Are cancers forgetful?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by ariesheart on Tuesday, March 15, 2016 and has 4 replies.

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@ariesheart
11 Years

My boyfriend of two years and i been doing the long distant thing for about two months now. The other day I sent him a "I love you" type package with his favorite things. He called me today and continued to tell me he loves it, but what threw me off was him saying he can't believe I did it.

Now, this is not the first time I've done nice, special things for him. When he deploys overseas, I send him care packages, once I went to his home while he was at work and redecorated his whole room with his favorite sports team because he's been wanting to do it for so long.....tons of stuff like that. And every time he says that "I can't believe you would do this".

And he doesn't say it like he can't believe I did the deed. Its more like he can't believe I did anything nice period. It kind of upsets me because I'm like "do you not remember anything I do for you"—? He never gives a straight answer, just says he appreciate me and I'm a good woman.

It's getting annoying

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@EvatheDiva
10 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

You don't need a comment like that to set you off! He's a man! It's his way of saying, "Thank you!". Look at his smile when you do this for him. Keep up the good work!

Love,

Eva

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@ariesheart
11 Years

Posted by EvatheDiva
You don't need a comment like that to set you off! He's a man! It's his way of saying, "Thank you!". Look at his smile when you do this for him. Keep up the good work!

Love,

Eva

Awe, thank you!