@Rania_1498
5 Years
Can therapist ( who happen to be cancer man ) fall in love with his client?
Can a Therapist Fall in Love with a Client
While emotional connections can develop during therapy, ethical boundaries typically prevent therapists from romantic involvement. Feelings of attachment may arise from the intimacy of sessions, but it is important for therapists to maintain professional boundaries to ensure client safety and effective treatment.
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How did you ascertain his birthdate? Are you sure you didn’t cook up this interaction in your head?
Get a female therapist
Omg shut up about love and have a bunch of sex, you're not teenagers.
Posted by GoodBunny
This whole thing sounds inappropriate, unprofessional, and unethical. If everything you are saying is accurate, then he is grooming a relationship with someone who is a current client. He is encouraging transference. Just so much wrong with this.
The people breaking down the bs though 🤣🤣
Absolute wack jobs
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
He sounds like a whole lawsuit
1. I don't think hypnotherapy is common nor a respected professional practice at all.. was he trying to break you of an addiction?
2. after 2 months with this man he deemed you at too decent of a point to benefit from therapy?! poor practice
3. cancer/capricorn fatal attraction. makes sense. only problem is i bet he will and has pulled these moves before/againI also thought the hypnotherapy part was kind of odd 🤔 it almost felt like he was trying to hypnotize her to fall for him
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This can happen !!!!—
Thank you for ur honest advice
Yeah am having images and dreams of him every single day
And I stopped thinking about my ex relationship
And my attentions became towards my therapist
I even had a vivid dreams of us having sex.
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
He sounds like a whole lawsuit1. I don't think hypnotherapy is common nor a respected professional practice at all.. was he trying to break you of an addiction?
2. after 2 months with this man he deemed you at too decent of a point to benefit from therapy?! poor practice
3. cancer/capricorn fatal attraction. makes sense. only problem is i bet he will and has pulled these moves before/again
The sessions to heal my childhood traumas
I don’t have addiction but I was addicted to my ex kind of not anymore I stopped thinking of him
So therapy helped me .
So many creepers operate in the esoteric space
Look up transference, an emotional and psychological response to therapy - first chronicled by Freud. You aren’t in a legit romantic situation with this man, and he’s taking advantage of that by entertaining this and that’s fucked up. That’s why he wants you to stop therapy with him - yikes and red flags all over the place
In the second therapy we did hypnotherapy
I can’t share all details but something happened
Something really intense . Like a shift in energieshypnotherapy = hypnosis
*facepalm*
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What’s wrong with hypnosis ?
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?If so, be aware of your boundaries?
Am a Capricorn sun with pisces moon
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?If so, be aware of your boundaries?
He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
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So you’re going to carry on with therapy but not get involved in any other way with him?
I encountered a few male “therapists” who were crossing the line with female clients.
It happened to me twice (one being my boss) but i sussed them out and challenged them on it.
Posted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
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He’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
He sounds like a whole lawsuit
1. I don't think hypnotherapy is common nor a respected professional practice at all.. was he trying to break you of an addiction?
2. after 2 months with this man he deemed you at too decent of a point to benefit from therapy?! poor practice
3. cancer/capricorn fatal attraction. makes sense. only problem is i bet he will and has pulled these moves before/againThe sessions to heal my childhood traumas
I don’t have addiction but I was addicted to my ex kind of not anymore I stopped thinking of him
So therapy helped me .
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No, he didn't help you, he only made you want to jump from the frying pan into the fire...
You've got a budding addiction that it's even more fucked up than that to your ex!
Posted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
click to expandHe’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Vibes is. She must be beautiful if he willing to jump out the window. But she's a big girl. She sees what y'all saying and she still gon fuck. Let her do what she do..
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She is looking for answers/guidance
Posted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
click to expandHe’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Vibes is. She must be beautiful if he willing to jump out the window. But she's a big girl. She sees what y'all saying and she still gon fuck. Let her do what she do..
She is looking for answers/guidance
Let her indulge in the dude. Probably better a catch than all these dudes you see on FB and pof anyway. Let her live.
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Nobody is controlling her, just making suggestions ….
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
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So all of this just to sleep with me —?
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me —
He act cold & distant now since yesterday night ..
