What do I need to know. The good, the bad, the ugly...
Cancer men....
Key Traits of Cancer Men
Cancer men are known for their emotional depth, loyalty, and nurturing nature. They may also be sensitive, moody, and protective. Understanding their caring but sometimes cautious personality can help in building strong relationships. Recognizing both their strengths and challenges is essential for meaningful connections.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
What do I need to know. The good, the bad, the ugly...
The good:
Compassionate
Funny
Loyal, once they decide they're in a relationship
Smart with money
Family oriented
Good in bed
Generous (not necessarily in a monetary sense, but in time and attention)
Excellent memories
Good/bad, depending on your POV: Pretty good bullshit detectors
The bad:
Moody
Can be withdrawing to recharge/sort out emotions
Not always direct
Hard to get beyond their "shell" and have them open up
Can be overly sensitive
Excellent memories
The ugly:
Can sometimes go off into a funk at perceived slights
Disloyalty on behalf of a partner makes second chances slim to none
When they're done with a relationship, they're done
Excellent memories
^
You lost me at "good in bed". You should've started with that 😄..I would've stopped right there 😄
You lost me at "good in bed". You should've started with that 😄..I would've stopped right there 😄
Well, at least ONE person was reading.... 😄
The bad points always annoy me to death...probably because they're too much like myself. lol
Forgot to mention. Although they experience emotions more than most, they do have a strong sense of fair play.
Not sure about dealing with an emotional man. I am emotional enough for two sometimes. Lol.
It's a compliment Cancer.
This is one of the signs I constantly hear good things about...don't have male Cancers in my circle of friends but I have females.
Once upon a time I had a Cancer stalker..he was extremely respectful and gentleman-y about it..not the type to stalk me from bushes. He was really determined..unfortunately I was engaged back then.
This is one of the signs I constantly hear good things about...don't have male Cancers in my circle of friends but I have females.
Once upon a time I had a Cancer stalker..he was extremely respectful and gentleman-y about it..not the type to stalk me from bushes. He was really determined..unfortunately I was engaged back then.
Posted by Damnata
It's a compliment Cancer.
This is one of the signs I constantly hear good things about...don't have male Cancers in my circle of friends but I have females.
Once upon a time I had a Cancer stalker..he was extremely respectful and gentleman-y about it..not the type to stalk me from bushes. He was really determined..unfortunately I was engaged back then.
How about that. I've had a Cancer stalker.
Although she was anything but ladylike about her stalkerdom.
BTW, I threw in the good in bed bit to see who was paying attention.
That's such a subjective thing.
Leave it to the Virgo to pick it out, lol
I will expand on these. To give a more in depth look.
I do not intend to generalize though.
The good:
Compassionate - We feel people's pain. We want to nurture you and have you feeling great about yourself. We would give everything for you.
Funny - We are goofballs. We have a little kid in us. Who loves to joke around, be goofy, and childish. I have sensed a Cancer's smile you can see the depth of their happiness when they smile. It is a beautiful sight. Also me personally maybe other Cancer men we use comedy as a way of charming women. To ease them in.
Loyal, once they decide they're in a relationship - We do not need anyone else. If she truly gives of herself and shows me her soul, body, and heart why the hell do I need another women. There is so much more I can explore with her then any one night stand. The emotions, the rationale, the memories, the good and the bad. Dating is an experience that will make you stronger.
Smart with money - We feel safe with money. It sucks to spend it. We are very imaginary when it comes to attaining materialistic goods such to cause us comfort. Money is key.
Family oriented - Love family. The closeness is beautiful. I could not ask for anything but that. It is sublime. Just to feel that love.
Good in bed - We want to cause immense pleasure to you. We want to consume your whole body. You become us in bed. We want to love every atom that possibly exists. Every atom to be pleasured. It's a whole body experience. It's not just P to the V. It's H (Heart) to H (Heart), S (Soul) to S (Soul), M (Mind) to M (MIND). We become one in bed. It is personal were our weaknesses become stronger. Our insecurities are out there. It is a healing process. It is a journey.
Generous (not necessarily in a monetary sense, but in time and attention) - We appreciate other people's time. We will forget ourselves in that moment so we can feel great that we helped you. Your time is our time. We love to give attention but also love to get it.
Excellent memories - Our memories are based of the emotions you cause in us which causes a picture or imagination in our heads. You say you like chocolate ice cream with extra fudge. The image you caused me will be "An ice cream cone. Waffle Cone with chocolate ice cream inside of it. The cone is a light brown kind of like brown sugar going into a light gesture. Ice Cream is smooth brown/black mixture. You can see the dazzles of cream inside of it. Super Rich. Now I imagine the
I do not intend to generalize though.
The good:
Compassionate - We feel people's pain. We want to nurture you and have you feeling great about yourself. We would give everything for you.
Funny - We are goofballs. We have a little kid in us. Who loves to joke around, be goofy, and childish. I have sensed a Cancer's smile you can see the depth of their happiness when they smile. It is a beautiful sight. Also me personally maybe other Cancer men we use comedy as a way of charming women. To ease them in.
