that voice, that sexiness that others just can’t resist.""
-peric
my man gets very very jealous if i even laugh at other people's jokes too. he gets short and angry.
he knows its unreasonable and stupid but he can't help himself.
Awww he cares for you so much, I can tell.❤️
Your lucky to have a possessive guy.
My Libra is still an air sign even with his Scorpio Venus he gives me lots of freedom to be my own person but sometimes that feeling of freedom can turn to feelings of loneliness.
click to expand
mine also gives me alot of freedom.
maybe it's his fire because fire is "independence"
while air is "freedom" Just different denfintions but similar.
and while i write that about him, i am extremely double standards myself. I get highly jealous and possessive and he calls me out on it. So, who am i to say? LOL
its like we can't see our own reflection unless we call out eachother.
Posted by HaruukaPosted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_Alexander
I have a Scorpio Venus...
I’m not particularly romantic..
I don’t fall for many, I’m super guarded and I really have only loved two or three men my entire life and I struggled to vocalize it.
When I do fall in love I want the whole thing... not some semi commitment
Yeah.
It’s very painful... falling in love, very painful ):
for women ..it's how she flirts... usually. my mother and sister have this.
Not how she feel!?click to expand
maybe combination. with their moons too?
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_Alexander
I have a Scorpio Venus...
I’m not particularly romantic..
I don’t fall for many, I’m super guarded and I really have only loved two or three men my entire life and I struggled to vocalize it.
When I do fall in love I want the whole thing... not some semi commitment
Yeah.
It’s very painful... falling in love, very painful ):
for women ..it's how she flirts... usually. my mother and sister have this.
Not how she feel!?
maybe combination. with their moons too?
I would think mars is more the flirt style since it shows our lusty tendenciesclick to expand
well generally it is the type of man you choose. for a woman it's sun/mars combination.
but i guess the houses flavour that too.
sun and mars in libra for example like a nice well behaved man lol
what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by lisabethur8
what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.click to expand
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by lisabethur8Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_Alexander
I have a Scorpio Venus...
I’m not particularly romantic..
I don’t fall for many, I’m super guarded and I really have only loved two or three men my entire life and I struggled to vocalize it.
When I do fall in love I want the whole thing... not some semi commitment
Yeah.
It’s very painful... falling in love, very painful ):
for women ..it's how she flirts... usually. my mother and sister have this.
Not how she feel!?
maybe combination. with their moons too?
I would think mars is more the flirt style since it shows our lusty tendencies
well generally it is the type of man you choose. for a woman it's sun/mars combination.
but i guess the houses flavour that too.
sun and mars in libra for example like a nice well behaved man lol
My mars is Capricorn... what does that mean?click to expand
that u have maybe a t-square? lol
libra sun, cap mars...
and maybe another cardinal in your chart. ;p
Posted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06Posted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06
My Libra has Scorpio Venus ❤️
Him: I’m going to make a fake Instagram account and stalk you.
Me: I don’t add ppl I don’t know.
Him: I will slowly gain your trust and then get you to leave your bf. Then you will find out it’s me again!! Hahahahaha stuck with me! 😈❤️
i missed this one xd
jeeezz... that scorpio venus on a man is terrible sometimes xd
LoL, I’m okay with it. 🤷🏻♀️
one of the best definitions of that venus in a man is this..
"And men with Venus in Scorpio search exactly for that kind of woman, with sadness in her eyes and a scar on her heart, the one they want to save and turn to joy. Ok, they do exaggerate afterwards and demand that she ONLY laughs for them and when she is with them, to only give THAT smile to him and nobody else, to have that word JUST for him and that voice, that sexiness that others just can’t resist.""
-peric
my man gets very very jealous if i even laugh at other people's jokes too. he gets short and angry.
he knows its unreasonable and stupid but he can't help himself.
Relatable. Ex gf has Venus in Scorpio and she really hated it when I was having good convo and laughing with other women. She said I was entertaining hoes in front of her, but I just loved meeting peopleclick to expand
i rarely meet other people...
but it's just that if i laugh and he sees me having fun. it angers him lol
he really wants me to laugh only for him...that i revolve around his whole world.
it can't be helped xd
its cool. i deal with it all the time ...
Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by lisabethur8Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by lisabethur8
what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Well, you are with him, aren't you? 😛click to expand
he said i think once i like pain in relationships.
and i'm like....who is he talking to? himself— 😆
Posted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06Posted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06
My Libra has Scorpio Venus ❤️
Him: I’m going to make a fake Instagram account and stalk you.
Me: I don’t add ppl I don’t know.
Him: I will slowly gain your trust and then get you to leave your bf. Then you will find out it’s me again!! Hahahahaha stuck with me! 😈❤️
i missed this one xd
jeeezz... that scorpio venus on a man is terrible sometimes xd
LoL, I’m okay with it. 🤷🏻♀️
one of the best definitions of that venus in a man is this..
"And men with Venus in Scorpio search exactly for that kind of woman, with sadness in her eyes and a scar on her heart, the one they want to save and turn to joy. Ok, they do exaggerate afterwards and demand that she ONLY laughs for them and when she is with them, to only give THAT smile to him and nobody else, to have that word JUST for him and that voice, that sexiness that others just can’t resist.""
-peric
my man gets very very jealous if i even laugh at other people's jokes too. he gets short and angry.
he knows its unreasonable and stupid but he can't help himself.
Relatable. Ex gf has Venus in Scorpio and she really hated it when I was having good convo and laughing with other women. She said I was entertaining hoes in front of her, but I just loved meeting people
i rarely meet other people...
but it's just that if i laugh and he sees me having fun. it angers him lol
he really wants me to laugh only for him...that i revolve around his whole world.
it can't be helped xd
its cool. i deal with it all the time ...
Yea I know what you mean. I have a tendency to start talking to strangers if they look like they want to talk especially at bars. If they’re women I remembered that if we were having a good time, she’d glare at me and eventually come up and introduce herself aggressively to the woman or sit next to me and look at her. If I smiled at another woman and laughed with her, all hell went loose when we got home😂click to expand
i would be jealous and pissed off too at you.
jesus. u are just itching for a fight.
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by lisabethur8Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by lisabethur8Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_Alexander
I have a Scorpio Venus...
I’m not particularly romantic..
I don’t fall for many, I’m super guarded and I really have only loved two or three men my entire life and I struggled to vocalize it.
When I do fall in love I want the whole thing... not some semi commitment
Yeah.
It’s very painful... falling in love, very painful ):
for women ..it's how she flirts... usually. my mother and sister have this.
Not how she feel!?
maybe combination. with their moons too?
I would think mars is more the flirt style since it shows our lusty tendencies
well generally it is the type of man you choose. for a woman it's sun/mars combination.
but i guess the houses flavour that too.
sun and mars in libra for example like a nice well behaved man lol
My mars is Capricorn... what does that mean?
that u have maybe a t-square? lol
libra sun, cap mars...
and maybe another cardinal in your chart. ;p
Sun libra
Moon Gemini
Venus Scorpio
Mars Capricorn
I just read somewhere Capricorn Mars liked to get spanked and I was like YUP!click to expand
uhhhh lol maybe just u. ;p
Well, I'm a Scorpio Venus that conjucts Scorpio Mercury and Scorpio Pluto. On top of that, my Venus squares my Saturn... So, I'm stuck loving people more than they love me. I never think of people being interested in me and I often get into relationships that feel one-sided. I feel like I can only get a relationship if I were the only one giving love and someone can put up with me. I want to receive and be loved the hell out of like anyone else, but I even struggle to get treated like I exist. I come on too intense and each relationship with a person means a lot to me. The biggest struggle is that relationships in my life don't happen unless I happen and it’s hard to maintain long relationships when I want to be with myself. I can initially be great with people I put myself into, but that’s it for the ride.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_Alexander
I have a Scorpio Venus...
