Ask a Cancer Male

Ok, stole this idea from Rabbit from the Scorpio board.
Here is your opportunity to ask a Cancer male anything.
Knock yourselves out.

Posted by duchessedenemours
What's your favorite flower?

Passaflora incarnata

best sex ever, what sign.

Its a tie: Gemini and Cancer

Posted by Rabbit
Do Cancer makes struggle with self esteem like Scorpios do?

Yes they do. Especially when younger.
That sense of humor is often used as a shield to deflect things that hit their high sense of self-doubt.

Not so much if they can come to terms with themselves and accept their weaknesses and build on/compensate for them.

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by Rabbit
Do Cancer makes struggle with self esteem like Scorpios do?

Yes they do. Especially when younger.
That sense of humor is often used as a shield to deflect things that hit their high sense of self-doubt.

Not so much if they can come to terms with themselves and accept their weaknesses and build on/compensate for them.

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What was the age that you came to terms with yourself and accepted your weaknesses etc...?

If you had to choose what sign would you kill, fuck, marry?

Posted by xtina

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by Rabbit
Do Cancer makes struggle with self esteem like Scorpios do?

Yes they do. Especially when younger.
That sense of humor is often used as a shield to deflect things that hit their high sense of self-doubt.

Not so much if they can come to terms with themselves and accept their weaknesses and build on/compensate for them.

What was the age that you came to terms with yourself and accepted your weaknesses etc...?

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30

Posted by xtina
If you had to choose what sign would you kill, fuck, marry?

Kill? None. I would convince them that it is in their best interest to live life, and stay the fuck out of mine.

Fuck? Any.

Marry? Virgo, Cancer, Capricorn (but there's no hard rule here except Air signs might be a stretch)

What if the earth goes backwards what would you do if you are the only one going forward?

Posted by ReddmannScorch
What if the earth goes backwards what would you do if you are the only one going forward?

Go faster and convince others that by running with me, we can change the rotation.
Or, pick up a surfboard and ride the wave..

Posted by MissFisk
Do you really not ask for a reach around from your doctor while he's single-handedly juggling your balls?

Nope. Because I ask for a female Doc. I review pictures first.

Should women chase you or should we wait? I feel like asking him out but it's not a good time in his life (or so he says)

What are the veritable differences between love and lust? Are there really any differences?

Posted by Damnata
Should women chase you or should we wait? I feel like asking him out but it's not a good time in his life (or so he says)

Mention you would like to hang with him (also toss in a couple of references about what you liked about your past encounters).
Don't get upset if he declines because personal stuff in his life is consuming his thoughts at the moment.
But do let your offer hang out there. He'll remember. Don't chase.

I did exactly that. So I'm good.

To be honest, he came to me when we last met "I know we were supposed to go out and I missed you...but it's not ok for me right now"

Thanks Panda.

Posted by xtina
What are the veritable differences between love and lust? Are there really any differences?

There is a difference.
Lust retreats when you have a bad cold and aren't in the mood.
Love retreats, goes into the kitchen, cooks up some chicken soup, brings you a bowl, feeds you, and tucks you in to recover, then gives you a wink with a promise.

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by Damnata
Should women chase you or should we wait? I feel like asking him out but it's not a good time in his life (or so he says)

Mention you would like to hang with him (also toss in a couple of references about what you liked about your past encounters).
Don't get upset if he declines because personal stuff in his life is consuming his thoughts at the moment.
But do let your offer hang out there. He'll remember. Don't chase.

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good question and good answer

I have a cancer crush and im normal scorp moon fashion, im obsessed already. He has a scorp moon as well. I want to consume him and latch on for dear life. Ride him into the sunset.

theres such a fine line between chasing and letting water placements to their thoughts. I know I need to think/feel my way into liking someone. I have to fantasize.

Do cancers fantasize?

DMV, are we going for the same Cancer? bwhaha. Also Scorpio Moon.

Posted by DMV
I have a cancer crush and im normal scorp moon fashion, im obsessed already. He has a scorp moon as well. I want to consume him and latch on for dear life. Ride him into the sunset.

theres such a fine line between chasing and letting water placements to their thoughts. I know I need to think/feel my way into liking someone. I have to fantasize.

Do cancers fantasize?

Um, well that left little to the imagination....

Yes, Cancers fantasize.

The fine line is just planting seeds and letting the water placements germinate them.

Posted by Damnata
DMV, are we going for the same Cancer? bwhaha. Also Scorpio Moon.

Yeah double trouble, his info is in the sag board "staring me down" post.

what are your cancer crush placements?

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by DMV
I have a cancer crush and im normal scorp moon fashion, im obsessed already. He has a scorp moon as well. I want to consume him and latch on for dear life. Ride him into the sunset.

theres such a fine line between chasing and letting water placements to their thoughts. I know I need to think/feel my way into liking someone. I have to fantasize.

