Hooking up with a Cancer guy

So I'm a 24 year old Leo female and I recent met a 27 year old cancer guy (12th July). We've been hooking up for just over a month now and it's been great. We meet up every couple of days, and when we do, I end up staying the night and pretty much half the next day. And we're up talking about so many things and the sex in incredible. He talks to be about his previous relationships, expediences, about his feelings and his aspirations. And it's great, there's no pressure, we're both pretty clear that neither of us wants anything serious right now. But I keep catching him in these moments where hes just staring, or while we're watching movie, he'll be watching me, he keeps throwing these testing questions at me to see if I listened or remembered something we spoke about earlier, he always texts, from the second I leave or he'll call randomly and we'll talk for hours. Hes mentioned a couple of times hes hasn't hooked up with anyone else or really even wanted to since we started hanging out. The other night he got a little upset I think that I didn't show him a few videos from a party I had gone to. He wasn't thrilled that I didn't want to show him things like my social media profile and etc. (Although those are just my personal rules when I'm hooking up with someone, to keep them isolated from the routine aspects of my life)

Is there something more to this or am I over thinking it? Because if there is something more happening here then I need to think this through before I end up hurting him.

uhhhhhhhhhhh

you are too late

who said first they didnt wanted more?

would that happen to be you?

and was it actually said with those words?

"i dont want a serious relationship...not even with you"

cause if you havent...welll honey...then in his eyes...

he is trying to make you fall in love

anddddd sounds like he already did

we cancers......chase the happily ever after

and if you would leave right after sex and dont share ....that might be a sign to him (even then we have hope)

you see.....we believe in happily ever after...even if the rest doesnt....we thrive for it....

but you stay after......soooooo......and you share a emotional connection

and sorry to say....your intention doesnt add up with what you are doing

you sure you dont want more? realllllyyy really sure

cause it sounds like you are already to far if you dont and dont want to hurt him

and uhhhh no insight in your social media and it upsets him?

yeah he sees you as his gf honey

i HATE it when im involved with someone and i am not on all the pages

cause shutting me out means you dont care like i do

but if you have sex with me.....you should care.its normal....thats how we feel, think and operate life.

thats cancer honey

we want honesty

and if you are not looking for something meaningfull

then dont give hope

you have very different ideas of boundaries of intimacy and you wont work and he is going to be heartbroken

i can see this scenario from a mile away

Posted by RedQueen

uhhhhhhhhhhh

you are too late

who said first they didnt wanted more?

would that happen to be you?

and was it actually said with those words?

"i dont want a serious relationship...not even with you"

cause if you havent...welll honey...then in his eyes...

he is trying to make you fall in love

anddddd sounds like he already did

we cancers......chase the happily ever after

and if you would leave right after sex and dont share ....that might be a sign to him (even then we have hope)

you see.....we believe in happily ever after...even if the rest doesnt....we thrive for it....

but you stay after......soooooo......and you share a emotional connection

and sorry to say....your intention doesnt add up with what you are doing

you sure you dont want more? realllllyyy really sure

cause it sounds like you are already to far if you dont and dont want to hurt him

and uhhhh no insight in your social media and it upsets him?

yeah he sees you as his gf honey

i HATE it when im involved with someone and i am not on all the pages

cause shutting me out means you dont care like i do

but if you have sex with me.....you should care.its normal....thats how we feel, think and operate life.

thats cancer honey

we want honesty

and if you are not looking for something meaningfull

then dont give hope

you have very different ideas of boundaries of intimacy and you wont work and he is going to be heartbroken

i can see this scenario from a mile away

I agree! #wellexpressed