I've just made friend with a Cancer girl . We just talked once and she seemed to trust me (she said that!) . At the end of our meeting , she told me that it's the 1st time that she told someone so many of her "secrets" on the 1st meeting ...I then had to assure her that I can keep them...Anyway, she seems a genuine person so I really want this friendship to work out ...It's just that she seems to be too emotional and have some many "unrealistic" notions about things....I'm not sure how to be a friend to her ...Any advice?
Thanks for the advice moon_eyes . I guess I'm overthinking things sometimes ! It's just kind of weird how two new Cancer friends ( yes another new Cancer friend!) told me everything and trust me - too quickly ! To be honest , people seem to tell me about themselves and trust me in a short time but the thing is that they don't say the word "TRUST" out loud like Cancer people and kind of hinting "I trust you so don't betray me"accompanying with a "look" so I've to assure her ... I guess I'm just afraid because of some rumours about Cancer's emotional manipulation...
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I've just made friend with a Cancer girl . We just talked once and she seemed to trust me (she said that!) . At the end of our meeting , she told me that it's the 1st time that she told someone so many of her "secrets" on the 1st meeting ...I then had to assure her that I can keep them...Anyway, she seems a genuine person so I really want this friendship to work out ...It's just that she seems to be too emotional and have some many "unrealistic" notions about things....I'm not sure how to be a friend to her ...Any advice?