Cancer gurl infatuated with two Scorprio men....

I need advise about my polar opposite scorpio men. Scorp #1- We met through our best friends who just got married. In the beginning, we talked on the phone and exchanged text msgs and we lost contact. We see each other a few months later and the spark is still in the air. He chased me for awhile and then we eventually hung out together. The first night we ended up having sex (it was the shyt!!) and he chased even more. He would call/ text every chance he got and this cancer gurl loved every second of it. Within a month he stop calling/ texting as frequently and I began to pick up the slack. Eventually, I asked what he wanted with me and he said that he wasn't sure what he wanted but didn't want to hurt me. Fast forward, the situation was getting old. As a cancer, I have tons of patience but if you're not trying to fit me into your life, I gotta step away. Well, during the wedding weekend of our best friends(we hadn't seen each other in about a month and some change); he sent text msgs saying it was nice seeing me and some other b.s. to pull me back in. At the wedding reception i was a little tipsy and kinda flirting with another groomsman (not obvious)and having a good ol' time (my scorp wasnt paying me any attention). At the end of the night, he pulled me aside a said that i was being disrespectful to him by flirting with the other guy (I had no idea he was paying attention). I secretly loved it but had I let him know that he cannot claim me b/c we're not together. He seemed fustrated but who knows.....we were both a little drunk at that point. We argued and discussed the situation (drunk talk and I hardly remember)and had the best make out session in the universe!!!! We both like each other but I think having mutual friends that we both spend a good amount of time with makes it to close for comfort....

Now, we talk here and there but scorpio #2 had entered the picture......

Scorpio #2.......this is a easy one....he adores me, treats me wonderful, makes me the a top priority and we match up perfectly mentally and spiritually! Here's the problem, I am not as physically and sexually attracted to him and I saw his package down below and dont know if i could be satisfied with it in the long term.

My question is do get I over myself and go for Scorp #2/ be patient and see if Scorp #1 figures out what he wants....truthfully neither of them are going anywhere...I am soooo confused!!!

OMG!!! that is HILARIOUS!!! what are you like woman? the first one is a nightmare and only ok to make out with when you're shit-faced and the second is great but has a disappointing PACKAGE—?? HAHAHHAHAHHAHHAHAHHAHHAHAHHAHA!!!!

it's a shame you can't do what they call in the dodgy motor trade in england a 'cut and shut'. it's when they take half a decent chassis of a particular model of car and just attach it to another decent half chassis, thus creating one car out of two write-offs.

LOL! i don't think you like either of them to be honest.

The polar opposite of scorpio is taurus. Haha, trust me just because a guy is well equipped doesn't mean he knows how to use it. And just because a guy is more "average" down below doesn't mean he can't blow your mind. And if he knows he's a little lackin, he'll be sure to make up for it in other areas 😉

I'd go for number 2...If you bond so well mentally & spiritually, you're more likely to develop something really strong and in time it will be smouldering 🙂 I get the impression that with number 1 it's more of an instantaneous physical thing. But the question is would it last? Number 1 isn't even willing to commit to you, and he sounds a bit possessive - I can't believe he had the nerve to pull you aside and "chat" you about your behaviour! I'd tell him to take a hike...Just my 2cents 🙂

Ok first of hon, before I even read what you've written....you need to get your astrology straight.

"I need advise about my polar opposite scorpio men."

If you're a cancer, how in the hell is scorpio your polar opposite? I'm sorry, but that place is already taken.

Now...let me read your dilemma...

"My question is do get I over myself and go for Scorp #2/ be patient and see if Scorp #1 figures out what he wants....truthfully neither of them are going anywhere...I am soooo confused!!!"

If your venus is in gemini or sag is there really any point to giving you advice on those two? Just move on to scorp #3.

i dunno. i suspect there is much game-playing on both sides though. she said she's infatuated with both of them, so infatuation has a way of making itself evident doesn't it 🙂

newbie: you know i didn't even see that! although having said that i don't think cancer/scorp is all that good for romantic partnerships. they suit pisceans more from the waterworld imo.

