Which sign hardly fall in love aka difficult to fall in love? (Page 2)

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Posted by blackphase
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
libra, easy to love does not love easily...
Yes, we do not love easily...
Really? I have always heard (and experienced) that you guys fall very easily.
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Care easily yes, love easily? No. Only someone who does not love easily will accept how a libra is. I think that's where all the "game playing" "mind games" thing comes from. Yes I will care, but until I have actually admitted to loving you, I have not come off that fence yet. I need to know a lot about you and have to have had many experiences to actually love you. But overall, it will take time. (for me anyway.) So yes I can spend a lot of time with you, but I'll only fully commit/say I love you when I truly mean it and when I know you are the right one for me. And then I'm all in. But I hear this is different with Libra men vs. Libra women? Maybe, never dated a Libra man.
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Libra sun, Scorpio Venus. I have rarely fallen in love.i have only been in love twice in my life. When I fall that is when I'm in trouble. Once my heart is yours it's yours completely. My cancer ex loved that about me, the cap didn't believe it.

I keep hearing aqua I wonder if my aqua moon and mars have something to do with my difficulty falling in love. I'm very particular with who I want to be with and I don't settle.
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@starwars That's something I've tried to figure out. Can anyone ignore their feelings so much that they don't think that they are in love when they actually are? I can imagine it taking quite a lot of energy to bury something that much - consciously talking oneself out of feelings frequently to keep on top of it to make sure it didn't surface.
I believe I could ive done it lots of time, like when falling for the wrong people or in the wrong times or after a breakup. I'm used to putting my emotions aside so its not that weird to me nor is hard, im used to it. its not that I start believing that I don't like a certain person, it just become my last priority and one of the last things to worry-think about.
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That makes sense in those contexts. I can do that too. For me it's about identifying if my feelings are really about who the person is rather than what I hope they are.
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@starwars Me too! I think more people should be careful like that. One guy fell so fast that he had our life together planned out after a few emails and only one short date with me. That was extreme, of course, lol, and a huge warning sign. I didn't continue to get to know him for that and other reasons.

True that people will wait if they care enough. The pressure can be difficult to handle when my pace is slower than theirs. I don't like to feel rushed.