I’ve sent him a text about the session he didn’t reply
And now I told him is everything ok
He just said yes yes everything is fine
Am confused
I think I will search for another therapist
Posted by Rania_1498
he told me his age and we are friends on Facebook
His birthdate is there 😒😒😒See this ish just pisses me off more. I would never friend a client present or pass. Very unethical.
click to expandHe’s crossed a big boundary line
Very unprofessional 👎🏻
Vibes is. She must be beautiful if he willing to jump out the window. But she's a big girl. She sees what y'all saying and she still gon fuck. Let her do what she do..
She is looking for answers/guidance
Let her indulge in the dude. Probably better a catch than all these dudes you see on FB and pof anyway. Let her live.
Nobody is controlling her, just making suggestions ….
Lol u got a way with words you know that?
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Well raised by an articulate English/Irish father
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou need to find a female to help you.
Are you also interested in him sexually?
Everything he's doing is for 1 unethical and disgusting l, but the conflict he's having with his own behavior leans toward narcissistic tendencies. Are you typically attracted to narcissistic type people? You say your ex was, and also sexually deviant. I'm assuming you told him about your ex and your sexcapades?
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How can he be narcissist — He’s very nice to me
He asks me a lot how I feel
And he validate everything I say..
Now he act cold and distant by the way
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expand
We talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expandSo all of this just to sleep with me —?
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me —
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You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expandSo all of this just to sleep with me —?
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me —click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
click to expand
We talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expandSo all of this just to sleep with me —?
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me —click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
click to expandWe talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
click to expandThis a new copypasta at this point
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Noooo I did not
I was trying to answer everyone a side
So type it manytimes
But I swear this is what really happened
I swear am telling my story
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expandSo all of this just to sleep with me —?
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me —click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
click to expandWe talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
click to expandThis a new copypasta at this point
click to expandI never heard of copypasta. I heard of creepypasta but not that
click to expandYou could’ve fooled me. A lot of the stories you come up with could be copypastas. Platinum sellers such as:
We was spitting on cops
We was kangz
Etc
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I seriously I don’t know what are you talking about
But I was sexually abused
And traumatized
I had trauma the day I was born too
Why I would lie about it
I came here just trying to understand
I didn’t copy past anything
I was trying to answer everyone
So I copy past my reply
To each and one another
Go and check ur self
Am not a liar
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expandSo all of this just to sleep with me —?
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me —click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
click to expandWe talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
click to expandThis a new copypasta at this point
click to expandI never heard of copypasta. I heard of creepypasta but not that
You could’ve fooled me. A lot of the stories you come up with could be copypastas. Platinum sellers such as:
We was spitting on cops
We was kangz
Etc
click to expandI mean. It's called real life. My life never been boring bro
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Am telling the truth
I copy past my reply About my father issues
To each and everyone
That’s all
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expandSo all of this just to sleep with me —?
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me —click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
click to expandWe talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
click to expandYou got good genetics
click to expandDude you are completely missing the big picture here. This is someone who was in a position of trust with her who was trying to use there position to influence an intimate relationship. It would be like a coach sleeping with a player. Or a professor sleeping with a student. If one cannot control their urges they shouldnt take a position where they will be providing guidance and support to possible vulnerable individuals. Imagine how many people look to their coaches for the parental relationship they were missing. Should they then try to parent their players? Or if their players have a crush, should they sleep with them?
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He asked me once while we were talking
With voice msgs
( what If I wake up one day and my sexual preferences changes ? )
Why can’t we accept our dark side and try crazy things ? )
He told me that I have to explore everything
And not because people say it’s bad or forbidden 🚫
Why stopping urself from living?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expandSo all of this just to sleep with me —?
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me —click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
click to expandWe talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
click to expandYou got good genetics
click to expandDude you are completely missing the big picture here. This is someone who was in a position of trust with her who was trying to use there position to influence an intimate relationship. It would be like a coach sleeping with a player. Or a professor sleeping with a student. If one cannot control their urges they shouldnt take a position where they will be providing guidance and support to possible vulnerable individuals. Imagine how many people look to their coaches for the parental relationship they were missing. Should they then try to parent their players? Or if their players have a crush, should they sleep with them?
He asked me once while we were talking
With voice msgs
( what If I wake up one day and my sexual preferences changes ? )
Why can’t we accept our dark side and try crazy things ? )
He told me that I have to explore everything
And not because people say it’s bad or forbidden 🚫
Why stopping urself from living?
click to expand
Without knowing the context, this sounds weird.
click to expand
I felt the same
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expandSo all of this just to sleep with me —?