I’m not particularly romantic..
I don’t fall for many, I’m super guarded and I really have only loved two or three men my entire life and I struggled to vocalize it.
When I do fall in love I want the whole thing... not some semi commitment
Yeah.
It’s very painful... falling in love, very painful ):
for women ..it's how she flirts... usually. my mother and sister have this.
Not how she feel!?
maybe combination. with their moons too?click to expand
Maybe
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
CuddleBug like.
Wolfs...whatcha mean by this? lol.
I'm not a jelly lover...the whole not opening up quickly fits more with me lol.
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingPosted by CuddleBug88Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
CuddleBug like.
Wolfs...whatcha mean by this? lol.
I'm not a jelly lover...the whole not opening up quickly fits more with me lol.
I mean positivity, bunch of smiles and funny stories. What did you think?click to expand
For Venus in Scorp? Okay girly! lol...I'll take it, but pretty sure that's my Sag side! 😉😂🙃
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingPosted by CuddleBug88Posted by WolfInRamsClothingPosted by CuddleBug88Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
CuddleBug like.
Wolfs...whatcha mean by this? lol.
I'm not a jelly lover...the whole not opening up quickly fits more with me lol.
I mean positivity, bunch of smiles and funny stories. What did you think?
For Venus in Scorp? Okay girly! lol...I'll take it, but pretty sure that's my Sag side! 😉😂🙃
Lol hold on, I thought it's about sag moon post lol!!! In this post I just wanted to get your attention, so you could answer. Lol!! Sorry.click to expand
NOW the truth comes out! hahahah, jk. Lubs ya wolfs!
Idk man...I'm not really jealous. I want someone independent enough so we can both do our own thing. I am oblivious to subtle hints, best to be straight up w/me and I'll be the same w/you.
Posted by peachy06Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by peachy06Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by peachy06Posted by lisabethur8Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by lisabethur8
what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.click to expand
i haven't researched any FEMALE retro ViS... but there's a few MALE Vis retrogrades.
like Ethan Hawke...
he stayed married to the 2nd wife after he left the 1st.?
so i dont know what's up with that.
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by lisabethur8Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by lisabethur8Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by lisabethur8Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by lisabethur8Posted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_Alexander
I have a Scorpio Venus...
I’m not particularly romantic..
I don’t fall for many, I’m super guarded and I really have only loved two or three men my entire life and I struggled to vocalize it.
When I do fall in love I want the whole thing... not some semi commitment
Yeah.
It’s very painful... falling in love, very painful ):
for women ..it's how she flirts... usually. my mother and sister have this.
Not how she feel!?
maybe combination. with their moons too?
I would think mars is more the flirt style since it shows our lusty tendencies
well generally it is the type of man you choose. for a woman it's sun/mars combination.
but i guess the houses flavour that too.
sun and mars in libra for example like a nice well behaved man lol
My mars is Capricorn... what does that mean?
that u have maybe a t-square? lol
libra sun, cap mars...
and maybe another cardinal in your chart. ;p
Sun libra
Moon Gemini
Venus Scorpio
Mars Capricorn
I just read somewhere Capricorn Mars liked to get spanked and I was like YUP!
uhhhh lol maybe just u. ;p
I read it online, so it must be factual!click to expand
it depends on the individual lol
that individual who wrote that probably was into sado masochism
Posted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06Posted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06
My Libra has Scorpio Venus ❤️
Him: I’m going to make a fake Instagram account and stalk you.
Me: I don’t add ppl I don’t know.
Him: I will slowly gain your trust and then get you to leave your bf. Then you will find out it’s me again!! Hahahahaha stuck with me! 😈❤️
i missed this one xd
jeeezz... that scorpio venus on a man is terrible sometimes xd
LoL, I’m okay with it. 🤷🏻♀️
one of the best definitions of that venus in a man is this..
"And men with Venus in Scorpio search exactly for that kind of woman, with sadness in her eyes and a scar on her heart, the one they want to save and turn to joy. Ok, they do exaggerate afterwards and demand that she ONLY laughs for them and when she is with them, to only give THAT smile to him and nobody else, to have that word JUST for him and that voice, that sexiness that others just can’t resist.""
-peric
my man gets very very jealous if i even laugh at other people's jokes too. he gets short and angry.
he knows its unreasonable and stupid but he can't help himself.
Relatable. Ex gf has Venus in Scorpio and she really hated it when I was having good convo and laughing with other women. She said I was entertaining hoes in front of her, but I just loved meeting people
i rarely meet other people...
but it's just that if i laugh and he sees me having fun. it angers him lol
he really wants me to laugh only for him...that i revolve around his whole world.
it can't be helped xd
its cool. i deal with it all the time ...
Yea I know what you mean. I have a tendency to start talking to strangers if they look like they want to talk especially at bars. If they’re women I remembered that if we were having a good time, she’d glare at me and eventually come up and introduce herself aggressively to the woman or sit next to me and look at her. If I smiled at another woman and laughed with her, all hell went loose when we got home😂
i would be jealous and pissed off too at you.
jesus. u are just itching for a fight.
I never understood the problem with that because I talked to everyone. Even guys, there were no exceptions of who I talked to. I mean I talked to random men at the bars and we laughed and made jokes and I bought them shots too🤷🏻♂️
Also should mention I have Aries Venus lol with lots of Air in my communication areaclick to expand
I can understand why you didn't understand it -- I don't either. I have Scorpio Venus and that wouldn't bother me. I've dated men who are very friendly in general and I knew it wasn't anything to be worried about.
Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by lisabethur8Posted by peachy06Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by peachy06Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by peachy06Posted by lisabethur8Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by lisabethur8
what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
i haven't researched any FEMALE retro ViS... but there's a few MALE Vis retrogrades.
like Ethan Hawke...
he stayed married to the 2nd wife after he left the 1st.?
so i dont know what's up with that.
Roger Waters (Pink Floyd) also has a retrograde Venus and you can watch the movie The Wall to see how well that went for him.click to expand
lol jesus he's also Scorpio moon and scorpio mercury ;p
ok i just read a bit on his first wife,
he did alot of INFIDELITIES....lol
his first wife, was a libra sun.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judith_Trim
(i did her chart ...cause i got curious. Libra sun/pisces moon, Virgo venus virgo mercury, Gemini mars)
and he's virgo sun/scorpio moon gemini mars scorpio venus retrograde.
i told u...the men..they get BORED of women easily.
so far alot of CHEATING .. lol
so far alot of CHEATING .. lol
Posted by DreamyboyPosted by CopperDovePosted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06Posted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06
My Libra has Scorpio Venus ❤️
Him: I’m going to make a fake Instagram account and stalk you.
Me: I don’t add ppl I don’t know.
Him: I will slowly gain your trust and then get you to leave your bf. Then you will find out it’s me again!! Hahahahaha stuck with me! 😈❤️
i missed this one xd
jeeezz... that scorpio venus on a man is terrible sometimes xd
LoL, I’m okay with it. 🤷🏻♀️
one of the best definitions of that venus in a man is this..
