Will I reconsile with someone from the past ? horary

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its not me.

leo man behaves weirdly but does not take action. he analyses a lot but when i took action he pulled back.

when he was taking action i was okey with that. but when i mentioned sth like meeting ( he offeredit before) he pulled back and maybe now analyses a loot🙂

virgo is my ex.

idont know if he wants to be friends now after 2years or just want to boost his ego knowing me and giving me high fives lol.

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they know each other.

last year virgo realised i liked leo.

i dont know why he was jealous as hell.

he c0ck blocked me in january, told leo i was in an unofficial relationship with virgo + made me abad black pr later.

then i moved to another country for 6 months.

i was writing to leo.

leo helped me with sth but pulled back when i showed interest. ( he has a lot of virgo placements).

i had a gift for him because he helped me. he postponed a meeting twice for 2 months.

i couldnt wait. i ignored him.

when i ignored him he started writing to me.

last week i saw virgo and leo on a party. they were nice. but virgo is suspicious i think. and very teritorial.

when i was in spain hemade closer friends with leo.that is so weird....

now he tags leo on his posts on fb. likes his every activity. like he wants to be seen as HIS friend and takes control of the friendship and territory.

that is so weird.
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they know each other.

last year virgo realised i liked leo.

i dont know why he was jealous as hell.

he c0ck blocked me in january, told leo i was in an unofficial relationship with virgo + made me abad black pr later.

then i moved to another country for 6 months.

i was writing to leo.

leo helped me with sth but pulled back when i showed interest. ( he has a lot of virgo placements).

i had a gift for him because he helped me. he postponed a meeting twice for 2 months.

i couldnt wait. i ignored him.

when i ignored him he started writing to me.

last week i saw virgo and leo on a party. they were nice. but virgo is suspicious i think. and very teritorial.

when i was in spain hemade closer friends with leo.that is so weird....

now he tags leo on his posts on fb. likes his every activity. like he wants to be seen as HIS friend and takes control of the friendship and territory.

that is so weird.


from what youre describing, your virgo s not acting very manly tbh.

go for leo, forget about virgo - his behaviour is unacceptable

leo s the man for you

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Very manly? What do u mean? Controlling territory. ? He dumped me 2.5 years ago didint want to be with me officially . When i became more popular in the company he wanted to come back but i said no. Since then he had a big ego and started controlling me and my relation with leo.
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Very manly? What do u mean? Controlling territory. ? He dumped me 2.5 years ago didint want to be with me officially . When i became more popular in the company he wanted to come back but i said no. Since then he had a big ego and started controlling me and my relation with leo.




no. he s not being very manly in respect to leo and you. he only wants to befriend leo in the hopes he will slowly move his attention from you. he s a cock block and a very insecure man - this virgo. all this territorial display speaks volumes about him. if he dumped you when u weren t popular and now wants to be back with you...what kind of man is he?

he acts like hes the first man in your life, tbh. like he has rights on you, because he thinks you re the same person from 2 yrs ago when he dumped you, when he had the upper hand and could control you.

by the looks of it, things have changed. and if its the leo man who s helped you while the virgo wants to 'own' you coz you re now popular...i think the choice should be pretty obvious.

if you said no to the virgo guy, stick to it. go for leo, encourage him more to chase you.

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I know that virgo wants leo to have a gf pther than me. He is controlling . He wants me to have a bf other than leo. Probably during those 6 months virgo told leo sth bad about me. And now leo steps back. Its selfish and kind of a dog in a manger behaviour... idk what to do- leo teally liked me and i think likes me as well now but idk...
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Im aries born on pisces /aries cusp 21.03.1990. I am stubborn dominative but i am also artistic and very fragile. When someone startd to controll me i am have a very big ego. My parents are artists- dad is leo mum is gemini. This leo guy also has planets and placements as my dad... recently since a few years i have noticed that i become friends like bery good friends with fire or air signs because we dont like to be controlled , we are selfish but trust each other. At my engineering school i was mostly friends with earth signs because they were very work oriented and ambitious as me but personally and on a private level