Loyal, once they decide they're in a relationship - We do not need anyone else. If she truly gives of herself and shows me her soul, body, and heart why the hell do I need another women. There is so much more I can explore with her then any one night stand. The emotions, the rationale, the memories, the good and the bad. Dating is an experience that will make you stronger.
Smart with money - We feel safe with money. It sucks to spend it. We are very imaginary when it comes to attaining materialistic goods such to cause us comfort. Money is key.
Family oriented - Love family. The closeness is beautiful. I could not ask for anything but that. It is sublime. Just to feel that love.
Good in bed - We want to cause immense pleasure to you. We want to consume your whole body. You become us in bed. We want to love every atom that possibly exists. Every atom to be pleasured. It's a whole body experience. It's not just P to the V. It's H (Heart) to H (Heart), S (Soul) to S (Soul), M (Mind) to M (MIND). We become one in bed. It is personal were our weaknesses become stronger. Our insecurities are out there. It is a healing process. It is a journey.
Generous (not necessarily in a monetary sense, but in time and attention) - We appreciate other people's time. We will forget ourselves in that moment so we can feel great that we helped you. Your time is our time. We love to give attention but also love to get it.
Excellent memories - Our memories are based of the emotions you cause in us which causes a picture or imagination in our heads. You say you like chocolate ice cream with extra fudge. The image you caused me will be "An ice cream cone. Waffle Cone with chocolate ice cream inside of it. The cone is a light brown kind of like brown sugar going into a light gesture. Ice Cream is smooth brown/black mixture. You can see the dazzles of cream inside of it. Super Rich. Now I imagine the
Now I imagine the ice cream being poured on the fudge. Drizzles of it pouring in a pattern. Now I can see the smile and happiness that this is causing you. So I remember this how great of a pleasure this caused you. No sexual innuendos were caused by imagination in this explanation :-p. So memories are a mixture of emotions, pictures, and details.
Good/bad, depending on your POV: Pretty good bullshit detectors - Not only that but we can sense when someone has an ill vibe about them. We are good at detecting sincerity in a person's eyes, voice, and demeanor.
The bad:
Moody - Boy like the sea we just feel the ups and downs of it. It just comes and goes. Cancer Guys might be the best one to understand a women's monthly cycle just because of the change of moods. I look back and I am like holy shit man I am happy one moment and I know if something comes to be a downer I will be down. So we try to monitor it. But things definitely cause us to be up and down.
Can be withdrawing to recharge/sort out emotions - We have to do this. It is very necessary because we feel to such a deep level. It has us in a twist. We just lose ourselves. We will be fine at the end of the day but this helps us out a lot. Imagine being a magnet for emotions. Yeah a whole lot of shit we have to take in.
Not always direct - With little things I can be direct but man when I know if I am direct and I know it will causes confrontation I tend to be very indirect which can cause misplaced anger towards certain things. So for every cancer be direct. My sag moon helps to be honest and concise. Please just say what you feel. Shoot your freaking feelings like it is a lazer gun. It will help you relieve anger and stress.
Good/bad, depending on your POV: Pretty good bullshit detectors - Not only that but we can sense when someone has an ill vibe about them. We are good at detecting sincerity in a person's eyes, voice, and demeanor.
The bad:
Moody - Boy like the sea we just feel the ups and downs of it. It just comes and goes. Cancer Guys might be the best one to understand a women's monthly cycle just because of the change of moods. I look back and I am like holy shit man I am happy one moment and I know if something comes to be a downer I will be down. So we try to monitor it. But things definitely cause us to be up and down.
Can be withdrawing to recharge/sort out emotions - We have to do this. It is very necessary because we feel to such a deep level. It has us in a twist. We just lose ourselves. We will be fine at the end of the day but this helps us out a lot. Imagine being a magnet for emotions. Yeah a whole lot of shit we have to take in.
Not always direct - With little things I can be direct but man when I know if I am direct and I know it will causes confrontation I tend to be very indirect which can cause misplaced anger towards certain things. So for every cancer be direct. My sag moon helps to be honest and concise. Please just say what you feel. Shoot your freaking feelings like it is a lazer gun. It will help you relieve anger and stress.
Hard to get beyond their "shell" and have them open up - It is not bad for me because of my Mercury and Jupiter in Leo. I love to talk. It is so much fun but I usually am shy with new people. I am like a stepping stone as hours when I met new people. If I sense I can be myself I just go with the flow. If not I just stay with what I have said and build on that.
Can be overly sensitive - It is not the words that hurt it is the emotions that hurt. We have to be protective. We have to understand that there is an emotional side to language but also a rationale one. Being logical for a cancer is important to breakdown what a person meant.
Excellent memories - Look up I already posted it :-)
The ugly:
Can sometimes go off into a funk at perceived slights - Oh boy I can be the depressed man in a dark gloomy day with a dark clothes. Metaphorically speaking. I can look back and laugh at myself. Like why would I be so down. I swear I can be two people sometimes. The worst I ever had this funk was for 5 months after a break up. Sheesh did it beat me up.
