3 Keys to a Cancer's heart:

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by 187 on Wednesday, November 1, 2006 and has 45 replies.

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@187
19 Years

-Be yourself, most importantly. That's why we fell in love with you in the first place. We are usually accepting and tolerant of who you are. Don't change yourself, he or she will usually change to cater to you.

-Be sweet and sincere. Sometimes we believe that we aren't good enough for certain people so just don't even bother talking to them. Our fear of rejection is probably the most lethal of our faults.

-Don't smother them with love. Show them you care, but slowly and surely. Compliment them, be sweet and soothing as if you're trying merge your soul with them. "Flow with the water."

Show them that you really really give a damn and all should be well.

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@sunaina
20 Years

187,

I like the way you laid it out

You are either a cancer or know them well

However I disagree with the smothering part because cancer's do that to others so I would think that is something they like in return??

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@187
19 Years

Yeah I'm a cancer. I'm just drawing from observations of my life and of others who are cancers as well. I somewhat like smothering yet I also dislike it too. It makes me feel weak and sentimental. You truly start to see the negativity of your sign when you hang around them - it's like staring in a mirror and seeing yourself.

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@187
19 Years

edit:

I smother cause I hate to lose what I have. I can get over it, but it's just so painful. I guess I also hate to see when people are hurt/feeling down. I almost always feel obligated to help them out.

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@187
19 Years

"you don't need to smother us, just pay attention.

and look fantastic while you're doing that."

Very true. We speak/do things from the heart, which is why we get offended pretty easily. Work on desensify your cancer as well. (something I'm working on myself)

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@cancimini
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

My oh my, the vocabulary of a taurus is even more simple than the voc. of a scorpio!!!

I need to re-evaluate my priorities here...

scorpio: handcuffs, trouble, skin, sex, revenge (and a few dirty words..)

or

taurus: food, love, sex

HMMmmmm, toughy!!!!

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@stardance
20 Years500+ Posts

From another cancer libra rising sex is important when I want some, when I don't want it, it's not important at all. My gemman can always get me to want some when he wants some. Yeah you know we do it up! πŸ˜›

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@stardance
20 Years500+ Posts

He holds all the keys, he feeds me, loves me and sexes me a lot. He also pays attention to me and he looks good doing it! But doesn't smother me, I don't like it when I feel like the smotheree. I am the one that lathers the affection when I feel it's needed and he deals well with it. πŸ˜›

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@stardance
20 Years500+ Posts

MercinAries....I think Cancimini can handle herself, this is a safe place to be open about your feelings. I get the feeling she has the world on a short string and gets just what she wants when she wants. You go girl!