I get along better with fire signs...thats why i have this crush on leo man... but he prefers to be friends with virgo- but deep inside i have a feeling that virgo takes charge and he claims himself as a leo friend... because leo is very popular alpha and he has a

Looot of other friends
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@aquarius_man

almost 3 years ago i met Virgo man among my high school friend's circle.

i was the new one.

the girl that introduced me into company was Taurus woman.

she was a queen bee in a company.

was single, very attentive, pretty woman. she was a headof a circle of friends.

had to know and be informed about everyone.

she introduced me into the party- environment.



she knew i was the one she could rely on. i come from a good family i never had problems with people, with family.she comes from pathological family, she cut herself.

i was the one the only one who stayed with her from high school.

before - maybe 4-5 years ago i had some assumptions she could be toxic and had a bad influence on me.

even sometimes my mum was telling me that i shuld have cut contact with her. but ok..

3 years ago she was the queen in a company. every boy knew her. she was telling that virgo was her best friend. she was befrending every man in a company, giving him her secrets and taking out his secrets because of a 'true friendship'.

she didnt tell them whom she slept with. she was telling meonly about that and telling also i should not tell virgo and other men because she would be screwed in a company.



so she realised virgo liked me. i didnt know virgo that much but i also liked him. 2.5 years ago we started something. we were not in a real relationship as i said before but i wanted to make it work.

the problem ( besides virgo ) was taurus woman. she sticked her nose into our intimate life. she was the one who was calling me and him after we were getting together.

people didnt know about that but for example we were meeting with people and virgo was nice to me.

then she was taking my hand and wanted me to confess what i did to him that he was nice.

i was telling her ( oh my naive and girly and trustful personality...) that i was just being nice.

then next day i was seeing on fb pictures of her and virgo together on a dinner...

even though she knew that he was supposed to meet with me.

i know i know. why wouldnt he tell her no. because he knew herlonger than me.

although he treated her like a bigger sister. he was smoking weed with her and was more laid back as on a friendship level than with me. because i was the fresh and new one.

but still. she sticked her nose into our 'relation' so many times.

she was even driving him to parties she was even accompanying him to other parties.

i felt betrayed because i told her iliked him and immidiately next days, weeks, she put her attention on him ( even though she knew we started dating).and made him more dependable on him because virgo is a slow thinker and he doesnt like changes. so she used that to mek him more 'her' friend than make any relation with me.



then she started to flirt with my friend , got a new boyfriend, put herfelf into new company started being popular in a new company and manipulating other people.

virgo slowly put away his attention from me to other people- especially her as a friend who abandoned him for her new boyfriend.that is why he started to slowly dump me and now you know the story.



so its not only between me and leo and virgo.

i think leo is unaware of that.

he knows taurus woman as a best friend of virgo.

and he knows me as an unofficial ex gf of virgo - he doesnt know the relation between me and taurus and what she did to me.

and i have so many bad thought to myself that time. i was so naive, i was so trusty to others. now i closed myself. i dont trust people.i can count down best friends on my one hand- like 4 or 5 only.

i do not open up easily.

i remember last year even i asked leo if he was testing me because i coundt trust him...



the taurus girl is almost everywhere everytime. she avoids me.

i deleted her from my life last year as well as her whole new company as well as her older friends and boyfriends. i didnt want to be even associated with that person even on line. she is scared of me now.

she cried when i deleted her from facebook. she is 28 years old LOL.

so i decided to not be associated with her.

i blocked virgo on fb but still on my friend list.

i think that i just wastrusting wrong person from 10 years ... its not that i am a doll that can be manipulated. but it is first time someone very cose to me ( best friend) treated me like that for her own good, and for her own attention.

i never use people. i have never used people. i was always nice..... and being nice turned out to be very bad even in a close company like that....

even before 'us' with virgo, on some meetings she was un accidentally taking his hand when he was talking to me or grabbing his arm and pulling him towards her when he was talking to me. like she wouldnt let him talk to anynone except her.

its so sefish. i have never been like that.



