
Like I said, I'm new at this, so I was wondering what aspects, planets and placements you take in consideration the most when matching people, couple wise.





Posted by Charfig5Your Venus are sextile -- its a good harmonious combination!
My Venus is in Virgo, my mars in sag. His Venus is in cancer, his mars in gemini. Hopeless?


Posted by BG2Huuuuhhhhh what's a composite chart?? LolPosted by Charfig5Have you also looked at the composite chart?
I compared the two charts and the negatives aspects outweighs the positive by a bit. But I figured I'd ask you guys for actual experiences. All this information you re giving is very welcomed, thank you. I have to get more in depth and study these. Lol the thing is, in reality, we have communication problems. Besides that, we get along very well. Hmmmm
I've seen great synastry, but crappy composites. And the other way around.click to expand

Posted by BG2Know a site that can calculate that for me?🙂Posted by Charfig5It's a chart that studies the relationship itself as a separate entity, using the midpoints of the two original charts, and the aspects they form.Posted by BG2Huuuuhhhhh what's a composite chart?? LolPosted by Charfig5Have you also looked at the composite chart?
I compared the two charts and the negatives aspects outweighs the positive by a bit. But I figured I'd ask you guys for actual experiences. All this information you re giving is very welcomed, thank you. I have to get more in depth and study these. Lol the thing is, in reality, we have communication problems. Besides that, we get along very well. Hmmmm
I've seen great synastry, but crappy composites. And the other way around.click to expand

Posted by BG2That's awesome. Thank you
"It is derived by determining the mathematical midpoints between each person's planets and points, and is an entirely new chart altogether—the chart of a relationship. Basic relationship dynamics can be seen in the composite chart."
http://www.cafeastrology.com/compositechart.html
You can go on Astro.com or astrotheme to get a composite chart.

Posted by mrpepperidgeHhmmmmm??
her face, his money.

Posted by Charfig5I'm a Cap make with Virgo Moon. Females with Cap moon are though. In your situation I don't think it's bad because guys conceal emotions typically and Cap Moon gives great work ethic.
Well my moon is in Virgo, and I don't really know what moon usually attracts me, but the man I'm seeing had a moon in Capricorn. Which strikes me as strange cause I usually don't get along that well with caps in relationships

Posted by Charfig5Try http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3 - it's the best free site - capable of advanced astrological calculations + a refined interface. In many ways - it's the equivalent of a professional software.Posted by BG2Know a site that can calculate that for me?🙂Posted by Charfig5It's a chart that studies the relationship itself as a separate entity, using the midpoints of the two original charts, and the aspects they form.Posted by BG2Huuuuhhhhh what's a composite chart?? LolPosted by Charfig5Have you also looked at the composite chart?
I compared the two charts and the negatives aspects outweighs the positive by a bit. But I figured I'd ask you guys for actual experiences. All this information you re giving is very welcomed, thank you. I have to get more in depth and study these. Lol the thing is, in reality, we have communication problems. Besides that, we get along very well. Hmmmm
I've seen great synastry, but crappy composites. And the other way around.click to expand

Posted by frostey91Hard worker, can't deny that!Posted by Charfig5I'm a Cap make with Virgo Moon. Females with Cap moon are though. In your situation I don't think it's bad because guys conceal emotions typically and Cap Moon gives great work ethic.
Well my moon is in Virgo, and I don't really know what moon usually attracts me, but the man I'm seeing had a moon in Capricorn. Which strikes me as strange cause I usually don't get along that well with caps in relationshipsclick to expand

Posted by julietteI have never had juno listed in any of my charts—
i think juno is also important.
Juno was the third asteroid to be discovered. Juno is the wife of Jupiter. She has some similarities to Venus, but while Venus sparks that initial attraction, Juno makes the commitment. She sings of soul mates. As she moves through the sky, the face of relationships change, but she still stands for commitment of one kind or another.
Where you find Juno in your chart is where you may meet someone that you will remain with for a long relationship. She covers marriage, fashion and beauty. She is the patron of relationships and true love. Diplomacy is part of her sphere.
She has influence with the weather, flowers, fairness and female genitalia. She also dealt with many of Jupiter's infidelities, and thus has influence over the negative issues of spouse abuse, powerlessness, women's rights (both positive and negative), rage, inferiority complexes and unfairness. She may also affect issues of denial, betrayal, inequality and of course bitterness.