Okay...when i said polar opposties i meant they're totally different types of scorpios....I know my astrology!!! I am a cancer, pisces moon, cancer venus, and sag rising!!! I wish that I could have Scopr #1 with Scorp #2 personality...

Scorp #1 and I have our claws in each other an cannot let go...we both have tried.
Scorp #2 is too easy, I need a challange! He's all about pleasing me but I need the full package if you know what I mean!!!

YES... There is a lot of gaming playing with Scorp #1, we both play mind games and manipulate each other, its keeps the fire going (I am crazy and dramatic like that).

There is a Taurus in the picture but its just the beginnig, i will see how that one goes!!!

I will say there is something intense about the cancer/ scorpio connection that i've never had with any other sign.

Evan...It is drama but can you give me more substance, I want to figure this crap out!!! LOL!!

"....truthfully neither of them are going anywhere..."

^^^ What more would you like us to say? There's nothing to figure out, now is there? You know it's not going anywhere...so what exactly are you after by way of advice?

The hotter one (#1) is an asshole, I know what I truly need to do but its hard to let go. I want Scorp #1 to wake up and a decide for us to the damn thing.

Do scorpio men usually say one thing and do another? Scorp #1 says he cares or he wouldn't call or be around. He's always there when I need him, he's kinda my rock. I feel more secure with him.

I've been told that you have to be patient with scorpios and show loyalty, is that true?

Newbie...I guess I want what I cannot have and wonder if I keep being patient he'll come around. I truly like Scorp #1 and wish one day we would become exclusive. Ive never dealt with scorpios before and its hard their hard to figure out...one minute is hot and the next its ice cold....

"If you're a cancer, how in the hell is scorpio your polar opposite? I'm sorry, but that place is already taken.

Now...let me read your dilemma..."

dot dot dot... i don't understand why this comment was posted. it would bring me immeasurable happiness if it were hidden. 😉

dang, my bad ip, I meant that they're totally different scoprios ( of course).

ahole

"Newbie...I guess I want what I cannot have and wonder if I keep being patient he'll come around. I truly like Scorp #1 and wish one day we would become exclusive. Ive never dealt with scorpios before and its hard their hard to figure out...one minute is hot and the next its ice cold...."

Ok....hon, he's the deal straight up. You're not gonna get either one of them. Why? Cuz they know you're not loyal. They'll enjoy being around you but let's face it...you've got cancer sun, pisces moon, cancer venus...what you're doing right now is channeling your sag rising when in actual fact you're an extremely emotional caring being.

You're portraying an "I dont care" image when deep inside you really do. They can see through it. It's easy to get a scorp into bed. NOT easy to get him into a relationship.

For a relationship...it will take at least a year or more...and I mean a year for him to think of settling with you cuz he'll be going back and forth all that time trying to figure you out.

It's a lost cause. You're not gonna get what you want, unless you use that patience you say you have...but if scorp #1 has already seen you running around with other guys...he's not gonna trust you enough to let his heart get caught in this. He'll care...he just wont fall in love...unless your patience extends another 5 years or so...hehe

dang, my bad ip, I meant that they're totally different scoprios ( of course).

ahole

damn, flirty. no need to get nasty on me now

Newbie...."You're portraying an "I dont care" image when deep inside you really do. They can see through it. It's easy to get a scorp into bed. NOT easy to get him into a relationship."
Scorp #1 knows that I care and wants more. Ive told him that I like him and he I know he can tell how sensitive I am. He mentioned that he knows where I am at on the weekends (cause usually with my gurl at his boys house). I guess, his boy would call and text him when I was there. I wasnt seeing anyone else until about a month ago.

Scorp #2 told me that i should still date other people (we havent had sex).

As you know i am not a player at all. I like just having one guy. My Sag rising is what keeps the wall up with an i dont give a damn attitude.

You're right, I am going to fall back on the Scorps!!!

IP...that wasnt for you!!! I AM SORRY!! Pisces asked what mark meant....

oh no..now it's my bad, i see it now.

I never understood how a person can be involved with 2 people at the same time. It's nasty.

Swapping different types of spit and bodily fluids...yuck.

I hope you're not spreading your legs to both of them. That would be very nasty.