i feel used.and its not about me being a doll like a said. but she was always treating me like little sister. she was always giving me advices like a mother or idk.she was mothering me all the time like i would be lacking of sth. and now i know she was doing it to boost her ego but then in the past i didnt know that.

since that time i achived a lot by myself. i am more capable of communication with strangers, i can say assertive things, i can be very stubborn. i have a mask i have changed.

but still .

with virgo maybe i could have been more assertive and makedrama about why was he partying with her andspending more time with her than with me even thought we were dating. i didnt do it because i was waiting. i was waiting and i regret it because i thought he would have realised. but he didnt.because she was pulling the strings.

its not that he was a doll either.but the relation between me and him was shorter and fresher than with them... so probably he was trusting her more.

so she was acting like a dog in a manger to me when it comes to virgo - as virgo was doing the same to leo man 2 years after.... and i was also involved.



i left the company. i live by my own. i can be associated now as a very assertive and strong woman. but its only ebcause i dont trust people.

maybe its not a big deal for other people. but for me it was because trust is everting to me...

maybe my story is stupid but i feel used on an emotional level. its very childish behaviour. like in a primary school- pullling strings, pulling back, grabbing hands. i realise that .i know that.making her all attention seeker?

wanted to be in a centre no matter what?



but why did she do it? because she was so lacking of something and she was doing it to boost her ego? because she was so aware of her complexes that she had to use other people emotionally?the life is not a jungle and a war when it comes to love. maybe sometimes it is but among people who know each other...

from that company everyone is in a relationship except me, virgo and taurus girl' ex boyfriends.

because even now she makes dinners or suppers for 'big company' like those people.

i am never invited but for my good. i am happy that she doesnt invite me.

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Posted by joanne_p Taurus woman.

she was a queen bee in a company.



before - maybe 4-5 years ago i had some assumptions she could be toxic and had a bad influence on me.

even sometimes my mum was telling me that i shuld have cut contact with her. but ok..

3 years ago she was the queen in a company. every boy knew her. she was telling that virgo was her best friend. she was befrending every man in a company, giving him her secrets and taking out his secrets because of a 'true friendship'.




you should've listened to your mom. taurus girls are the stupidest women on earth, like dumb cows.

and their influence on aries women is really really bad.

you wrote here a shitload of information - not all of it interesting but pretty dull i would say - but the conclusion im drawing here is you let yourself be abused and manipulated by work colleagues. why are you lame like that?

why don't you step over them and tell them to let you be? you aries are not common folk like dumbass taurus women cows or gay-ass virgo males.

there's a saying - qui se semble se ressemble, you know what that means. if you keep hanging out with these people, they will never understand you but will try to control you.

fucqk the stupid taurus woman and the gay ass virgo, i say

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yes i left the company, i left taurus and i deleted her and her fake friends from my life.

i think now virgo realises i am not dependable on her.

because before when i started being in a company i was a nice person. i didnt want to hurt anyone and that s why i was the 'nice girl'.

but she felt that and was manipulating me. i didnt know that because i have never been in a situation like that.



i am aries i have the power. but my power was stuck in me for so long.

i didnt open up to people very much because i knew that some of them would be scared of my power.

when i left the company they saw me as an individual unit working on myself.

not dependable of a taurus girl anyone

taurus woman had a tendency to gossip around about people who were not invited. and many times i was a witness of some weird stories about someone that is not present in a company. like giving the advices and telling about people. so bad. i didnt stick to that for long time
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oh i see now - u left the company! that s the spirit! avoid these toxic stupid ass taurus women & virgo gay men

ps - aurus woman acting like a bitsch in heat? only because she likes the virgo man for herself, ill tell you that


yes i know but why?

she has been in a relationship for 2 years with 5 year younger aqua man...



before 8 -7 years ago it was the same.

she wasin a relationship with a cancer man, befrending virgo ( other virgo man who left the country 3 years ago). when she became single virgo was hitting on her. she didnt want. then she was involved with capricorn befrending virgo man ( the older one). then left capricorn. virgo hit on her again she didnt want. he was doing everything to her. she didnt want him.