"And men with Venus in Scorpio search exactly for that kind of woman, with sadness in her eyes and a scar on her heart, the one they want to save and turn to joy. Ok, they do exaggerate afterwards and demand that she ONLY laughs for them and when she is with them, to only give THAT smile to him and nobody else, to have that word JUST for him and that voice, that sexiness that others just can’t resist.""
-peric
my man gets very very jealous if i even laugh at other people's jokes too. he gets short and angry.
he knows its unreasonable and stupid but he can't help himself.
Relatable. Ex gf has Venus in Scorpio and she really hated it when I was having good convo and laughing with other women. She said I was entertaining hoes in front of her, but I just loved meeting people
i rarely meet other people...
but it's just that if i laugh and he sees me having fun. it angers him lol
he really wants me to laugh only for him...that i revolve around his whole world.
it can't be helped xd
its cool. i deal with it all the time ...
Yea I know what you mean. I have a tendency to start talking to strangers if they look like they want to talk especially at bars. If they’re women I remembered that if we were having a good time, she’d glare at me and eventually come up and introduce herself aggressively to the woman or sit next to me and look at her. If I smiled at another woman and laughed with her, all hell went loose when we got home😂
i would be jealous and pissed off too at you.
jesus. u are just itching for a fight.
I never understood the problem with that because I talked to everyone. Even guys, there were no exceptions of who I talked to. I mean I talked to random men at the bars and we laughed and made jokes and I bought them shots too🤷🏻♂️
Also should mention I have Aries Venus lol with lots of Air in my communication area
I can understand why you didn't understand it -- I don't either. I have Scorpio Venus and that wouldn't bother me. I've dated men who are very friendly in general and I knew it wasn't anything to be worried about.
I talk to and give alcohol to anyone who could entertain me at bars a lot. Maybe she was upset I was wasting money on strangers😬 she was half Chinese lolclick to expand
haha, maybe that too, but if she took issue in particular when you interacted with women, that seems more like jealousy.
One guy I was involved with told me that one of the women he dated didn't like how he talked in a friendly way to strangers when they were out together. I wasn't there to witness exactly how he acted with her, of course, but when I was out with him he did what he described that he had done with her, and it never bothered me. He didn't interrupt important conversations with me to do it, or anything like that, he just was very friendly and curious about people. His ex, he explained to me, didn't like him focusing on anything other than her. I stay away from people who are possessive that way, and jealous types. Run run run. lol
Posted by DreamyboyPosted by CopperDovePosted by DreamyboyPosted by CopperDovePosted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by DreamyboyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06Posted by lisabethur8Posted by GC06
My Libra has Scorpio Venus ❤️
Him: I’m going to make a fake Instagram account and stalk you.
Me: I don’t add ppl I don’t know.
Him: I will slowly gain your trust and then get you to leave your bf. Then you will find out it’s me again!! Hahahahaha stuck with me! 😈❤️
i missed this one xd
jeeezz... that scorpio venus on a man is terrible sometimes xd
LoL, I’m okay with it. 🤷🏻♀️
one of the best definitions of that venus in a man is this..
"And men with Venus in Scorpio search exactly for that kind of woman, with sadness in her eyes and a scar on her heart, the one they want to save and turn to joy. Ok, they do exaggerate afterwards and demand that she ONLY laughs for them and when she is with them, to only give THAT smile to him and nobody else, to have that word JUST for him and that voice, that sexiness that others just can’t resist.""
-peric
my man gets very very jealous if i even laugh at other people's jokes too. he gets short and angry.
he knows its unreasonable and stupid but he can't help himself.
Relatable. Ex gf has Venus in Scorpio and she really hated it when I was having good convo and laughing with other women. She said I was entertaining hoes in front of her, but I just loved meeting people
i rarely meet other people...
but it's just that if i laugh and he sees me having fun. it angers him lol
he really wants me to laugh only for him...that i revolve around his whole world.
it can't be helped xd
its cool. i deal with it all the time ...
Yea I know what you mean. I have a tendency to start talking to strangers if they look like they want to talk especially at bars. If they’re women I remembered that if we were having a good time, she’d glare at me and eventually come up and introduce herself aggressively to the woman or sit next to me and look at her. If I smiled at another woman and laughed with her, all hell went loose when we got home😂
i would be jealous and pissed off too at you.
jesus. u are just itching for a fight.
I never understood the problem with that because I talked to everyone. Even guys, there were no exceptions of who I talked to. I mean I talked to random men at the bars and we laughed and made jokes and I bought them shots too🤷🏻♂️
Also should mention I have Aries Venus lol with lots of Air in my communication area
I can understand why you didn't understand it -- I don't either. I have Scorpio Venus and that wouldn't bother me. I've dated men who are very friendly in general and I knew it wasn't anything to be worried about.
I talk to and give alcohol to anyone who could entertain me at bars a lot. Maybe she was upset I was wasting money on strangers😬 she was half Chinese lol
haha, maybe that too, but if she took issue in particular when you interacted with women, that seems more like jealousy.
One guy I was involved with told me that one of the women he dated didn't like how he talked in a friendly way to strangers when they were out together. I wasn't there to witness exactly how he acted with her, of course, but when I was out with him he did what he described that he had done with her, and it never bothered me. He didn't interrupt important conversations with me to do it, or anything like that, he just was very friendly and curious about people. His ex, he explained to me, didn't like him focusing on anything other than her. I stay away from people who are possessive that way, and jealous types. Run run run. lol
I might’ve had the same situation as him. Her jealousy was so far out that there was a situation I remembered where I heard a lady yelling “Help” in a parking lot. It wasn’t life or death by the sound of it, but it sounded like a couple bickering from the bar and my ex literally got angry at me that I wanted to help her. Then we ended up arguing in my car and we ended up leaving.
But yea, she had no problem with me talking to guys, but if he was a she, that’s a different story LOL actually there were also a couple of guys she was jealous of, which were my good male friends. She’d say, “how come you never talk to me like how you talk to them?!” Which was different because these were my guys, my brothers in arms! I’d even not say hi to women I knew in public just so I wouldn’t have to deal with the headache 🤕click to expand
Wow, she was extreme for sure. Stifling.
In high school I had a friend who had a very jealous and possessive boyfriend. She told me, after they broke up, that the times she was with him and talking to me and our other friends, he would gradually squeeze her hand harder and harder until it hurt her to let her know he didn't like her to be talking to us more than a very short time. I remember how he always seemed to want to hold her hand while she was talking to us, and how she would look uncomfortable increasingly, but I didn't know why until she told me later. :/
Venus in Scorpio--- dating someone with this currently, he's a scorpio dominant.
What I've gathered is he is very guarded, not much of a giver, has high expectations, will completely withdraw aka ghost if he is feeling upset/stressed, he's petty but isn't too possessive thus far but recently we went to a day bar and I think the bartender may have been flirting with me because he did start to hug up on me after that lolz he expects to be replied to swiftly and for me to be honest, he is very perceptive and can see beyond what I tell him so I try to be honest always. He is very distrusting as well but I know he's been really hurt in the past so Im very patient with him as he opens up but its hard sometimes. He's hard to read and he's very introverted.