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me —click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
click to expandWe talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
click to expandYou got good genetics
click to expandDude you are completely missing the big picture here. This is someone who was in a position of trust with her who was trying to use there position to influence an intimate relationship. It would be like a coach sleeping with a player. Or a professor sleeping with a student. If one cannot control their urges they shouldnt take a position where they will be providing guidance and support to possible vulnerable individuals. Imagine how many people look to their coaches for the parental relationship they were missing. Should they then try to parent their players? Or if their players have a crush, should they sleep with them?
click to expandHe asked me once while we were talking
With voice msgs
( what If I wake up one day and my sexual preferences changes ? )
Why can’t we accept our dark side and try crazy things ? )
He told me that I have to explore everything
And not because people say it’s bad or forbidden 🚫
Why stopping urself from living?click to expand
If you can’t see the red flags screaming at you, I don’t know what to tell you. 🤷♀️
Maybe research this guy and make sure his license isn’t suspended because he sounds like he shouldn’t be practicing, to be honest.
I love how all the women of dxp are rallying together to be protective of you, but you are going to make your own choices. At this point we are talking in circles.
click to expand
The lady is a Capricorn
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expandSo all of this just to sleep with me —?
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me —click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
click to expandWe talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
click to expandYou got good genetics
click to expandDude you are completely missing the big picture here. This is someone who was in a position of trust with her who was trying to use there position to influence an intimate relationship. It would be like a coach sleeping with a player. Or a professor sleeping with a student. If one cannot control their urges they shouldnt take a position where they will be providing guidance and support to possible vulnerable individuals. Imagine how many people look to their coaches for the parental relationship they were missing. Should they then try to parent their players? Or if their players have a crush, should they sleep with them?
click to expandHe asked me once while we were talking
With voice msgs
( what If I wake up one day and my sexual preferences changes ? )
Why can’t we accept our dark side and try crazy things ? )
He told me that I have to explore everything
And not because people say it’s bad or forbidden 🚫
Why stopping urself from living?
click to expandIf you can’t see the red flags screaming at you, I don’t know what to tell you. 🤷♀️
Maybe research this guy and make sure his license isn’t suspended because he sounds like he shouldn’t be practicing, to be honest.
I love how all the women of dxp are rallying together to be protective of you, but you are going to make your own choices. At this point we are talking in circles.The lady is a Capricorn
click to expandI would not be surprised if they have some Pluto/moon aspects between them
click to expand
How to know and what does it mean ?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expandSo all of this just to sleep with me —?
Nothing is innocent or for love or that he really cares of me —click to expand
You are 37….?! Sorry but you sound like a teenage troll with a crush on her teacher.
click to expandWe talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37
click to expandYou got good genetics
click to expandDude you are completely missing the big picture here. This is someone who was in a position of trust with her who was trying to use there position to influence an intimate relationship. It would be like a coach sleeping with a player. Or a professor sleeping with a student. If one cannot control their urges they shouldnt take a position where they will be providing guidance and support to possible vulnerable individuals. Imagine how many people look to their coaches for the parental relationship they were missing. Should they then try to parent their players? Or if their players have a crush, should they sleep with them?
click to expandHe asked me once while we were talking
With voice msgs
( what If I wake up one day and my sexual preferences changes ? )
Why can’t we accept our dark side and try crazy things ? )
He told me that I have to explore everything
And not because people say it’s bad or forbidden 🚫
Why stopping urself from living?
click to expandIf you can’t see the red flags screaming at you, I don’t know what to tell you. 🤷♀️
Maybe research this guy and make sure his license isn’t suspended because he sounds like he shouldn’t be practicing, to be honest.
I love how all the women of dxp are rallying together to be protective of you, but you are going to make your own choices. At this point we are talking in circles.The lady is a Capricorn
click to expandI would not be surprised if they have some Pluto/moon aspects between them
How to know and what does it mean ?
click to expand
You can look at your synastry chart by going to this link https://astro-charts.com/tools/new/synastry/
And entering your birth information with his. Then scroll down to the bottom and it will show the aspects. I don’t know your location in the world, but when I enter the birth information that you shared at the beginning of this post, it says that you have a Pluto in Scorpio and his moon in Taurus, which would mean your Pluto might oppose his moon in Taurus (depending on birth time and location) and if that is the case, that would explain a lot. As oppositions can often reverse in synastry where he can be the plutonic (powerful) one and you could be the moon (emotionally vulnerable ) one.
click to expand
I have Pluto and Mars in scorpios
And he has moon and mars Taurus
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Pisces sun/moon?
