I attract Cancer Men

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by newtothis on Tuesday, May 10, 2022 and has 12 replies.

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@newtothis
6 Years

I don't know what I am doing, but Cancer men have been flocking to me recently. My ex was a Cancer, and three guys I'm talking to are Cancers.

Below is my chart. I guess it is the Virgo in me? I have been asked if I am a Virgo or Capricorn a lot.

My chart:

Rising- Gemini

Sun- Aries

Moon- Libra

Mercury- Aries

Venus- Aries

Mars- Virgo

Jupiter- Aquarius

Saturn- Aries

Uranus- Aquarius

Neptune- Capricorn

Pluto- Sagittarius

Lilith- Virgo

N Node- Virgo

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@newtothis
6 Years

Note- I do like Cancer men. They are very nurturing, kind, and understanding. There is a lot of comfort in them.

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@SassyKiwi
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by newtothis

Posted by SassyKiwi

You have a shit ton of energy and placements that square Cancer, of course they’ll flock to you.

What do you mean square Cancer?

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Aries and Libra square Cancer. Capricorn opposes Cancer. Therefore your sun, moon, mercury and venus (inner planets) square anyone who is a Cancer sun plus any additional Cancer placements they most likely may have. Your Neptune opposes Cancer placements. The concept is very similar to opposites attracting.

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@mirthyQ
4 Years

You probably have your moon in the 4th house with Libra stretching into the 5th. So you give off a maternal vibe (4th house = Cancer's house) stretching into playful romance which these moon beams are picking up on. And, moon opposed to Venus gives this moon some romance to it. Don't worry these attractions should lead no where meaningful. Once you get to know each other things won't last.

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@newtothis
6 Years

Posted by mirthyQ

You probably have your moon in the 4th house with Libra stretching into the 5th. So you give off a maternal vibe (4th house = Cancer's house) stretching into playful romance which these moon beams are picking up on. And, moon opposed to Venus gives this moon some romance to it. Don't worry these attractions should lead no where meaningful. Once you get to know each other things won't last.

Well, that last part is not very nice. Why do you say that?

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@newtothis
6 Years

Posted by Bumboklaat

Posted by mirthyQ

You probably have your moon in the 4th house with Libra stretching into the 5th. So you give off a maternal vibe (4th house = Cancer's house) stretching into playful romance which these moon beams are picking up on. And, moon opposed to Venus gives this moon some romance to it. Don't worry these attractions should lead no where meaningful. Once you get to know each other things won't last.

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Yeah lots of dxpers have proven this when they post their experiences, especially 12th housers always attracting Pisces and Virgo and 4th housers attracting water signs. Irrespective of their sun sign.

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Can you explain more please? I do not really understand. I just want someone to care about and nurture me. It is a relationship, not a business acquaintance.

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@newtothis
6 Years

Posted by Bumboklaat

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Posted by Bumboklaat

Posted by mirthyQ

You probably have your moon in the 4th house with Libra stretching into the 5th. So you give off a maternal vibe (4th house = Cancer's house) stretching into playful romance which these moon beams are picking up on. And, moon opposed to Venus gives this moon some romance to it. Don't worry these attractions should lead no where meaningful. Once you get to know each other things won't last.

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Yeah lots of dxpers have proven this when they post their experiences, especially 12th housers always attracting Pisces and Virgo and 4th housers attracting water signs. Irrespective of their sun sign.

Can you explain more please? I do not really understand. I just want someone to care about and nurture me. It is a relationship, not a business acquaintance.

It means your chart has a lot of Aries placements which clashes with Cancer but you're sun may be in a house that is compatible with Cancer.

So kind of a love/hate energy. Doesent mean it will be like that but the energy says so astrologically .

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Got you. But astrological placements are not the be all end all. I could match with a guy who is compatible astrologically, but not have the same outlook, life goals, education, etc.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by newtothis

Posted by Bumboklaat

Posted by newtothis

Posted by Bumboklaat

Posted by mirthyQ

You probably have your moon in the 4th house with Libra stretching into the 5th. So you give off a maternal vibe (4th house = Cancer's house) stretching into playful romance which these moon beams are picking up on. And, moon opposed to Venus gives this moon some romance to it. Don't worry these attractions should lead no where meaningful. Once you get to know each other things won't last.

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Yeah lots of dxpers have proven this when they post their experiences, especially 12th housers always attracting Pisces and Virgo and 4th housers attracting water signs. Irrespective of their sun sign.

Can you explain more please? I do not really understand. I just want someone to care about and nurture me. It is a relationship, not a business acquaintance.

It means your chart has a lot of Aries placements which clashes with Cancer but you're sun may be in a house that is compatible with Cancer.

So kind of a love/hate energy. Doesent mean it will be like that but the energy says so astrologically .

Got you. But astrological placements are not the be all end all. I could match with a guy who is compatible astrologically, but not have the same outlook, life goals, education, etc.

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Cancer/Aries are extremely hard to maneuver. I wonder if they every really understand each other fully. I think it may be one of the hardest square signs to work out. Especially when hurt feelings are involved.