he told her she was a bad person and left the country to work abroad. now after -7-8 years she added him again in social media and so one.



and its the same circle. that she must have a controll over virgo men in her lifes.



this is the 2nd virgo man there was something between me and him and she is involved.



i will tell you that in high school 7-8 years ago i was dating that 1st virgo man as well and then she appeared .... and the story is the same now.





im not joking.



i am away now.

i dont know her.
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Posted by joanne_p Taurus woman.

she was a queen bee in a company.



before - maybe 4-5 years ago i had some assumptions she could be toxic and had a bad influence on me.

even sometimes my mum was telling me that i shuld have cut contact with her. but ok..

3 years ago she was the queen in a company. every boy knew her. she was telling that virgo was her best friend. she was befrending every man in a company, giving him her secrets and taking out his secrets because of a 'true friendship'.




you should've listened to your mom. taurus girls are the stupidest women on earth, like dumb cows.

and their influence on aries women is really really bad.

you wrote here a shitload of information - not all of it interesting but pretty dull i would say - but the conclusion im drawing here is you let yourself be abused and manipulated by work colleagues. why are you lame like that?

why don't you step over them and tell them to let you be? you aries are not common folk like dumbass taurus women cows or gay-ass virgo males.

there's a saying - qui se semble se ressemble, you know what that means. if you keep hanging out with these people, they will never understand you but will try to control you.

fucqk the stupid taurus woman and the gay ass virgo, i say




yes i left the company, i left taurus and i deleted her and her fake friends from my life.

i think now virgo realises i am not dependable on her.

because before when i started being in a company i was a nice person. i didnt want to hurt anyone and that s why i was the 'nice girl'.

but she felt that and was manipulating me. i didnt know that because i have never been in a situation like that.



i am aries i have the power. but my power was stuck in me for so long.

i didnt open up to people very much because i knew that some of them would be scared of my power.

when i left the company they saw me as an individual unit working on myself.

not dependable of a taurus girl anyone

taurus woman had a tendency to gossip around about people who were not invited. and many times i was a witness of some weird stories about someone that is not present in a company. like giving the advices and telling about people. so bad. i didnt stick to that for long time
ok, but what s your problem now?

i dont understand what you re still asking?

ps - taurus women are the dumbest ppl to ever populate the earth, stupid and gossiping and thick between the ears. and so is her virgo friend, your ex lover. you should stop talking about these ppl and forget them. they are toxic.



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my problem is that i had to leave the company . because she won again.

i try not to take it personally but i took it before. i think i am a looser.
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i think that those peope are afraid. to leave the comfort zones and are stick to themselves pretending to be cool.but deep inside they envy me .

they have jobs they earn 10000 pln per month but does it matter if you are unhappy and stick your nose into someone's life?

no.

i dont have a job now. i am jobless. i work only on my diploma. i want to be the best in this. because its my master degree in architecture.

i want to show myself i am very good.

i put a pressure on me to prove myself i can be ok to my future work. and i can work on my own...



yes you are right. taurus women are bad.



aqua man is 5 years younger than her and she is stick to him because she can control him. he is nice. i know him he is my friend. was my friend .

he likes older women.

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@tiziani

could you remind me why this chart was weird? can i ask the question again today?

i do not know what is inside me but i only am attached with fire people or i have very long relationships with people.

i can not act quick. i do not know.

my very long friends are capricorns and fire signs - capricorns ( not virgos nor tauruses) test me or like me from the beginning but i create a wall.

with fire signs i feel flow from the beginning but its slow, not quick.

no idea why.

i have met a lot of people in my lifethat could be my matches, romantic partners but there is something inside me that blocks me or pulls away and make them confused.

how can i avoid it?

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i was asking about a virgo or/and leo man in my life.

there have been some issues with them.

and they come from different environment than me but still...

i dont know what to think about it.

i am closing myself. i am focusing on me.

i thought leo man will likeme. but i see i must pursue him like a doll to like me like a marionette. i am not like that , if he wanted he would call or tell me to have out. ive asked so many times.

he only parties. and works.