Do cancers fantasize?

Um, well that left little to the imagination....

Yes, Cancers fantasize.

The fine line is just planting seeds and letting the water placements germinate them.

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GOOD! just double checking my intuition here.

My cancer guy says he misses me but I have not seen him in three weeks. (we have been seeing each other 6months)Three weeks ago he said we are in a slow moving relationship, and did not want me to date other guys.
But he makes time for fishing, and meeting friends for drinks?
Very confused.
Can you make any sense of it.?

Posted by aquavita

Posted by DMV
I have a cancer crush and im normal scorp moon fashion, im obsessed already. He has a scorp moon as well. I want to consume him and latch on for dear life. Ride him into the sunset.

theres such a fine line between chasing and letting water placements to their thoughts. I know I need to think/feel my way into liking someone. I have to fantasize.

Do cancers fantasize?

i thought you said i was presumptious. lol. i ll check here in 1 year . in the "baby" ( infant and mom) forum.

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haha, i need to sex him before i can think about any of that stuff. I cant even think straight

Being Cancer male, what is your biggest pet peeve/complaint about Cancer females?

Posted by woodenmeow
My cancer guy says he misses me but I have not seen him in three weeks. (we have been seeing each other 6months)Three weeks ago he said we are in a slow moving relationship, and did not want me to date other guys.
But he makes time for fishing, and meeting friends for drinks?
Very confused.
Can you make any sense of it.?

He's keeping you as a convenience.
Tell him to man up or you might want to think about moving on.

Posted by MoonArtist
Being Cancer male, what is your biggest pet peeve/complaint about Cancer females?

Too many of the Cancer females I've known demanded a higher standard of conduct for me than themselves ( simply put: hypocrisy)

Never to too large a degree for the most part, but they certainly didn't like being called on it.

Probably close behind it would be a stubborn streak that you would expect from say....a Taurus

My cancer guy and I decided to be FWB, we've had one encounter but we didn't actually have sex, we had technical problems, I had a nice time I think he did too. The only problem is that I still want sex with him and he keeps sending me mixed signals, he'll text me and say you're so sexy I want to have you and when I say when he'll just say soon, seriously—? What's wrong with him does he or doesn't he?

Posted by CinthiaG
My cancer guy and I decided to be FWB, we've had one encounter but we didn't actually have sex, we had technical problems, I had a nice time I think he did too. The only problem is that I still want sex with him and he keeps sending me mixed signals, he'll text me and say you're so sexy I want to have you and when I say when he'll just say soon, seriously—? What's wrong with him does he or doesn't he?

Ok.
What, specifically do you mean when you use the term "technical problems"?
No electric power, video camera wouldn't record, couldn't unlock the door between adjoining rooms.....what?

Posted by aquavita

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Posted by DMV
I have a cancer crush and im normal scorp moon fashion, im obsessed already. He has a scorp moon as well. I want to consume him and latch on for dear life. Ride him into the sunset.

theres such a fine line between chasing and letting water placements to their thoughts. I know I need to think/feel my way into liking someone. I have to fantasize.

Do cancers fantasize?

i thought you said i was presumptious. lol. i ll check here in 1 year . in the "baby" ( infant and mom) forum.

haha, i need to sex him before i can think about any of that stuff. I cant even think straight

girl be carefulll.... i got sick like that ..literallly.....:/...lucky YOU! dont lose him i am serious...

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how can i lose him? i dont have him...

@Canceronthecusp- I have not been contacting him. But I if I do that.. What do I say?
he has just been so wishy washy.
I know they say that cancer men move slow and he might be feeling more for me as time goes on, but the more this drags on the less I feel for him.

Canceronthecusp:
He's keeping you as a convenience.
Tell him to man up or you might want to think about moving on.

hahahaha no CancerOnTheCusp, the condom didn't fit so we just laughed and laughed. But seriously why the mixed signals?

Posted by DMV

Posted by Damnata
DMV, are we going for the same Cancer? bwhaha. Also Scorpio Moon.

Yeah double trouble, his info is in the sag board "staring me down" post.

what are your cancer crush placements?

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Sun Cancer
Moon Scorpio
Venus Gemini
Mars Gemini.

Going by the way we banter, I was sure he'd have a Fire Moon. His chart doesn't make much sense to me right now..I have no romantic experience with Scorpio Moons.

I will keep the RAID in my purse for the time being.

Posted by woodenmeow
@Canceronthecusp- I have not been contacting him. But I if I do that.. What do I say?
he has just been so wishy washy.
I know they say that cancer men move slow and he might be feeling more for me as time goes on, but the more this drags on the less I feel for him.

Canceronthecusp:
He's keeping you as a convenience.
Tell him to man up or you might want to think about moving on.

If he's been going fishing and hanging out at the bars with friends, but hasn't tried to spend time with you,...
That's not "moving slow". That's taking you for granted.