He's not big for large displays of drama, fights or even too much affection in public but simple PDA he will do. He is sweet and thoughtful, he tests me often but I dismiss it, he asks questions to get a certain answer out of me but as long as I tell the truth I have nothing to worry about and he trusts me more as he sees that Im not lying to him. I think he thinks I can mindread which I cannot, so at times he needs to spell things out for me. I spell them out for him too. Time and distance mean nothing, we have gone 3 weeks without speaking to each other on bad terms and when we talked again it was like those 3 weeks never happened. We get along pretty well for the most part and I like how we talk about what bothers us or "fight" in a calm, conversational way so that we really aren't fighting and there's a lot of peace between us actually. I do believe he may not be easily bothered by "pain" in a relationship, he's really put up with some of my shit lol but I've never done anything too bad either. I think it is just optimism and giving love another chance but with that same person, only.
Im hopeful he will open up more and over time become more giving, Im a Scorpio too and it takes me time to fully open up and give as well, I like to see how much the person will do for me first but in this case we are the same so Im hopeful that he will eventually ease up some more. I've learned that he likes me to take the lead, he wants me to say what I want, how, and decide it for us. This is hard for me because I like to be submissive but I can easily be bossy as well, i just prefer to let my man lead. I think its nice he wants to please me that much although he is still resistant to giving. Im a huge giver, so Im hoping to continue this with balance and not give too much where it is one-sided, so far it has not been. I think the key is to let it all happen naturally, he comes in doses but daily, recharges and is honest if I ask him. So far I think he's a good one but I do want to receive more from him, I am also demanding I guess lol.
Im scorpio sun, libra moon, sag venus
He is scorpio sun, leo moon and scorpio venus
What I've gathered is he is very guarded, not much of a giver, has high expectations, will completely withdraw aka ghost if he is feeling upset/stressed, he's petty but isn't too possessive thus far but recently we went to a day bar and I think the bartender may have been flirting with me because he did start to hug up on me after that lolz he expects to be replied to swiftly and for me to be honest, he is very perceptive and can see beyond what I tell him so I try to be honest always. He is very distrusting as well but I know he's been really hurt in the past so Im very patient with him as he opens up but its hard sometimes. He's hard to read and he's very introverted.
He's not big for large displays of drama, fights or even too much affection in public but simple PDA he will do. He is sweet and thoughtful, he tests me often but I dismiss it, he asks questions to get a certain answer out of me but as long as I tell the truth I have nothing to worry about and he trusts me more as he sees that Im not lying to him. I think he thinks I can mindread which I cannot, so at times he needs to spell things out for me. I spell them out for him too. Time and distance mean nothing, we have gone 3 weeks without speaking to each other on bad terms and when we talked again it was like those 3 weeks never happened. We get along pretty well for the most part and I like how we talk about what bothers us or "fight" in a calm, conversational way so that we really aren't fighting and there's a lot of peace between us actually. I do believe he may not be easily bothered by "pain" in a relationship, he's really put up with some of my shit lol but I've never done anything too bad either. I think it is just optimism and giving love another chance but with that same person, only.
Im hopeful he will open up more and over time become more giving, Im a Scorpio too and it takes me time to fully open up and give as well, I like to see how much the person will do for me first but in this case we are the same so Im hopeful that he will eventually ease up some more. I've learned that he likes me to take the lead, he wants me to say what I want, how, and decide it for us. This is hard for me because I like to be submissive but I can easily be bossy as well, i just prefer to let my man lead. I think its nice he wants to please me that much although he is still resistant to giving. Im a huge giver, so Im hoping to continue this with balance and not give too much where it is one-sided, so far it has not been. I think the key is to let it all happen naturally, he comes in doses but daily, recharges and is honest if I ask him. So far I think he's a good one but I do want to receive more from him, I am also demanding I guess lol.
Im scorpio sun, libra moon, sag venus
He is scorpio sun, leo moon and scorpio venus
i'm not particularly jealous.
then again, he knows i will fucking cut him if he ever decides to leave me for someone else.
then again, he knows i will fucking cut him if he ever decides to leave me for someone else.
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.click to expand
I don't mind the 'suffering in love' aspect until I get what I want in the end, it just makes the person more worth it, in my opinion. As far as being too calm, there's no such thing. I'm a Sag so I need a little excitement, stability and things being easy going for my Venus. I don't even mind boring people, as long as for up for doing things when I want to go on vacation or some type of adventure.
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
That is my choice as well.
Seems to be a general theme for people with a retrograde Venus. We are forced to learn to stand on our own without all the lovy dovy stuff.
Yeah it kinda seem like that. Usually I love from afar, so I won't be hurt or disappointed. "Serious" relationships are not for me. Flirting is okay, tho.
Yeah, as long as I know it will never become serious in any form I'm okay with it.
You're a good one !
I think that's debatable but thanks.click to expand
I swear! Retrograde Venus is hard! 😢
@peachy06 you both prove yourself right every time by standing still and not risking much! smh. Such a shame!
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
That is my choice as well.
Seems to be a general theme for people with a retrograde Venus. We are forced to learn to stand on our own without all the lovy dovy stuff.
Yeah it kinda seem like that. Usually I love from afar, so I won't be hurt or disappointed. "Serious" relationships are not for me. Flirting is okay, tho.
Yeah, as long as I know it will never become serious in any form I'm okay with it.
You're a good one !
I think that's debatable but thanks.
I swear! Retrograde Venus is hard! 😢
@peachy06 you both prove yourself right every time by standing still and not risking much! smh. Such a shame!
It has nothing to do with taking a risk or not.
It's just not worth all the drama.click to expand
What drama is that? You guys create you own drama anyways with all the self sabotaging! 😛
I do want to know what you mean by drama still 🙂
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
That is my choice as well.
Seems to be a general theme for people with a retrograde Venus. We are forced to learn to stand on our own without all the lovy dovy stuff.
Yeah it kinda seem like that. Usually I love from afar, so I won't be hurt or disappointed. "Serious" relationships are not for me. Flirting is okay, tho.
Yeah, as long as I know it will never become serious in any form I'm okay with it.
You're a good one !
I think that's debatable but thanks.
I swear! Retrograde Venus is hard! 😢
@peachy06 you both prove yourself right every time by standing still and not risking much! smh. Such a shame!
It has nothing to do with taking a risk or not.
It's just not worth all the drama.
What drama is that? You guys create you own drama anyways with all the self sabotaging! 😛
I do want to know what you mean by drama still 🙂
In a relationship we outsource an aspect we should learn to give ourselves on our own.
Dependency will always create drama. Simply because that other person will leave you at some point and you would have to through the whole process again.
Why settle for the inferior substitute if you can have something self-sustaining?click to expand
The other person doesn't always have to leave. There are choices in the matter. But self sabotage and sustaining is best! - ***Rolling eyes**If you can't tell I'm being VERY sarcastic lol
What aspect is being outsourced? Love? There's plenty to go around if that's what you were referring to. Lots to share! 😛
Or dependency? When I'm in a relationship I don't have dependency on them. I still remain independent, so if it's that, I don't understand that aspect, cause it's never happened to me and will never. I will always love and choose me first, the other person second. When i'm happy, I will make you happy. Moral of the story- keep me happy 😛
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My Libra has Scorpio Venus ❤️
Him: I’m going to make a fake Instagram account and stalk you.
Me: I don’t add ppl I don’t know.
Him: I will slowly gain your trust and then get you to leave your bf. Then you will find out it’s me again!! Hahahahaha stuck with me! 😈❤️
i missed this one xd
jeeezz... that scorpio venus on a man is terrible sometimes xd
LoL, I’m okay with it. 🤷🏻♀️
one of the best definitions of that venus in a man is this..