If so, be aware of your boundaries?He seems very nice 😞
I don’t want to stop the sessions
Because the therapy helped me a lot
To get over the depression and sadness
I was in
I was in relationship with a pervert narcissist
It was so difficult to get him out of my head
After the session I started think clearly
Went socializing
I even went for the first time camping 🏕
With new people
He helped me to go out of my comfort zone
And feel free.
When he asked me if am sure to continue the session I felt down and sad .
I spent two days feeling blue ..
So I told him I still need to continue ..
click to expandYou felt down and sad when he asked if you wanted to stop therapy because he’s becoming your new addiction. He is not helping you at all. You’re repeating the same pattern but with a different face. This time with your therapist, to boot. It’s incredibly unhealthy…. And it’s unethical because he is in a position of power (not only because of his profession, but also because of the age gap and the fact that he is preying on your mental and emotional vulnerability. Your daddy issues) his actions are predatory. He’s not helping you heal, he’s merely distracting you from the old addiction (your ex) and now you’re in a state of limerance/obsession/fantasizing over your therapist. That’s not healing my dear.
It’s similar to people drowning their sorrows with alcohol… except your addiction is how he makes you feel. Sure, it makes you feel better in the moment, but It’s an emotional addiction rather than a chemical addiction. Both are unhealthy and distracting you from doing real healing.
click to expandWe talked a lot about my father
And the masculine energy
He knows about my sexual abuse
As a child
Because I was sexually abused at the age of 3 and 4
And had another one at 6
He was helping me heal
And remember with hypnotherapy
Ect ,,,
He was surprised when I told him my age
He said that I look like a young girl of 22
Not like a woman age 37click to expand
37 looking 22 🤣
Of course
Of course
Happens all the time
click to expand
I'm gonna try that one
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
You have childhood trauma from sexual abuse... this therapist is using his professional knowledge to throw you into a state of panic banking on you having anxious attachment style and people-pleasing tendencies, taking advantage of the absence of backbone and confidence due to inhumane treatment during your formative years. He's DENNISing you
He's really just a normal cancer man using cancer man knowledge to do cancer man things to her.
Posted by Rania_1498
I started therapy 2 months agoWith this therapist first session was very neutral
And we spoke about my childhood trauma
I reached out for help to heal from my ex partner.
He was very helpful and validate everything I said
In the second therapy we did hypnotherapy
I can’t share all details but something happened
Something really intense . Like a shift in energies
I was feeling so safe and good after we finished , he said wooow what an energy and looked me in the eyes and told me there’s something fluid about you.
After that it became like a game for both of us
We laugh we talk we speak a lot sometimes we stay 3 hours just speaking and he sometimes compliments me saying ( I don’t want to say this but there’s something very honest and innocent about you, you are a brave soul ) any way after the last session we also did hypnosis and during that hypnosis more intense and reaction from my side happened he put his hand on me to calm down.
He started sweating after we finished ..
He told how the energy was intense and he asked me to stop because it was so high in frequency ..
I told him I feel like our souls knows each other’s.
He said I feel the same I knew your soul from the first day I saw you.
I went home and he texted me ( how I feel ? )
We talked in brief ..
Then he sent me videos about realities and realizing who we really are !
We talked the whole day and he then asked me if he can call me
We talked a lot via texts and voices ..
He started sharing his experiences with me
And his private life
What he did when he was younger ( musique ect..)
And the path he took
He talked about his fears ..
He shared a lot of things ..
He again called me for 40 min to explain the intense experience he had and how he want me to feel it .
Then he asked me if am sure to continue the sessions with him ( asked me 3 times )
I told him do you want me to stop ?!
He said that Its seems that am in a good place and therapy are there only to solve problems ! Isn’t ?also , he doesn’t want to take money from me while am ok —
I was divistated , felt down .
I told him am always excited for our sessions
And still need them . So his response was
I’m always here for you even as friend you can talk to me and we can be friends without the sessions.
I felt that he started having feelings for me .
