Lil.ladie.taurus
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Well from what he said, he's not ready or willing to think of you two as being too serious right now. So in that case I reckon if you can, start looking around. Start getting out there and mixing with other guys and girls and other *signs"!
whats in his head:
cancer guys look for the emotional connection to stray...the physical can be tempting, and he would probably cheat with you if you made a move..but you aren't gonna get what you want from doing it like this. if you play on his physical attraction for you, that is all you will get-the physical..not the emotional connection you want. if he acted on his physical attraction for you, he will never be "all yours". cancers like their secrets, but in the end are loyal (won't leave the one they are with) for them.
cancer guys look for the emotional connection to stray...the physical can be tempting, and he would probably cheat with you if you made a move..but you aren't gonna get what you want from doing it like this. if you play on his physical attraction for you, that is all you will get-the physical..not the emotional connection you want. if he acted on his physical attraction for you, he will never be "all yours". cancers like their secrets, but in the end are loyal (won't leave the one they are with) for them.
Wow. All i can say is you are not alone in dealing with a cancerian guy like this. I am in the same type of situation.
I have gotten lots of great recommendations from this sight. Mainly, if you want to stick around, I get advice to just "go with the flow" and not get to deep into it. back off a little. I know when i get really confused about something, i review the situation in my head and take all the words away. I run it thru my mind like a movie and only apply actions to attempt to figure out where i stand or what i should do. YOu know what they say about actions louder than words and how some people say one thing and do another? That little technique helps at times.
It obviously seems like he isn't ready to be tied down, so to speak right now. Is this just recently that you feel like he isn't ready to move on to the next level?
I have gotten lots of great recommendations from this sight. Mainly, if you want to stick around, I get advice to just "go with the flow" and not get to deep into it. back off a little. I know when i get really confused about something, i review the situation in my head and take all the words away. I run it thru my mind like a movie and only apply actions to attempt to figure out where i stand or what i should do. YOu know what they say about actions louder than words and how some people say one thing and do another? That little technique helps at times.
It obviously seems like he isn't ready to be tied down, so to speak right now. Is this just recently that you feel like he isn't ready to move on to the next level?
im starting to believe menbay12 is right....
"if he acted on his physical attraction for you, he will never be "all yours". cancers like their secrets, but in the end are loyal (won't leave the one they are with) for them."
the real fucked up part is, i dont think i would ever leave my bf for him either. when he said: if ur with sumone u like so much, why would u wnat to be with me?"
i couldnt answer, i had NOTHING to say. i think maybe, i jus really want him to want me. maybe we both feel that same way.
i dont know lol.
"if he acted on his physical attraction for you, he will never be "all yours". cancers like their secrets, but in the end are loyal (won't leave the one they are with) for them."
the real fucked up part is, i dont think i would ever leave my bf for him either. when he said: if ur with sumone u like so much, why would u wnat to be with me?"
i couldnt answer, i had NOTHING to say. i think maybe, i jus really want him to want me. maybe we both feel that same way.
i dont know lol.
wtf ——
Sorry, ladies, but this seems way weird to me . . if you both have "others" to whom you are "with" . . what about loyalty and trust?
Sentiments don't belong in a coupling that's for the purpose of just getting laid. He has a gf and this is just a piece on the side. And you have a bf . . this is just wrong in so many ways.
I don't understand how this can be discussed so casually?
I'm not understanding . . certainly, I realize that people cheat . .but, to do so and then try and grasp why the man you're cheating with isn't wanting to have an emotional bond with you? You're a piece of ass to him . . that's how he sees you because that is how you present yourself to him because your bound to another man.
Maybe I'm reading this all wrong . . did I miss something here?
Sorry, ladies, but this seems way weird to me . . if you both have "others" to whom you are "with" . . what about loyalty and trust?
Sentiments don't belong in a coupling that's for the purpose of just getting laid. He has a gf and this is just a piece on the side. And you have a bf . . this is just wrong in so many ways.
I don't understand how this can be discussed so casually?
I'm not understanding . . certainly, I realize that people cheat . .but, to do so and then try and grasp why the man you're cheating with isn't wanting to have an emotional bond with you? You're a piece of ass to him . . that's how he sees you because that is how you present yourself to him because your bound to another man.
Maybe I'm reading this all wrong . . did I miss something here?
P-Angel...U precisely summed it up. I chose not to intervene before coz I might then be addressing an audience which has a different set of values.
well, we've been best friends since we were kids, and we were eahocthers firsts
not saying what im doing is right, jus syaing its alot deeper ( for me anyways) than jus geting laid.
but i repsect ur opinion.
im not proud of myself.
but i repsect ur opinion.
im not proud of myself.
Then make yourself proud and back off from it. It's bad karma, Lilladietaurus, especially when others might get hurt. Otherwise, just do what the majority of the world does and get what you want.
dieselcancer, and everyone, u are all right..... ughhh.. i hope i can stop being so stubbron and thickheaded and take all your good advice before sumone gets hurt.
u kno wut, i will make that my belated new years resolution
u kno wut, i will make that my belated new years resolution
1) when cancers cheat it is usually to fill some void in the relationship that isn't being "served", if you will. However, we rarely ever have any intention to leave the person we are already with.
2) He's probably also thinking that you'd cheat on him if he were with you at any deep level (even though he is every bit as much of a cheater as you are)...double standard I know.......but that's exactly what he's probably thinking.
2) He's probably also thinking that you'd cheat on him if he were with you at any deep level (even though he is every bit as much of a cheater as you are)...double standard I know.......but that's exactly what he's probably thinking.
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me: yeah
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we supposed to get together 2morrow. he "promised" i guess we will see.
ANALYZE THAT PLEASE lol