"And men with Venus in Scorpio search exactly for that kind of woman, with sadness in her eyes and a scar on her heart, the one they want to save and turn to joy. Ok, they do exaggerate afterwards and demand that she ONLY laughs for them and when she is with them, to only give THAT smile to him and nobody else, to have that word JUST for him and that voice, that sexiness that others just can’t resist.""
-peric
my man gets very very jealous if i even laugh at other people's jokes too. he gets short and angry.
he knows its unreasonable and stupid but he can't help himself.
Relatable. Ex gf has Venus in Scorpio and she really hated it when I was having good convo and laughing with other women. She said I was entertaining hoes in front of her, but I just loved meeting people
i rarely meet other people...
but it's just that if i laugh and he sees me having fun. it angers him lol
he really wants me to laugh only for him...that i revolve around his whole world.
it can't be helped xd
its cool. i deal with it all the time ...
Yea I know what you mean. I have a tendency to start talking to strangers if they look like they want to talk especially at bars. If they’re women I remembered that if we were having a good time, she’d glare at me and eventually come up and introduce herself aggressively to the woman or sit next to me and look at her. If I smiled at another woman and laughed with her, all hell went loose when we got home😂
i would be jealous and pissed off too at you.
jesus. u are just itching for a fight.
I never understood the problem with that because I talked to everyone. Even guys, there were no exceptions of who I talked to. I mean I talked to random men at the bars and we laughed and made jokes and I bought them shots too🤷🏻♂️
Also should mention I have Aries Venus lol with lots of Air in my communication area
I can understand why you didn't understand it -- I don't either. I have Scorpio Venus and that wouldn't bother me. I've dated men who are very friendly in general and I knew it wasn't anything to be worried about.
I talk to and give alcohol to anyone who could entertain me at bars a lot. Maybe she was upset I was wasting money on strangers😬 she was half Chinese lol
haha, maybe that too, but if she took issue in particular when you interacted with women, that seems more like jealousy.
One guy I was involved with told me that one of the women he dated didn't like how he talked in a friendly way to strangers when they were out together. I wasn't there to witness exactly how he acted with her, of course, but when I was out with him he did what he described that he had done with her, and it never bothered me. He didn't interrupt important conversations with me to do it, or anything like that, he just was very friendly and curious about people. His ex, he explained to me, didn't like him focusing on anything other than her. I stay away from people who are possessive that way, and jealous types. Run run run. lol
I might’ve had the same situation as him. Her jealousy was so far out that there was a situation I remembered where I heard a lady yelling “Help” in a parking lot. It wasn’t life or death by the sound of it, but it sounded like a couple bickering from the bar and my ex literally got angry at me that I wanted to help her. Then we ended up arguing in my car and we ended up leaving.
But yea, she had no problem with me talking to guys, but if he was a she, that’s a different story LOL actually there were also a couple of guys she was jealous of, which were my good male friends. She’d say, “how come you never talk to me like how you talk to them?!” Which was different because these were my guys, my brothers in arms! I’d even not say hi to women I knew in public just so I wouldn’t have to deal with the headache 🤕
Wow, she was extreme for sure. Stifling.
In high school I had a friend who had a very jealous and possessive boyfriend. She told me, after they broke up, that the times she was with him and talking to me and our other friends, he would gradually squeeze her hand harder and harder until it hurt her to let her know he didn't like her to be talking to us more than a very short time. I remember how he always seemed to want to hold her hand while she was talking to us, and how she would look uncomfortable increasingly, but I didn't know why until she told me later. :/
Wow that’s outright physical abuse. Coming from me, I have a strong grip and I can’t even imagine clenching down on a woman’s hand like that. That’s way too much control that needed to be emphasized :/click to expand
Yes! He probably wasn't as strong as you, but definitely he was a lot bigger than her and she had very small hands so he could damage them if he really wanted to. He did other bad things too. Very abusive. It's good that when she broke up with him he didn't attack her. He showed up at her family's house, when only she was at home, crying and pleading, but I had talked to her beforehand and told her that if he did something like that (I figured he would), to not let him in, no matter what he said, and to call the police if needed. He fortunately didn't keep it up for long, or threaten her.
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
That is my choice as well.
Seems to be a general theme for people with a retrograde Venus. We are forced to learn to stand on our own without all the lovy dovy stuff.
Yeah it kinda seem like that. Usually I love from afar, so I won't be hurt or disappointed. "Serious" relationships are not for me. Flirting is okay, tho.
Yeah, as long as I know it will never become serious in any form I'm okay with it.
You're a good one !
I think that's debatable but thanks.
I swear! Retrograde Venus is hard! 😢
@peachy06 you both prove yourself right every time by standing still and not risking much! smh. Such a shame!
It has nothing to do with taking a risk or not.
It's just not worth all the drama.
What drama is that? You guys create you own drama anyways with all the self sabotaging! 😛
I do want to know what you mean by drama still 🙂
In a relationship we outsource an aspect we should learn to give ourselves on our own.
Dependency will always create drama. Simply because that other person will leave you at some point and you would have to through the whole process again.
Why settle for the inferior substitute if you can have something self-sustaining?
The other person doesn't always have to leave. There are choices in the matter. But self sabotage and sustaining is best! - ***Rolling eyes**If you can't tell I'm being VERY sarcastic lol
What aspect is being outsourced? Love? There's plenty to go around if that's what you were referring to. Lots to share! 😛
Or dependency? When I'm in a relationship I don't have dependency on them. I still remain independent, so if it's that, I don't understand that aspect, cause it's never happened to me and will never. I will always love and choose me first, the other person second. When i'm happy, I will make you happy. Moral of the story- keep me happy 😛
They will always leave and be it via death.
The point is that you don't need love from other people if you have learned to provide this to you by yourself.
Why involve someone else who will not understand you and will pull away eventually?
It's an unnecessary complication. Keep it simple.click to expand
I'm still rolling my eyes at this. We can just have a difference of opinion. I'm surprised that with your Libra rising, you don't enjoy at the least companionship.
You said they will leave with the worst case scenario lol 😆 You are so stinking cute with all your sad thinking ahead. No living in the here and now, huh?
I like taking things day by day, I like being surprised when things end up working out. But then again I am always so optimistic that it will. It leaves no room for negativity.
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
That is my choice as well.
Seems to be a general theme for people with a retrograde Venus. We are forced to learn to stand on our own without all the lovy dovy stuff.
Yeah it kinda seem like that. Usually I love from afar, so I won't be hurt or disappointed. "Serious" relationships are not for me. Flirting is okay, tho.
Yeah, as long as I know it will never become serious in any form I'm okay with it.
You're a good one !
I think that's debatable but thanks.
I swear! Retrograde Venus is hard! 😢
@peachy06 you both prove yourself right every time by standing still and not risking much! smh. Such a shame!
So ? My ego is more important. Plus love is overrated. People would just deceive you and I don't need that in my life.click to expand
lol Yes I feel you on the ego thing! Love yourself first! Just don't agree on the love aspect because I love the feeling of being in love. Its never a burden for me.
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My Libra has Scorpio Venus ❤️
Him: I’m going to make a fake Instagram account and stalk you.
Me: I don’t add ppl I don’t know.