Someone here tells me if am not delusional !!!
I can write our birth dates
His birth date 3rd of July 1975
Mine is 14 January 1986
I started having attachments towards him.
Not sure if it’s love
But I never felt peace and safe with someone like I felt with him.
He told me the same things that he never felt peace
Or safe during therapies with a client .
He said that he could feel when his character felt contractions or uncomfortable , but that never happened when he is with me , he said that he’s so grateful for manifesting our meeting.
Community here I need ur really help
Translate what happening ?
Thank you 🙏
How much do you pay him?
I would be wary of falling in love with a.) A person that hypnotized you and b.) Someone who was unprofessional about it, i.e. compliments, innuendo or whatever. Even if he did feel something,it crosses the client/therapist boundary of staying objective. Client not supposed to fall for therapist, likewise therapist not for client. How do we know what he suggested in your head?? That's pretty scary to me.
Posted by RollergirlOrc
I would be wary of falling in love with a.) A person that hypnotized you and b.) Someone who was unprofessional about it, i.e. compliments, innuendo or whatever. Even if he did feel something,it crosses the client/therapist boundary of staying objective. Client not supposed to fall for therapist, likewise therapist not for client. How do we know what he suggested in your head?? That's pretty scary to me.
Really creepy 😳
I didnt read it all…..is he older?
Posted by MyStarsShine
I didnt read it all…..is he older?Yes 10 yrs older at least.
click to expand
That don’t surprise me
Thanks Bunny
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
You have childhood trauma from sexual abuse... this therapist is using his professional knowledge to throw you into a state of panic banking on you having anxious attachment style and people-pleasing tendencies, taking advantage of the absence of backbone and confidence due to inhumane treatment during your formative years. He's DENNISing youHe's really just a normal cancer man using cancer man knowledge to do cancer man things to her.
click to expand
I went on 1 date with a cancer man ever, and after the dinner, he tried to tell me that I didn’t like him if I didn’t have sex with him on the first date 💀 I was like REALLY… that’s the direction you’re going with here? Like so pathetic and manipulative for no reason whatsoever 🤣
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
You have childhood trauma from sexual abuse... this therapist is using his professional knowledge to throw you into a state of panic banking on you having anxious attachment style and people-pleasing tendencies, taking advantage of the absence of backbone and confidence due to inhumane treatment during your formative years. He's DENNISing youHe's really just a normal cancer man using cancer man knowledge to do cancer man things to her.
I went on 1 date with a cancer man ever, and after the dinner, he tried to tell me that I didn’t like him if I didn’t have sex with him on the first date 💀 I was like REALLY… that’s the direction you’re going with here? Like so pathetic and manipulative for no reason whatsoever 🤣
click to expand
Should've gone on a date with a Scorpio instead
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
You have childhood trauma from sexual abuse... this therapist is using his professional knowledge to throw you into a state of panic banking on you having anxious attachment style and people-pleasing tendencies, taking advantage of the absence of backbone and confidence due to inhumane treatment during your formative years. He's DENNISing youHe's really just a normal cancer man using cancer man knowledge to do cancer man things to her.
click to expandI went on 1 date with a cancer man ever, and after the dinner, he tried to tell me that I didn’t like him if I didn’t have sex with him on the first date 💀 I was like REALLY… that’s the direction you’re going with here? Like so pathetic and manipulative for no reason whatsoever 🤣
click to expandas much as I see that astrowin synastry scores apply to other couples, I loathe them for giving me sky-high scores with Cancer men. some of the same men who have either been violent with me or threatened violence. I definitely associate Cancer the most with domestic abuse
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I restrained him n facebook he’s acting cold and stopped replying!!!
So searched for a female therapist that am going to contact later ☹️
I feel blue but it’s for the better
Posted by GoodBunny
If you're checking your synastry with him right now you're way off track. This is not going to be a meet cute story. This is a trainwreck.I guess I should clarify that the only reason I mentioned her having the moon/pluto aspect in synastry with him is because moon in hard aspect with Pluto is notorious for these type of weird power dynamics in relationships. Lol I was by no means encouraging her to pursue it.
click to expandYeah I get that. But I was just hoping she wouldnt run with it. She was grasping for a minute there.
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Je texted me and told me ok for the next session to come !!
He said he was running the last day and sorry he couldn’t reply
Then he asked me if am ok ?
