Posted by cclove_1969Could he have met someone else and fallen in love with them?
I have been dating/living with my cancer bf for over a year.. I am a Pisces. A week ago without any notice. It was the day after June 1St the rent was paid he said he didn't see a future and broke up and know he is acting really cold hearted towards me.. We didn't fight everything was fine the night before he refuses to tell me why? And what's with the coldness?
Posted by urbane101
3 reasons in my opinion: he either didnt want to fight about it because he just wasnt interested anymore. 2: rent payments (this is more of a personal financial thing so i wont ask specifics. You DID mention it so this could be one thing though). 3:he found someone else, hopefully not this.
Either eay, do not speak with him at all. Dont text or call. If everything was fine and he left on a whim, he'll remember you and may come back. Just improve yourself, go through the 5 stages without interacting with him.
Posted by cclove_1969Posted by urbane101
3 reasons in my opinion: he either didnt want to fight about it because he just wasnt interested anymore. 2: rent payments (this is more of a personal financial thing so i wont ask specifics. You DID mention it so this could be one thing though). 3:he found someone else, hopefully not this.
Either eay, do not speak with him at all. Dont text or call. If everything was fine and he left on a whim, he'll remember you and may come back. Just improve yourself, go through the 5 stages without interacting with him.
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Posted by cclove_1969Nobody does, but do not speak ill of him. It's stupid, crazy, hurtful, etc. but until a few months have passed after the breakup, I would hold my tongue (hard lesson learned) about him until then. You enjoyed this person, let him sort his self out. He may have his reasons but I do feel like coming out of the blind side with this news was not too fair.
Thanks I am now just ignoring him and giving him his space but I am just shocked at his behavior not to say what happened as adults.. He went from loving to cold... I guess I will never know... I am moving and letting go I know I don't deserve this
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
What are your moons. I'll break up with someone like that if i have no more feelings towards them
I can't pretend to love someone i don't
Posted by urbane101What's 5 stages?
3 reasons in my opinion: he either didnt want to fight about it because he just wasnt interested anymore. 2: rent payments (this is more of a personal financial thing so i wont ask specifics. You DID mention it so this could be one thing though). 3:he found someone else, hopefully not this.
Either eay, do not speak with him at all. Dont text or call. If everything was fine and he left on a whim, he'll remember you and may come back. Just improve yourself, go through the 5 stages without interacting with him.
Posted by cclove_1969Have never heard Yes to a question about another woman! It's old as earth itself.
I asked if it was another woman he said NO!!!
Are names are both on the lease..
The thing that gets me he gave notice that we wouldn't be renewing it on May24th and he said he told me he did it June 2nd.... Which was a lie
Yeah unfortunately we are still under the same roof until end of month. but refuses to talk to me unless to ask me for something?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeOk.Posted by LazyKHe's a leo.
I feel there's more to the story.
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Posted by GemitatiSorry, the 5 stages of grief. I'm basically saying to become less attached to him the best you can so you don't suffer as long. I know it's probably not easy since you're under the same roof, however I think you should try something to get your mind off of it. What are your hobbies that NO ONE knows about? that you don't let anyone touch or know? do those. That's what has helped me, although we ARE different people. Give that a shot 😉Posted by urbane101What's 5 stages?
3 reasons in my opinion: he either didnt want to fight about it because he just wasnt interested anymore. 2: rent payments (this is more of a personal financial thing so i wont ask specifics. You DID mention it so this could be one thing though). 3:he found someone else, hopefully not this.
Either eay, do not speak with him at all. Dont text or call. If everything was fine and he left on a whim, he'll remember you and may come back. Just improve yourself, go through the 5 stages without interacting with him.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeIt clearly says he's a cancer in the titlePosted by LazyKHe's a leo.
I feel there's more to the story.
Strange a cancer would cut you off cold 4 no reasonclick to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeOops!Posted by LazyKJune 23rd leoPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeIt clearly says he's a cancer in the titlePosted by LazyKHe's a leo.
I feel there's more to the story.
Strange a cancer would cut you off cold 4 no reason
Or is he one of those cancer that pretend to be Leo's because of placements
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Posted by SofiaV87Well I thought that at first... But no..... I am thinking maybe he is more a Leo than a cancer....
I would flip the fuck out if this happened to me, especially without any warning ... I would automatically think it's another woman too , that's just me though
Posted by cclove_1969Tell us what happens, I hope u find the truth !Posted by SofiaV87Well I thought that at first... But no..... I am thinking maybe he is more a Leo than a cancer....
I would flip the fuck out if this happened to me, especially without any warning ... I would automatically think it's another woman too , that's just me though
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Posted by cclove_1969
I asked if it was another woman he said NO!!!
Are names are both on the lease..
The thing that gets me he gave notice that we wouldn't be renewing it on May24th and he said he told me he did it June 2nd.... Which was a lie
Yeah unfortunately we are still under the same roof until end of month. but refuses to talk to me unless to ask me for something?
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