Him: I will slowly gain your trust and then get you to leave your bf. Then you will find out it’s me again!! Hahahahaha stuck with me! 😈❤️
i missed this one xd
jeeezz... that scorpio venus on a man is terrible sometimes xd
LoL, I’m okay with it. 🤷🏻♀️
one of the best definitions of that venus in a man is this..
"And men with Venus in Scorpio search exactly for that kind of woman, with sadness in her eyes and a scar on her heart, the one they want to save and turn to joy. Ok, they do exaggerate afterwards and demand that she ONLY laughs for them and when she is with them, to only give THAT smile to him and nobody else, to have that word JUST for him and that voice, that sexiness that others just can’t resist.""
-peric
my man gets very very jealous if i even laugh at other people's jokes too. he gets short and angry.
he knows its unreasonable and stupid but he can't help himself.
click to expand
Wow 😲
It's the "devil" placement
I should know
Lol 😈
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i told u...the men..they get BORED of women easily.
so far alot of CHEATING .. lol
No
They don’t love them in the first place
Scorpio venus in love (a man or a woman) are very faithful when they love someone
Also they can be ( heartbreaker ) if they are not into you.
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
That is my choice as well.
Seems to be a general theme for people with a retrograde Venus. We are forced to learn to stand on our own without all the lovy dovy stuff.
Yeah it kinda seem like that. Usually I love from afar, so I won't be hurt or disappointed. "Serious" relationships are not for me. Flirting is okay, tho.
Yeah, as long as I know it will never become serious in any form I'm okay with it.
You're a good one !
I think that's debatable but thanks.
I swear! Retrograde Venus is hard! 😢
@peachy06 you both prove yourself right every time by standing still and not risking much! smh. Such a shame!
It has nothing to do with taking a risk or not.
It's just not worth all the drama.
What drama is that? You guys create you own drama anyways with all the self sabotaging! 😛
I do want to know what you mean by drama still 🙂
In a relationship we outsource an aspect we should learn to give ourselves on our own.
Dependency will always create drama. Simply because that other person will leave you at some point and you would have to through the whole process again.
Why settle for the inferior substitute if you can have something self-sustaining?
The other person doesn't always have to leave. There are choices in the matter. But self sabotage and sustaining is best! - ***Rolling eyes**If you can't tell I'm being VERY sarcastic lol
What aspect is being outsourced? Love? There's plenty to go around if that's what you were referring to. Lots to share! 😛
Or dependency? When I'm in a relationship I don't have dependency on them. I still remain independent, so if it's that, I don't understand that aspect, cause it's never happened to me and will never. I will always love and choose me first, the other person second. When i'm happy, I will make you happy. Moral of the story- keep me happy 😛
They will always leave and be it via death.
The point is that you don't need love from other people if you have learned to provide this to you by yourself.
Why involve someone else who will not understand you and will pull away eventually?
It's an unnecessary complication. Keep it simple.
I'm still rolling my eyes at this. We can just have a difference of opinion. I'm surprised that with your Libra rising, you don't enjoy at the least companionship.
You said they will leave with the worst case scenario lol 😆 You are so stinking cute with all your sad thinking ahead. No living in the here and now, huh?
I like taking things day by day, I like being surprised when things end up working out. But then again I am always so optimistic that it will. It leaves no room for negativity.
Okay, you don't get it and I'm tired of explaining myself on this for now.click to expand
lol. I told you I didn't. I wasn't lying. I don't have a retrograde Venus though. Peachy agrees with you, she understands. I will never understand what retrograde Venus is like because I don't have one. I can only take your word for it. I still like that aspect though, its the challenge that makes me like it. I like proving someone wrong, makes me feel like I've won. lol
Could also be the reason why I'm always losing too 🙂
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
That is my choice as well.
Seems to be a general theme for people with a retrograde Venus. We are forced to learn to stand on our own without all the lovy dovy stuff.
Yeah it kinda seem like that. Usually I love from afar, so I won't be hurt or disappointed. "Serious" relationships are not for me. Flirting is okay, tho.
Yeah, as long as I know it will never become serious in any form I'm okay with it.
You're a good one !
I think that's debatable but thanks.
I swear! Retrograde Venus is hard! 😢
@peachy06 you both prove yourself right every time by standing still and not risking much! smh. Such a shame!
So ? My ego is more important. Plus love is overrated. People would just deceive you and I don't need that in my life.
lol Yes I feel you on the ego thing! Love yourself first! Just don't agree on the love aspect because I love the feeling of being in love. Its never a burden for me.
So because you like being in love, you think others should do the same ? I don't care about love tbh, I'm too self absorbed to give a shit about others. I'd rather be rich than being in love. Love is not an obligation nor a priority. So stop telling us how to be, just because you're like that.click to expand
I didn't tell you how to be, I wasn't talking to you. Just cause I was talking to my Aqua friend, who I talk and tease a lot, doesn't mean my statements were directed at you. I tagged you and him because of your agreement on the topic and I commented on the not risking anything part.
I'm not telling you to stop being bitchy towards me am I? I don't give a crap about your attitude, and who doesn't love money. I agree with you on that too. Stay self absorbed, you do you, cause I will always do me! 😉
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
That is my choice as well.
Seems to be a general theme for people with a retrograde Venus. We are forced to learn to stand on our own without all the lovy dovy stuff.
Yeah it kinda seem like that. Usually I love from afar, so I won't be hurt or disappointed. "Serious" relationships are not for me. Flirting is okay, tho.
Yeah, as long as I know it will never become serious in any form I'm okay with it.
You're a good one !
I think that's debatable but thanks.
I swear! Retrograde Venus is hard! 😢
@peachy06 you both prove yourself right every time by standing still and not risking much! smh. Such a shame!
So ? My ego is more important. Plus love is overrated. People would just deceive you and I don't need that in my life.click to expand
Oh my god
This is exactly what my gemini told me :” love is overrated”
I’m sure it’s sagittarius moon thing 😆
It’s weird that he love me, His love is so weird, I will never understand his heart.
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
That is my choice as well.
Seems to be a general theme for people with a retrograde Venus. We are forced to learn to stand on our own without all the lovy dovy stuff.
Yeah it kinda seem like that. Usually I love from afar, so I won't be hurt or disappointed. "Serious" relationships are not for me. Flirting is okay, tho.
Yeah, as long as I know it will never become serious in any form I'm okay with it.
You're a good one !
I think that's debatable but thanks.
I swear! Retrograde Venus is hard! 😢
@peachy06 you both prove yourself right every time by standing still and not risking much! smh. Such a shame!
So ? My ego is more important. Plus love is overrated. People would just deceive you and I don't need that in my life.
lol Yes I feel you on the ego thing! Love yourself first! Just don't agree on the love aspect because I love the feeling of being in love. Its never a burden for me.
So because you like being in love, you think others should do the same ? I don't care about love tbh, I'm too self absorbed to give a shit about others. I'd rather be rich than being in love. Love is not an obligation nor a priority. So stop telling us how to be, just because you're like that.
I didn't tell you how to be, I wasn't talking to you. Just cause I was talking to my Aqua friend, who I talk and tease a lot, doesn't mean my statements were directed at you. I tagged you and him because of your agreement on the topic and I commented on the not risking anything part.