If this is actually real, your therapist is violating an ethical code of practice, and is absolutely not a professional in any capacity.
What type of therapist offers hypnotherapy….a psychotherapist. Psychotherapist don’t have any accredited professional title or governing body which means anyone can use the title with no education.
If this is actually real, and isn’t some type of fantasy novel that you’re expressing…you’re in a dangerous situation with someone abusing patient/caregiver type relationship and is probably doing similar things with other patients. It’s not unique to be “chosen” and this is really just a questionable choice on your end to continue with the game.
Posted by GoodBunny
If you're checking your synastry with him right now you're way off track. This is not going to be a meet cute story. This is a trainwreck.I guess I should clarify that the only reason I mentioned her having the moon/pluto aspect in synastry with him is because moon in hard aspect with Pluto is notorious for these type of weird power dynamics in relationships. Lol I was by no means encouraging her to pursue it.
click to expandYeah I get that. But I was just hoping she wouldnt run with it. She was grasping for a minute there.
click to expandJe texted me and told me ok for the next session to come !!
He said he was running the last day and sorry he couldn’t reply
Then he asked me if am ok ?click to expand
Best of luck to you.
click to expand
I called already a therapist she’s a woman.
I didn’t reply to his text and no am no going back
I don’t feel comfortable anymore
I didn’t know he wanted me for sex
I swear I thought he really cares about my case and have genuine feelings
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
You have childhood trauma from sexual abuse... this therapist is using his professional knowledge to throw you into a state of panic banking on you having anxious attachment style and people-pleasing tendencies, taking advantage of the absence of backbone and confidence due to inhumane treatment during your formative years. He's DENNISing youHe's really just a normal cancer man using cancer man knowledge to do cancer man things to her.
This right here.
Cancer is everything people say about scorpio wrapped in a "caring, nurturing" gregarious package to hide it. They're protective all right...of themselves and their wants 😂
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Some of them are really decent actually, like any sign. The ones that aren't though, yikes.
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I started therapy 2 months ago
With this therapist first session was very neutral
And we spoke about my childhood trauma
I reached out for help to heal from my ex partner.
He was very helpful and validate everything I said
In the second therapy we did hypnotherapy
I can’t share all details but something happened
Something really intense . Like a shift in energies
I was feeling so safe and good after we finished , he said wooow what an energy and looked me in the eyes and told me there’s something fluid about you.
After that it became like a game for both of us
We laugh we talk we speak a lot sometimes we stay 3 hours just speaking and he sometimes compliments me saying ( I don’t want to say this but there’s something very honest and innocent about you, you are a brave soul ) any way after the last session we also did hypnosis and during that hypnosis more intense and reaction from my side happened he put his both hands on my head to calm me down.
He started sweating after we finished ..
He told how the energy was intense and he asked me to stop because it was intense & powerful ..
I told him that my soul knows his soul.
He said the same , that he knew my soul from the first minut I entred his space .
I went home and he texted me ( how I feel ? )
We talked in brief ..
Then he sent me videos about realities and realizing who we really are !
We talked the whole day and he then asked me if he can call me 🙂
We talked a lot via texts and voices ..
He started sharing his experiences with me
And his private life
What he did when he was younger ( musique ect..)
And the path he took
He talked about his fears ..
He shared a lot of things ..
He again called me for 40 min to explain the intense experience he had during meditation and how he want me to feel it .
Then he asked me if am sure to continue the sessions with him ( asked me 3 times )
I told him do you want me to stop ?!
He said that Its seems that am in a good place and therapies are only there to solve problems ! Isn’t ?that , he doesn’t want to take money from me while am ok —
I was divistated , felt down .
I told him am always excited for our sessions
And still need them . So his response was
I’m always here for you even as friend you can talk to me and we can be friends without the sessions.
I felt that he started having feelings for me .
Someone here tells me if am not delusional !!!
I can write our birth dates
His birth date 3rd of July 1975
Mine is 14 January 1986
I started having attachments towards him.
Not sure if it’s love
But I never felt peace and safe with someone like I felt with him.
He told me the same things that he never felt peace
Or safe during therapies with a client .
He said that he could feel when his character felt contractions or uncomfortable , but that never happened when he is with me , he said that he’s so grateful for manifesting our meeting.
Community here I need ur really help
Translate what happening ?
Thank you 🙏