Alrighty Then

Okay, I hope I don't eat my words for saying this BUT here goes nothing ....

Cancer men generally make very good friends once they are sure of you (I suppose) -- they understand that you won't betray them and that they can tell you anything and it will stay just between the both of you.

As lovers on the otherhand ... I don't think all cancer men are terrible men, but I do think that they have a tendency to go "wayward" (in every sense of the word) when deeply hurt by someone they once loved. It takes them a long time to trust anyone, because they are so emotional.

Haha, I guess their greatest strength is their greatest weakness ...

There is no way you can make them be who you want them to be nor can you make them want you -- this is all something they have to develope on there own.

What I said above does not excuse any man's behavior (No Sir!) but I am fully aware that if I get involve with a man who has other women on the side while still heart-broken over his ex ... then I didn't use a very good sense of judgement, which makes me part of the blame if some goes wrong in the coupling.

I've learned never to go into a relationship with you eyes closed 😉

But Anyway, I think cancers make wonderful and loyal friends, even if they get angry with you 🙂 They can be very giving and sweet people too.

Hahaha, and no I'm not sucking up either 🙂 I mean what I've stated. Hey, who knows, one day I may meet a Crab-Man who may have the nerve to fall in love with this zany goat-girl 😉

Hahahaha!!!! That would be the day. I would have to make a decision though -- should I stay put or run like mad! LOL, J/K ... if he's a good guy then there won't be any need to run away I suppose ^_^.

Hi ladydane,

The person I'm talking isn't the same cancer guy I have ranted about in the past (although he still talks to me but thats all we do).

There's a New Cancer guy, well, Cancer-Leo cusp I believe 🙂 I've known him since last year and he has always been very sweet ... alittle high-strung but still sweet.

He is a friend of mine but I guess I failed to mension him because of I was so involved in silly stuff. There are things about his personality that are just very appealing to me and thats why we are so cool with each other.

I just made a post about him because I spent so much time talking about one cancer guy and refuse to speak the other . He's a very strong a sturdy guy (REALLY he looks rock hard, he's a bouncer 😛) but he is surprisingly tender too ... hmmmm 🙂

Well ... we are cool up until I make him mad then we may argue alittle LOL

wish I had my Cancer guy back, even if just for a friend.

Oh No 😢 Well, from what you've said in the past maybe he needs to grow up alittle and then you two can be friends.

wtf does 'wayward' mean in this context?