Disloyalty on behalf of a partner makes second chances slim to none - Relationships are special and serious things. I do not need to trust you again but for you to be disloyal means you did not take this relationship to be a serious thing. It does not have that much value or meaning as it does to me.
When they're done with a relationship, they're done - Yup as much as we might hurt I hate going back and doing the same thing. It is stupid and not worth it
Excellent memories - Yeah so if you hurt us we will come at you with a bunch of food but made with a extra slice of laxatives. Oh boy will you be in the
s h i t t e r. We will laugh cause it takes a lot for us to hurt someone.
Can be overly sensitive - It is not the words that hurt it is the emotions that hurt. We have to be protective. We have to understand that there is an emotional side to language but also a rationale one. Being logical for a cancer is important to breakdown what a person meant.
Excellent memories - Look up I already posted it :-)
The ugly:
Can sometimes go off into a funk at perceived slights - Oh boy I can be the depressed man in a dark gloomy day with a dark clothes. Metaphorically speaking. I can look back and laugh at myself. Like why would I be so down. I swear I can be two people sometimes. The worst I ever had this funk was for 5 months after a break up. Sheesh did it beat me up.
Disloyalty on behalf of a partner makes second chances slim to none - Relationships are special and serious things. I do not need to trust you again but for you to be disloyal means you did not take this relationship to be a serious thing. It does not have that much value or meaning as it does to me.
When they're done with a relationship, they're done - Yup as much as we might hurt I hate going back and doing the same thing. It is stupid and not worth it
Excellent memories - Yeah so if you hurt us we will come at you with a bunch of food but made with a extra slice of laxatives. Oh boy will you be in the
s h i t t e r. We will laugh cause it takes a lot for us to hurt someone.
Can I get an amen for good in bed?! AMEN!!
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by Damnata
It's a compliment Cancer.
This is one of the signs I constantly hear good things about...don't have male Cancers in my circle of friends but I have females.
Once upon a time I had a Cancer stalker..he was extremely respectful and gentleman-y about it..not the type to stalk me from bushes. He was really determined..unfortunately I was engaged back then.
How about that. I've had a Cancer stalker.
Although she was anything but ladylike about her stalkerdom.
BTW, I threw in the good in bed bit to see who was paying attention.
That's such a subjective thing.
Leave it to the Virgo to pick it out, lolclick to expand
Stalkers in every sign, huh? Lol
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by christinelovessnickers
What do I need to know. The good, the bad, the ugly...
The good:
Compassionate
Funny
Loyal, once they decide they're in a relationship
Smart with money
Family oriented
Good in bed
Generous (not necessarily in a monetary sense, but in time and attention)
Excellent memories
Good/bad, depending on your POV: Pretty good bullshit detectors
The bad:
Moody
Can be withdrawing to recharge/sort out emotions
Not always direct
Hard to get beyond their "shell" and have them open up
Can be overly sensitive
Excellent memories
The ugly:
Can sometimes go off into a funk at perceived slights
Disloyalty on behalf of a partner makes second chances slim to none
When they're done with a relationship, they're done
Excellent memoriesclick to expand
Thanks for the info.
Ruh, that ice cream thing....
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Ruh, that ice cream thing....
Did I cause a massive craving for Ice Cream haha. I feel like I need to buy Ice Cream for people while playing Ice Cream by Raekwon. Or....... :-P
*passes out spoons*
Honestly, the drizzling fudge made me think of better things to drizzle it on 😉
Honestly, the drizzling fudge made me think of better things to drizzle it on 😉
@ christine
why do you wanna know sweetie?
why do you wanna know sweetie?
^^ I second that question
Well, my dad is a cancer, though that isn't the reason I asked.
There is this man that keeps asking me to go do things. Just trying to get a little more insight.
There is this man that keeps asking me to go do things. Just trying to get a little more insight.
be consistent. I wanna be able to trust you to be who I believe to are.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Well, my dad is a cancer, though that isn't the reason I asked.
There is this man that keeps asking me to go do things. Just trying to get a little more insight.
Until he asks you to help rob a bank, you're probably ok.
Posted by thecontender
be consistent. I wanna be able to trust you to be who I believe to are.
Well, I don't know who he believes me to be, but I am not being anyone but myself.
Posted by Finbuff
Oh Lord, I'm all about cautious but come on....
spend some time with the guy and get a sense of his personality before
you start to judge what you might be getting in to. Unless you
know he's a criminal, child molester or some other known nefarious character,
it's OK to take a chance.
I didn't mean it like that. We have hung out a few times. Seems nice enough. I was just curious about generalization of cancer men.
whhhhhhaaaaaa—— i'm lost here?what is "do things". u sound like a capricorn( i love dem,cancers,taruses,aries,leos,scorps,saggis to def).u swear is sumpin illegal. but to summarize.... we the best ,the freakiest in bed or anywhere for that matter.we don't like bullshit..do not lie we cansense dat very easily.lastly just be available and unavailable at the da same time.yes it's GOD like thing to do but unavailability kinda makes it interesting.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
*passes out spoons*
Honestly, the drizzling fudge made me think of better things to drizzle it on 😉
Hahah a vanilla stick?
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