I'm not telling you to stop being bitchy towards me am I? I don't give a crap about your attitude, and who doesn't love money. I agree with you on that too. Stay self absorbed, you do you, cause I will always do me! 😉
I know you teased him, but you talk as if with all should share your opinion toward love (at least that's the impression you gave when you replied to me). I wasn't even "bitchy", just honest. But take it as you want.click to expand
We are all different on this planet, I would never expect people to be like me. That would be boring. I share my opinion just to share it, nothing more. I'm selfish, and like talking about myself lol You two said how you were, so I said how I was. I was just offering up something without being asked. That's typical of me. I can't change that about myself. 😄
I took it as a demand when you said that, that's the reason I called you that, seemed like attitude but I guess that's the context in which I took it?
I'm always honest as well. No worries, which of course i know you aren't lol
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My Libra has Scorpio Venus ❤️
Him: I’m going to make a fake Instagram account and stalk you.
Me: I don’t add ppl I don’t know.
Him: I will slowly gain your trust and then get you to leave your bf. Then you will find out it’s me again!! Hahahahaha stuck with me! 😈❤️
i missed this one xd
jeeezz... that scorpio venus on a man is terrible sometimes xd
LoL, I’m okay with it. 🤷🏻♀️
one of the best definitions of that venus in a man is this..
"And men with Venus in Scorpio search exactly for that kind of woman, with sadness in her eyes and a scar on her heart, the one they want to save and turn to joy. Ok, they do exaggerate afterwards and demand that she ONLY laughs for them and when she is with them, to only give THAT smile to him and nobody else, to have that word JUST for him and that voice, that sexiness that others just can’t resist.""
-peric
my man gets very very jealous if i even laugh at other people's jokes too. he gets short and angry.
he knows its unreasonable and stupid but he can't help himself.
Relatable. Ex gf has Venus in Scorpio and she really hated it when I was having good convo and laughing with other women. She said I was entertaining hoes in front of her, but I just loved meeting people
i rarely meet other people...
but it's just that if i laugh and he sees me having fun. it angers him lol
he really wants me to laugh only for him...that i revolve around his whole world.
it can't be helped xd
its cool. i deal with it all the time ...
Yea I know what you mean. I have a tendency to start talking to strangers if they look like they want to talk especially at bars. If they’re women I remembered that if we were having a good time, she’d glare at me and eventually come up and introduce herself aggressively to the woman or sit next to me and look at her. If I smiled at another woman and laughed with her, all hell went loose when we got home😂
i would be jealous and pissed off too at you.
jesus. u are just itching for a fight.
I never understood the problem with that because I talked to everyone. Even guys, there were no exceptions of who I talked to. I mean I talked to random men at the bars and we laughed and made jokes and I bought them shots too🤷🏻♂️
Also should mention I have Aries Venus lol with lots of Air in my communication area
I can understand why you didn't understand it -- I don't either. I have Scorpio Venus and that wouldn't bother me. I've dated men who are very friendly in general and I knew it wasn't anything to be worried about.
I talk to and give alcohol to anyone who could entertain me at bars a lot. Maybe she was upset I was wasting money on strangers😬 she was half Chinese lol
haha, maybe that too, but if she took issue in particular when you interacted with women, that seems more like jealousy.
One guy I was involved with told me that one of the women he dated didn't like how he talked in a friendly way to strangers when they were out together. I wasn't there to witness exactly how he acted with her, of course, but when I was out with him he did what he described that he had done with her, and it never bothered me. He didn't interrupt important conversations with me to do it, or anything like that, he just was very friendly and curious about people. His ex, he explained to me, didn't like him focusing on anything other than her. I stay away from people who are possessive that way, and jealous types. Run run run. lol
I might’ve had the same situation as him. Her jealousy was so far out that there was a situation I remembered where I heard a lady yelling “Help” in a parking lot. It wasn’t life or death by the sound of it, but it sounded like a couple bickering from the bar and my ex literally got angry at me that I wanted to help her. Then we ended up arguing in my car and we ended up leaving.
But yea, she had no problem with me talking to guys, but if he was a she, that’s a different story LOL actually there were also a couple of guys she was jealous of, which were my good male friends. She’d say, “how come you never talk to me like how you talk to them?!” Which was different because these were my guys, my brothers in arms! I’d even not say hi to women I knew in public just so I wouldn’t have to deal with the headache 🤕
Wow, she was extreme for sure. Stifling.
In high school I had a friend who had a very jealous and possessive boyfriend. She told me, after they broke up, that the times she was with him and talking to me and our other friends, he would gradually squeeze her hand harder and harder until it hurt her to let her know he didn't like her to be talking to us more than a very short time. I remember how he always seemed to want to hold her hand while she was talking to us, and how she would look uncomfortable increasingly, but I didn't know why until she told me later. :/
Wow that’s outright physical abuse. Coming from me, I have a strong grip and I can’t even imagine clenching down on a woman’s hand like that. That’s way too much control that needed to be emphasized :/
Yes! He probably wasn't as strong as you, but definitely he was a lot bigger than her and she had very small hands so he could damage them if he really wanted to. He did other bad things too. Very abusive. It's good that when she broke up with him he didn't attack her. He showed up at her family's house, when only she was at home, crying and pleading, but I had talked to her beforehand and told her that if he did something like that (I figured he would), to not let him in, no matter what he said, and to call the police if needed. He fortunately didn't keep it up for long, or threaten her.
Omg abuse drives me nutts!! I’m so glad she was ok.. I feel for her and can’t fathom how someone could abuse someone they care so much about 😣click to expand
Same! It's horrible. 10 years later, at a high school reunion, he apologized to her and didn't try to do anything to have a relationship with her again, he just wanted to tell her that he was very messed up in high school and he had been abusive and he knew it and had gotten help later on to stop. He didn't try to manipulate thankfully, and she could accept his apology even though she didn't trust him still, and that was that.
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
That is my choice as well.
Seems to be a general theme for people with a retrograde Venus. We are forced to learn to stand on our own without all the lovy dovy stuff.
Yeah it kinda seem like that. Usually I love from afar, so I won't be hurt or disappointed. "Serious" relationships are not for me. Flirting is okay, tho.
Yeah, as long as I know it will never become serious in any form I'm okay with it.
You're a good one !
I think that's debatable but thanks.
I swear! Retrograde Venus is hard! 😢
@peachy06 you both prove yourself right every time by standing still and not risking much! smh. Such a shame!
So ? My ego is more important. Plus love is overrated. People would just deceive you and I don't need that in my life.
lol Yes I feel you on the ego thing! Love yourself first! Just don't agree on the love aspect because I love the feeling of being in love. Its never a burden for me.
So because you like being in love, you think others should do the same ? I don't care about love tbh, I'm too self absorbed to give a shit about others. I'd rather be rich than being in love. Love is not an obligation nor a priority. So stop telling us how to be, just because you're like that.
I didn't tell you how to be, I wasn't talking to you. Just cause I was talking to my Aqua friend, who I talk and tease a lot, doesn't mean my statements were directed at you. I tagged you and him because of your agreement on the topic and I commented on the not risking anything part.
I'm not telling you to stop being bitchy towards me am I? I don't give a crap about your attitude, and who doesn't love money. I agree with you on that too. Stay self absorbed, you do you, cause I will always do me! 😉
I know you teased him, but you talk as if with all should share your opinion toward love (at least that's the impression you gave when you replied to me). I wasn't even "bitchy", just honest. But take it as you want.
We are all different on this planet, I would never expect people to be like me. That would be boring. I share my opinion just to share it, nothing more. I'm selfish, and like talking about myself lol You two said how you were, so I said how I was. I was just offering up something without being asked. That's typical of me. I can't change that about myself. 😄
I took it as a demand when you said that, that's the reason I called you that, seemed like attitude but I guess that's the context in which I took it?