No I am not mystic! Thanks for the judgement though, Smooches!!!

Thanks Jack!!!! You're totally right. Like I told Newbie, I am going to fall back on #1. Im going to keep giving my attention to #2 he deserves it and I deserve someone who appreciates me.

Bull...you got a kick outta that huh!?!? What do you think from the male perspective—

lol!! What cha laughing at!?! How do you think #2 is going to flip it on me—? Im not trying to play games...

Bull- LOL!!! My gurl told me I need to try it out before I dismiss it all together but the package was really, really, really small. Kinda like a huge outter belly button that is deformed. I was in shock and he saw it written all over my face. It wasnt even hard but it just sat there on top. It had no hang to it, if you can imagine.

eenie meenie miney mo
catch a scorpio by his toe
if he hollers, let him go
eenie meenie miney mo

Rok-Z- You're funny!!! Lol!!!!

I know its messed up. I am going to stop talking about his short-comings. Karma is going to bite me in the butt. It just made me sad cause I like the guy.

^^^ hahaha....let's line them all up. Scorp 1, Scorp 2, Scorp 3, Scorp 4...

Now...hmmmm....which one shall I pick? :: deep thought ::

Are you implying that Scorp 1 and I are both assholes and we probably deserve each other!?! LOL!!!

Newbie...STOP IT, LMAO!!!!! You and Rok-z are funny!!

gotch ya!!!!

"he pulled me aside a said that i was being disrespectful to him by flirting with the other guy (I had no idea he was paying attention). I secretly loved it .."

Someday, you are going to get burnt so fucking bad ... because that's what happens to players when the day comes that they fall in love with somebody .... they get fucked.

In all seriousness flirtycancer...I'm not sure you know the sign you're dealing with here. You're a cancer, hon and your chart doesnt seem to have a lot of powerful signs in it. All I can tell you is dont fall in love with any of these guys cuz you're gonna get thrashed...especially with that pisces moon.

You may think you enjoy mind games, but you havent seen anything yet...this is a game you're simply not gonna win against a scorpio...once they get past your sag rising and into your core...and especially when they're out for revenge.

Tread very carefully...or you're gonna end up traumatised.

umm..what are you talking about and im not falling in love with anyone. I am so not a player. Just to put you in your place real fast. Ive known Scorp 1 since october. We didnt even hang out until March and we barley see each other, I was not dating anyone at the time. Scorp 2 and I just started hanging out the beginning of last month. I spend all my free time with Scorp 2. The wedding weekend was the first time i seen 1 since early May.

I cannot be mad at you judging me b/c I put my situation out there but its not that serious.

The key word in my title is infatuation not love...here's a defenition....Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoned passion or love; addictive love. Infatuation usually occurs at the beginning of a relationship. It is characterized by urgency, intensity, desire, and/or anxiety, in which there is an extreme absorption in another. It is traditionally associated with youth.

I see that your almost 50 and you might not understand dating different people while you may hold one person to higher regard. Dang, my mother knows my situation and she's a bit conservative and she told me I am not married so enjoy being courted....plus I dont sleep around.
Thanks and have a wonderful day! Smooches

Karma is coming ... just hope like hell you don't fall in love with a Pisces man.

Once a person fucks with us, like we've seen you do here with these men .. we completely detach from any emotion for you, while giving you back some of the same medicine ... and to toy with a person WITHOUT remorse is a lethal combination because there is NO guilt associated.

what have I done with these men...pls explain

i agree with sb...to much drama and too many games...hope you havent had sex with both!

i wonder about woman that talk about a small penis...maybe your ocean is too wide

lol ..... straps 2x4 to ass.

p- I dated a pisces for 2 years and off for 5, we're the best of friends!!! We knew we weren't right for each other.

dward- no I haven't had sex with both of them...

Everyone have a wonderful day and week. Thanks for all the insight, it was comical!!!!

Rok-Z and Newbie, ya'll keep it too real and I love it!!!!

SMOOCHES

dward: i wonder about woman that talk about a small penis...maybe your ocean is too wide

beautifully said!!

oyyyy! packaging schmackaging!!

it aint what you do, it's the way that you do it 🙂