Worst Venus sign you have dated?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by BitterSweetSour on Thursday, February 25, 2016 and has 35 replies.

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Venus Cap.

The best and by far, the worst too. :/

Whys that?

Hot and cold. Can be too cold sometimes. They don't know how to express their love.

They are normally the loners and it doesn't helps because I am one as well so we will drift away from one another.

Sometimes they can be manipulative too. Obsessed with status and material wealth. Idk, but those 2 men that I used to be with have this traits but the funny part is that they were both the longest I was with.

It's ironic.

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Venus in Aries and Venus in Cap compatibility: "Your differences in expressing love should be pretty obvious from the start." Quoted from cafe astrology.com

It's interesting to read more into all this..

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My ex husband of 13/almost 14 years has his Venus in Aries, mine is in Scorpio.

This was basically us:
How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Aries: An unusual combination, but very intriguing when two powerful Venus placements come together! The attraction can be exciting, but harmony can be difficult to attain. Your partner is direct while you can be more roundabout in expressions of love. Your libido is rather constant, while your partner's fluctuates tremendously. Your partner lives for the excitement of the moment in matters of the heart, but you have an eye on commitment and constancy. Sexually, you are likely to have a powerful union, but emotionally there can be difficulties because your styles of expressing love and affection are so contrary. Perhaps this combination is better when the relationship is shorter term—the memory of your times together could be powerful. Still, this combination can work in a committed, long-term relationship with heaps of love and understanding. Adjustments will most surely have to be made. Butting heads is something you are likely to do, as both of you want your way in relationships, but both of you will have to learn to concede to each other now and again! Passions will run high, and if you can harness that energy and put it to work for your relationship in a positive way, then the union will be satisfying.

(He ended up completely disrespecting our relationship/me to no end.)

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I have found that my Scorpio Venus is a better match with a Cap Venus.... He is extremely expressive in his love for me and I am extremely appreciative. 🙂

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Posted by jane84
I have found that my Scorpio Venus is a better match with a Cap Venus.... He is extremely expressive in his love for me and I am extremely appreciative. 🙂

That expressiveness may come from his moon instead of his venus. What is his moon?

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Posted by BitterSweetSour
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I have found that my Scorpio Venus is a better match with a Cap Venus.... He is extremely expressive in his love for me and I am extremely appreciative. 🙂

That expressiveness may come from his moon instead of his venus. What is his moon?

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That would make sense too. Cancer moon.
He said he loves doing things for me because I always show how appreciative I am. His whole family said he was never like this with anyone else though. So I don't know.

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My ex husband of 13/almost 14 years has his Venus in Aries, mine is in Scorpio.

This was basically us:
How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Aries: An unusual combination, but very intriguing when two powerful Venus placements come together! The attraction can be exciting, but harmony can be difficult to attain. Your partner is direct while you can be more roundabout in expressions of love. Your libido is rather constant, while your partner's fluctuates tremendously. Your partner lives for the excitement of the moment in matters of the heart, but you have an eye on commitment and constancy. Sexually, you are likely to have a powerful union, but emotionally there can be difficulties because your styles of expressing love and affection are so contrary. Perhaps this combination is better when the relationship is shorter term—the memory of your times together could be powerful. Still, this combination can work in a committed, long-term relationship with heaps of love and understanding. Adjustments will most surely have to be made. Butting heads is something you are likely to do, as both of you want your way in relationships, but both of you will have to learn to concede to each other now and again! Passions will run high, and if you can harness that energy and put it to work for your relationship in a positive way, then the union will be satisfying.

(He ended up completely disrespecting our relationship/me to no end.)

venus in aries is super selfish. i had to cut one of my best friensd out of my life because i found that i was more her servant than her best friend.

my dad has this placement and he's selfish too. giving as a dad, but his selfish moments just sprout up. -__-

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Unfortunately it didn't get that bad until after we were married. Well there were many cases when he was, but I grew up with him and loved him dearly. I should have understood that we were just too different. I am a very committed person. My SO, my family, and then my friends. He often made me feel as though I was last on his list. Maybe he just needed someone that was different from me as well. He also tried to stop me from moving on after the divorce. It's been a year now and he has finally stopped contacting me.

I'm not perfect myself, but I definitely needed someone who respected me more.

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Posted by Datariesgirl
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I have found that my Scorpio Venus is a better match with a Cap Venus.... He is extremely expressive in his love for me and I am extremely appreciative. 🙂

My love has a Venus In Cap too and he is also very expressive with his love for me. My Venus in Taurus loves all the love and attention he showers me with:-)

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Aww I'm happy for you! 🙂 Yeah I've never experienced something like this before. It's been such a great experience, I hope it continues.

Good luck with your love. I hope he continues to do so!

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Posted by Datariesgirl
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I have found that my Scorpio Venus is a better match with a Cap Venus.... He is extremely expressive in his love for me and I am extremely appreciative. 🙂

My love has a Venus In Cap too and he is also very expressive with his love for me. My Venus in Taurus loves all the love and attention he showers me with:-)

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Do they have leo moon? it sound like this placement more to me. If not, what is their moon sign?

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It's love/hate with Venus in Gemini men. The females are cool. Venus is more indicative for men

Falls in love with the mind... yeah ok, love the mind, but I wish you could fall in love with the soul and love this soul deeply. Their mutability won't allow that and it's okay... I still like them 🙂 but can't trust them

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I'm sorry you went through this 😢 But it's over yay! The weight of someone perpetually hurting you is gone 😄 That's how I feel when I ended the communication with my ViG. Still miss him sometimes, but it's better this way.