Posted by nevesThank you. I'm going to check it out right now!🙂Posted by Charfig5Try http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3 - it's the best free site - capable of advanced astrological calculations + a refined interface. In many ways - it's the equivalent of a professional software.Posted by BG2Know a site that can calculate that for me?🙂Posted by Charfig5It's a chart that studies the relationship itself as a separate entity, using the midpoints of the two original charts, and the aspects they form.Posted by BG2Huuuuhhhhh what's a composite chart?? LolPosted by Charfig5Have you also looked at the composite chart?
I compared the two charts and the negatives aspects outweighs the positive by a bit. But I figured I'd ask you guys for actual experiences. All this information you re giving is very welcomed, thank you. I have to get more in depth and study these. Lol the thing is, in reality, we have communication problems. Besides that, we get along very well. Hmmmm
I've seen great synastry, but crappy composites. And the other way around.click to expand

Posted by Charfig5CafeAstrology or anywhere should find your Juno. It is actually REALLY IMPORTANT!Posted by julietteI have never had juno listed in any of my charts—
i think juno is also important.
Juno was the third asteroid to be discovered. Juno is the wife of Jupiter. She has some similarities to Venus, but while Venus sparks that initial attraction, Juno makes the commitment. She sings of soul mates. As she moves through the sky, the face of relationships change, but she still stands for commitment of one kind or another.
Where you find Juno in your chart is where you may meet someone that you will remain with for a long relationship. She covers marriage, fashion and beauty. She is the patron of relationships and true love. Diplomacy is part of her sphere.
She has influence with the weather, flowers, fairness and female genitalia. She also dealt with many of Jupiter's infidelities, and thus has influence over the negative issues of spouse abuse, powerlessness, women's rights (both positive and negative), rage, inferiority complexes and unfairness. She may also affect issues of denial, betrayal, inequality and of course bitterness.click to expand

Posted by frostey91Got it. It appears my juno is in Leo, his in Libra. Thoughts?Posted by Charfig5CafeAstrology or anywhere should find your Juno. It is actually REALLY IMPORTANT!Posted by julietteI have never had juno listed in any of my charts—
i think juno is also important.
Juno was the third asteroid to be discovered. Juno is the wife of Jupiter. She has some similarities to Venus, but while Venus sparks that initial attraction, Juno makes the commitment. She sings of soul mates. As she moves through the sky, the face of relationships change, but she still stands for commitment of one kind or another.
Where you find Juno in your chart is where you may meet someone that you will remain with for a long relationship. She covers marriage, fashion and beauty. She is the patron of relationships and true love. Diplomacy is part of her sphere.
She has influence with the weather, flowers, fairness and female genitalia. She also dealt with many of Jupiter's infidelities, and thus has influence over the negative issues of spouse abuse, powerlessness, women's rights (both positive and negative), rage, inferiority complexes and unfairness. She may also affect issues of denial, betrayal, inequality and of course bitterness.click to expand



Posted by frostey91Yup that's about right... That's me lol. First house as well. Haha
On the surface I would say Libra is better... Leo's strengths are passionate and enthusiasm but stubborn arrogant, chidish etc.


Posted by astrogypsy7That's really good info.
It is important to notice how the house sings interact as well. I look at 3rd (because I think its important) as well as 5th, 7th and 8th. TO ME all houses are important for their own reason but those ones will stand out a lot more. Placements of the same element will be easier, not necessarily more enjoyable depending on your aspects and whatnot. But the man I'm in love with has all of the same elements in all of the same places except Mars, but both of our Mars is ruled by the same Mercury.
Hope that helps!

Posted by Charfig5First house you need a go getter... A top Dog....Posted by frostey91Yup that's about right... That's me lol. First house as well. Haha
On the surface I would say Libra is better... Leo's strengths are passionate and enthusiasm but stubborn arrogant, chidish etc.click to expand

Posted by frostey91Ok, but considering juno is in my first house, which is in Leo, am I not the leader of the pack? Roarrrrr wouldn't I need someone softer than me to put up with my temper, and calm me down? Why would I need a top dog?Posted by Charfig5First house you need a go getter... A top Dog....Posted by frostey91Yup that's about right... That's me lol. First house as well. Haha
On the surface I would say Libra is better... Leo's strengths are passionate and enthusiasm but stubborn arrogant, chidish etc.
Beckham and Prince Henry have 1st house Juno for example. Pretty much every time it turns out that way. A go getter with strong sense of self like Aries.click to expand


Posted by Charfig5I see a lot of passion.... 8th house Pisces is the softie but imaginative....Posted by astrogypsy7That's really good info.
It is important to notice how the house sings interact as well. I look at 3rd (because I think its important) as well as 5th, 7th and 8th. TO ME all houses are important for their own reason but those ones will stand out a lot more. Placements of the same element will be easier, not necessarily more enjoyable depending on your aspects and whatnot. But the man I'm in love with has all of the same elements in all of the same places except Mars, but both of our Mars is ruled by the same Mercury.
Hope that helps!
3rd house Libra me Pisces him
5th house sag me Taurus him
7th house Aquarius me cancer him
8th house Pisces me Leo him
As for mars, mine is in sag and his in gemini. Thoughts?click to expand