I'm always honest as well. No worries, which of course i know you aren't lol
Of course we're all different. You are an optimist, that's great. But I think him and I can't be optimistic when it comes to love. I think he was deeply hurt because of his last relationship. And I also have my reasons, that's all. I didn't mean to sound rude or something. Just you can't force your optimism on us. I know you're as honest as I am (thanks to our Sag placements).click to expand
Yes I'm aware of the hurt and yes my optimism hopes he doesn't give up on love,since he is just finding out what it meant. If it happened once, it can happen again. 🙂 But I will always accept people for who they are and see the best side of them, it's just who I am. I have high hopes for everyone lol I'm always looking at things half full lol
I say what I have to say and get over things fairly quickly, that's why I made the comment about not caring about the perceived rudeness, it doesn't bother me at all lol You're entitled to you opinion and I will respect it but I will also comment on the tone, if it feels like it's coming at me a certain way. No need to explain at all, girly!
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what i do notice about Scorpio venus is they LOVE pain....and to suffer in a way...
so if you are having too much calmness... *sigh* (they find it wayyyyyy toooo boring)
that is why it is detriment.
This would contradict the fact that they tend to go for a calm Venus placement like those in Cap.
they love anything capricorn /virgo that's for sure. ;p
or taurus.
i'm dominant capricorn/taurus
and my husband has said that i have masochistic tendancies. lol
i am ..hellooooo excuse me?? do i need a mirror? xd
Nope. Usually the men taht I loved had Aries and Pisces venus. No Cap.
Were their Venus retrograde?
I don't know, but mine is. 😭
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that.
How do you deal with that?
I don't. My retrograde and detriment cursed me so I don't do relationships, it's just not for me.
That is my choice as well.
Seems to be a general theme for people with a retrograde Venus. We are forced to learn to stand on our own without all the lovy dovy stuff.
Yeah it kinda seem like that. Usually I love from afar, so I won't be hurt or disappointed. "Serious" relationships are not for me. Flirting is okay, tho.
Yeah, as long as I know it will never become serious in any form I'm okay with it.
You're a good one !
I think that's debatable but thanks.
I swear! Retrograde Venus is hard! 😢
@peachy06 you both prove yourself right every time by standing still and not risking much! smh. Such a shame!
So ? My ego is more important. Plus love is overrated. People would just deceive you and I don't need that in my life.
lol Yes I feel you on the ego thing! Love yourself first! Just don't agree on the love aspect because I love the feeling of being in love. Its never a burden for me.
So because you like being in love, you think others should do the same ? I don't care about love tbh, I'm too self absorbed to give a shit about others. I'd rather be rich than being in love. Love is not an obligation nor a priority. So stop telling us how to be, just because you're like that.
I didn't tell you how to be, I wasn't talking to you. Just cause I was talking to my Aqua friend, who I talk and tease a lot, doesn't mean my statements were directed at you. I tagged you and him because of your agreement on the topic and I commented on the not risking anything part.
I'm not telling you to stop being bitchy towards me am I? I don't give a crap about your attitude, and who doesn't love money. I agree with you on that too. Stay self absorbed, you do you, cause I will always do me! 😉
I know you teased him, but you talk as if with all should share your opinion toward love (at least that's the impression you gave when you replied to me). I wasn't even "bitchy", just honest. But take it as you want.
We are all different on this planet, I would never expect people to be like me. That would be boring. I share my opinion just to share it, nothing more. I'm selfish, and like talking about myself lol You two said how you were, so I said how I was. I was just offering up something without being asked. That's typical of me. I can't change that about myself. 😄
I took it as a demand when you said that, that's the reason I called you that, seemed like attitude but I guess that's the context in which I took it?
I'm always honest as well. No worries, which of course i know you aren't lol
Of course we're all different. You are an optimist, that's great. But I think him and I can't be optimistic when it comes to love. I think he was deeply hurt because of his last relationship. And I also have my reasons, that's all. I didn't mean to sound rude or something. Just you can't force your optimism on us. I know you're as honest as I am (thanks to our Sag placements).
Yes I'm aware of the hurt and yes my optimism hopes he doesn't give up on love,since he is just finding out what it meant. If it happened once, it can happen again. 🙂 But I will always accept people for who they are and see the best side of them, it's just who I am. I have high hopes for everyone lol I'm always looking at things half full lol
I say what I have to say and get over things fairly quickly, that's why I made the comment about not caring about the perceived rudeness, it doesn't bother me at all lol You're entitled to you opinion and I will respect it but I will also comment on the tone, if it feels like it's coming at me a certain way. No need to explain at all, girly!
You really sound like a Sag lol. Anyway that's nice of you though, poor boy he seems so down. I hope he'd eventually get better.click to expand
Well he seems perfectly happy the way he is, I guess lol I would try and cheer him up but that retrograde Venus is always playing hard to get! 😛 😆
I'm leaving him alone for now since I can't understand what he is trying to explain. I'm hard headed like that lol
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Venus in Scorpio--- dating someone with this currently, he's a scorpio dominant.
What I've gathered is he is very guarded, not much of a giver, has high expectations, will completely withdraw aka ghost if he is feeling upset/stressed, he's petty but isn't too possessive thus far but recently we went to a day bar and I think the bartender may have been flirting with me because he did start to hug up on me after that lolz he expects to be replied to swiftly and for me to be honest, he is very perceptive and can see beyond what I tell him so I try to be honest always. He is very distrusting as well but I know he's been really hurt in the past so Im very patient with him as he opens up but its hard sometimes. He's hard to read and he's very introverted.
He's not big for large displays of drama, fights or even too much affection in public but simple PDA he will do. He is sweet and thoughtful, he tests me often but I dismiss it, he asks questions to get a certain answer out of me but as long as I tell the truth I have nothing to worry about and he trusts me more as he sees that Im not lying to him. I think he thinks I can mindread which I cannot, so at times he needs to spell things out for me. I spell them out for him too. Time and distance mean nothing, we have gone 3 weeks without speaking to each other on bad terms and when we talked again it was like those 3 weeks never happened. We get along pretty well for the most part and I like how we talk about what bothers us or "fight" in a calm, conversational way so that we really aren't fighting and there's a lot of peace between us actually. I do believe he may not be easily bothered by "pain" in a relationship, he's really put up with some of my shit lol but I've never done anything too bad either. I think it is just optimism and giving love another chance but with that same person, only.
Im hopeful he will open up more and over time become more giving, Im a Scorpio too and it takes me time to fully open up and give as well, I like to see how much the person will do for me first but in this case we are the same so Im hopeful that he will eventually ease up some more. I've learned that he likes me to take the lead, he wants me to say what I want, how, and decide it for us. This is hard for me because I like to be submissive but I can easily be bossy as well, i just prefer to let my man lead. I think its nice he wants to please me that much although he is still resistant to giving. Im a huge giver, so Im hoping to continue this with balance and not give too much where it is one-sided, so far it has not been. I think the key is to let it all happen naturally, he comes in doses but daily, recharges and is honest if I ask him. So far I think he's a good one but I do want to receive more from him, I am also demanding I guess lol.
Im scorpio sun, libra moon, sag venus
He is scorpio sun, leo moon and scorpio venus
they secretly do not like a woman with self sufficiency....
they long for a woman who needs him.
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