You might want to mention no contact in three weeks and a "hello, stranger"

Posted by CinthiaG
hahahaha no CancerOnTheCusp, the condom didn't fit so we just laughed and laughed. But seriously why the mixed signals?

Hw might be a little embarrassed by the condom not fitting.
Let him know that doesn't matter and make a date for the rodeo.

Posted by Damnata

Posted by DMV

Posted by Damnata
DMV, are we going for the same Cancer? bwhaha. Also Scorpio Moon.

Yeah double trouble, his info is in the sag board "staring me down" post.

what are your cancer crush placements?

Sun Cancer
Moon Scorpio
Venus Gemini
Mars Gemini.

Going by the way we banter, I was sure he'd have a Fire Moon. His chart doesn't make much sense to me right now..I have no romantic experience with Scorpio Moons.

I will keep the RAID in my purse for the time being.

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Probably the Venus in Gemini contributing to the banter

Nope CancerOnTheCusp, he says he has new condoms that will fit and again when I say when he'll say soon. I'm trying to give him time but seriously grrrrrrrrr I just don't know what's going on. Plus the condom thing elevated his ego and was funny as hell, we played around saying we had to go to Africa to buy new ones.

@AQUAVITA,

i know u mean well. But girl/boy get real. I dont plan that far ahead.

why are u so invested in what i got going on?

Posted by aquavita

Posted by aquavita
u also talk a lot of shit and i know that you just talk and actually you are very shy and you dream of one man, one man to love and love you ... people think u are a ho i dont think so. u just talk to schock the male population. stop the shit woman dont waste a cancerian male you will burn one way or the other better burn in bliss!

this is referred to dmv, who else wants to be a hero

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i think u need to take several seats now. You are WAY too invested in what i got going on.

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Posted by DMV

Posted by Damnata
DMV, are we going for the same Cancer? bwhaha. Also Scorpio Moon.

Yeah double trouble, his info is in the sag board "staring me down" post.

what are your cancer crush placements?

Sun Cancer
Moon Scorpio
Venus Gemini
Mars Gemini.

Going by the way we banter, I was sure he'd have a Fire Moon. His chart doesn't make much sense to me right now..I have no romantic experience with Scorpio Moons.

I will keep the RAID in my purse for the time being.

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hahah let me know how it goes. 🙂

It will take a lot DMV...I'm a patient innocent Virgo 😄

what is his merc Damnata? He doesnt come across secretive? I ask mine like 4 questions and i got 1 good sold answer lol. he asked some questions of me and i was very forthcoming.

Posted by CinthiaG
Nope CancerOnTheCusp, he says he has new condoms that will fit and again when I say when he'll say soon. I'm trying to give him time but seriously grrrrrrrrr I just don't know what's going on. Plus the condom thing elevated his ego and was funny as hell, we played around saying we had to go to Africa to buy new ones.

Then take the intiative, woman!

Posted by DMV
what is his merc Damnata? He doesnt come across secretive? I ask mine like 4 questions and i got 1 good sold answer lol. he asked some questions of me and i was very forthcoming.

Gem.

He talks like crazy with me, really secretive with others.

Posted by Damnata

Posted by DMV
what is his merc Damnata? He doesnt come across secretive? I ask mine like 4 questions and i got 1 good sold answer lol. he asked some questions of me and i was very forthcoming.

Gem.

He talks like crazy with me, really secretive with others.

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Well, thats a good sign.

Posted by Damnata

Posted by DMV
what is his merc Damnata? He doesnt come across secretive? I ask mine like 4 questions and i got 1 good sold answer lol. he asked some questions of me and i was very forthcoming.

Gem.

He talks like crazy with me, really secretive with others.

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wow. interesting. Im getting the opposite. This cancer crush of mine is a merc in gemini also and i dont get alot of conversation from him. hes very brief.

i could be barking up the wrong tree.

@Canceronthecusp... I know my Cancer is feeling insecure lately about our LDR... I'm pretty sure it's because I'm going to Vegas this weekend with my family for my sisters 21st (literally whole family mom, cousins the whole shebang) how do I make him feel better.

He hasn't said anything about it or even been mopey about it... But I can just tell by the way we communicate it's bothering him.

Should I leave him alone or should I try to make him feel more secure by reassuring him i.e. texting and calling more?

Posted by xtina
@Canceronthecusp... I know my Cancer is feeling insecure lately about our LDR... I'm pretty sure it's because I'm going to Vegas this weekend with my family for my sisters 21st (literally whole family mom, cousins the whole shebang) how do I make him feel better.

He hasn't said anything about it or even been mopey about it... But I can just tell by the way we communicate it's bothering him.

Should I leave him alone or should I try to make him feel more secure by reassuring him i.e. texting and calling more?

Well, I wouldn't do more.
Might want to send him a quick text letting him know you miss (or thinking about) him while you're in Vegas