Posted by frostey91i didnt realize i was a "go-getter" lol
Juno is who you attract like 7th house. Unless don't know the rest of your chart...
Beckham and Prince Henry attract go getters even though they are go getters themselves.
Kate Midddleton and that chick from the Spice Girls is a go getter (female go getters)
Posted by Charfig5what type of men have you attracted in the past? look at your dating history.Posted by frostey91Ok, but considering juno is in my first house, which is in Leo, am I not the leader of the pack? Roarrrrr wouldn't I need someone softer than me to put up with my temper, and calm me down? Why would I need a top dog?Posted by Charfig5First house you need a go getter... A top Dog....Posted by frostey91Yup that's about right... That's me lol. First house as well. Haha
On the surface I would say Libra is better... Leo's strengths are passionate and enthusiasm but stubborn arrogant, chidish etc.
Beckham and Prince Henry have 1st house Juno for example. Pretty much every time it turns out that way. A go getter with strong sense of self like Aries.click to expand

Posted by RumiLWhat can you tell about a man with aqua mercury and women with leo mercury in a relationship?
Moon
MERCURY
Mars
Venus
Ascendants too.
Moon = emotional make up
Mercury = its actually very very important according to me. It shows how you make sense of everything inside and outside you. It shows your communication styles, perceptions, it really coordinates between your moon - Venus - mars.
Mars = is action. Your actions will have a bearing on your partner
Venus = your desires in love.
Ascendant = it determines your entire house placements...and it points towards your house of marriage(descendant). Your ascendant is what you want from life or the person you become as you grow up(imo).. What you want in life too..
Sun = its basically your energy or vitality.
Harmonious aspects include trines and sextiles between these placements.. And conjunctions are very good for most part.
Squares and oppositions are considered challenging aspects...but they're also good.. These aspects only indicate at challenges...and you can figure out a meeting ground .. Its good too!

Posted by LindaaaatjeIDK the characteristics of Leo and Aqua - especially their communicating styles.. But I can say that being opposite signs...although they seem to have what the other lacks, they are basically the same. style may be a little different.Posted by RumiLWhat can you tell about a man with aqua mercury and women with leo mercury in a relationship?
Moon
MERCURY
Mars
Venus
Ascendants too.
Moon = emotional make up
Mercury = its actually very very important according to me. It shows how you make sense of everything inside and outside you. It shows your communication styles, perceptions, it really coordinates between your moon - Venus - mars.
Mars = is action. Your actions will have a bearing on your partner
Venus = your desires in love.
Ascendant = it determines your entire house placements...and it points towards your house of marriage(descendant). Your ascendant is what you want from life or the person you become as you grow up(imo).. What you want in life too..
Sun = its basically your energy or vitality.
Harmonious aspects include trines and sextiles between these placements.. And conjunctions are very good for most part.
Squares and oppositions are considered challenging aspects...but they're also good.. These aspects only indicate at challenges...and you can figure out a meeting ground .. Its good too!
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Posted by RumiLThx Rumil. Opposites....in sun, mercury etc. I always looked at descriptions of the sun signs for man/women in a relationship. But if different placements come in one other particular sign than it can be more important to look at that sign, true?Posted by LindaaaatjeIDK the characteristics of Leo and Aqua - especially their communicating styles.. But I can say that being opposite signs...although they seem to have what the other lacks, they are basically the same. style may be a little different.Posted by RumiLWhat can you tell about a man with aqua mercury and women with leo mercury in a relationship?
Moon
MERCURY
Mars
Venus
Ascendants too.
Moon = emotional make up
Mercury = its actually very very important according to me. It shows how you make sense of everything inside and outside you. It shows your communication styles, perceptions, it really coordinates between your moon - Venus - mars.
Mars = is action. Your actions will have a bearing on your partner
Venus = your desires in love.
Ascendant = it determines your entire house placements...and it points towards your house of marriage(descendant). Your ascendant is what you want from life or the person you become as you grow up(imo).. What you want in life too..
Sun = its basically your energy or vitality.
Harmonious aspects include trines and sextiles between these placements.. And conjunctions are very good for most part.
Squares and oppositions are considered challenging aspects...but they're also good.. These aspects only indicate at challenges...and you can figure out a meeting ground .. Its good too!
Both are complementary to one another.
I imagine that between opposite signs all it takes it some time initially to figure each other out. And its lively..involves give-and-take by the both parties.
But it can go the other way if both or either of you are unwilling to put the efforts or be patient to find a common ground.
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Posted by FrostedEllyHis mercury is in cancer, mine in Virgo.
I actually narrow it down to the five closest orb aspects. That regardless or inner-outer planet synastry. Whichever five between the two are closest to 0 show the deeper influences longer. It's been my experience that those are what come into play over the course of a long relationship.
The typical aspects, sun-moon, moon-moon, moon-Venus, Venus-Mars are important. But I notice unless they are one of the strongest aspects in the synastry chart their glow fades over time so to speak.
Mercury is highly undervalued in my book too. If you're looking for lasting, look for strong and reciprocal Meecury contacts between charts.

