Any thoughts!

Me again....hadn't seen my cancer for months and then the other day he popped up where I was....it was kinda odd as I know he usually goes somewhere else for coffee in the morning...

Anyway I was there with a female co-worker and we were having our coffee....we got up to leave and had to walk directly by him and he said Hi, how are you....I replied good and asked him the same question and told him to have a good day!

I didn't show any emotion really just gave him what he gave me....I know I shouldn't be a ice princess....

I find it odd that he would show up there and make a point of saying hi, what to you all think....

Just when I think he doesn't know I am alive he appears....I do know he is still on plenty of fish....must not be going well LOL

It might mean that he's just checking up on you. I don't think you were an ice princess at all. You said hello and asked how he was doing. You even told him to have a good day! lol, that was very nice of you.

If he wants you back, let him do the work. Just continue being pretty, enjoying coffee with friends and doing what ever brightens your day. He will come around, he's just testing the water to see if the fish will jump. Make his ass sweat a bit. He will come back in rare form, depending on how well you make him wonder what you're doing.

Good luck ~~CapMermaid

Thanks CapMermaid.....

I am going to let him do all the work.....he is the man and they say they like to hunt and they like a challenge.....so its all up to him...

If they could just be up front and honest....I know he isn't playing games its just the way they work....but how slow can they go lol

Any predicitions on what he may do next?

SO, Kel told you. He is interested because he drop by to see you at the coffee shop he rarely has time to visit. If you see him just continue to speak. Another Aries on this board posted her relationship with her Cancer man. Read through some of the recent posts. And welcome back! Your concerns with your Cancer man will always be appreciated!

Yeah, he will try to contact you, but it may take some time. He is waiting to see if you will chase him first...so do not contact him. When he does, keep the conversation light by explaining all the fun you've been having and all the stuff you've accomplished since he's been gone. Remain friendly, and end the conversation before he does. Keep us posted !