Posted by frostey91That sounds right. Except selfishness in intimacy, he s not. And what do you mean, "cap moon and cap rising, yikes"— LolPosted by Charfig5I see a lot of passion.... 8th house Pisces is the softie but imaginative....Posted by astrogypsy7That's really good info.
It is important to notice how the house sings interact as well. I look at 3rd (because I think its important) as well as 5th, 7th and 8th. TO ME all houses are important for their own reason but those ones will stand out a lot more. Placements of the same element will be easier, not necessarily more enjoyable depending on your aspects and whatnot. But the man I'm in love with has all of the same elements in all of the same places except Mars, but both of our Mars is ruled by the same Mercury.
Hope that helps!
3rd house Libra me Pisces him
5th house sag me Taurus him
7th house Aquarius me cancer him
8th house Pisces me Leo him
As for mars, mine is in sag and his in gemini. Thoughts?
7th house Aqua obviously detached, possible rebel or something atypical about them, also decent chance of being a humanitarian...
His aspect in house are exactly like mine almost...
I have Pisces 3rd house (people misunderstand me a lot)
Pisces 3rd house is also inspirational but could equally be considered delusional to otbers...
Mars 5th house.... passionate about hobbies...passionate about passion
I have Gen 7th though....
With Cancer 7th he sees and needs someone who is emotional, motherly, strong family ties....
He is secretly emotional obviously...It appears with Cap moon and Cap rising yikes...and it is opposite Cancer it's natural placement...
8th house LEO.... me too...
He should be good at sex depending on the planet. I have Jupiter there so it helps...
He likes Scorpio topics...
A little selfish in intimacy... etc.
Your houses are very different lol...
It's like emotions vs passion or communication.
Where your planets land in each other's houses is not the next puzzle of your dynasty.
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Posted by BG2My jupiter is in cap, his in Libra.Posted by FrostedEllyAgreed. I forgot to mention that.
Mercury is highly undervalued in my book too. If you're looking for lasting, look for strong and reciprocal Meecury contacts between charts.
Another planet undervalued is Jupiter. The majority of synastry is focused on the hot and heavy aspects and house overlays. But Jupiter is about happiness, genuine affection, goodwill, fun...
Having tight aspects with another's jupiter, makes the two truly enjoy being in one another's company. They uplift each other, make each other smile...very important.
In my experience (romantic and platonic) even hard aspects to jupiter are good. Though, they can lead to excess and over-confidence, if the energy isn't controlled.click to expand

Posted by BG2Ok, thank you!☺
@charfig5-
Study the aspects they form in both natal charts and in synastry.
I don't have experience with jupiter in either of those signs. Sorry.

Posted by Charfig5Posted by frostey91That sounds right. Except selfishness in intimacy, he s not. And what do you mean, "cap moon and cap rising, yikes"— LolPosted by Charfig5I see a lot of passion.... 8th house Pisces is the softie but imaginative....Posted by astrogypsy7That's really good info.
It is important to notice how the house sings interact as well. I look at 3rd (because I think its important) as well as 5th, 7th and 8th. TO ME all houses are important for their own reason but those ones will stand out a lot more. Placements of the same element will be easier, not necessarily more enjoyable depending on your aspects and whatnot. But the man I'm in love with has all of the same elements in all of the same places except Mars, but both of our Mars is ruled by the same Mercury.
Hope that helps!
3rd house Libra me Pisces him
5th house sag me Taurus him
7th house Aquarius me cancer him
8th house Pisces me Leo him
As for mars, mine is in sag and his in gemini. Thoughts?
7th house Aqua obviously detached, possible rebel or something atypical about them, also decent chance of being a humanitarian...
His aspect in house are exactly like mine almost...
I have Pisces 3rd house (people misunderstand me a lot)
Pisces 3rd house is also inspirational but could equally be considered delusional to otbers...
Mars 5th house.... passionate about hobbies...passionate about passion
I have Gen 7th though....
With Cancer 7th he sees and needs someone who is emotional, motherly, strong family ties....
He is secretly emotional obviously...It appears with Cap moon and Cap rising yikes...and it is opposite Cancer it's natural placement...
8th house LEO.... me too...
He should be good at sex depending on the planet. I have Jupiter there so it helps...
He likes Scorpio topics...
A little selfish in intimacy... etc.
Your houses are very different lol...
It's like emotions vs passion or communication.
Where your planets land in each other's houses is not the next puzzle of your dynasty.
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