So I always meet these cancers and the interest seems overly obviously mutual. However, they don't seem to ever directly ask me out! I try to show interest through flirting, touching, complimenting them. They always ask me out in group settings, etc. It's obvious they like me, they seem to love it when I flirt with them, get shy around me, always want to be around me, compliment me, etc. But they won't ask me out on an alone actual date! Do they just need more assurance? I am sometimes hot and cold, like sometimes I won't be able to make it to something they invite me to, or sometimes I won't return a text, phone call etc. IS that enough to deter them?
Best way to show cancer interest?

But they won't ask me out on an alone actual date! Do they just need more assurance? I am sometimes hot and cold, like sometimes I won't be able to make it to something they invite me to, or sometimes I won't return a text, phone call etc. IS that enough to deter them?
That did it for me l ain't playing to unstable!! had a Libra do this to me , freaked me out and made me insecure. NO WAY!!
That did it for me l ain't playing to unstable!! had a Libra do this to me , freaked me out and made me insecure. NO WAY!!

But they won't ask me out on an alone actual date! Do they just need more assurance? I am sometimes hot and cold, like sometimes I won't be able to make it to something they invite me to, or sometimes I won't return a text, phone call etc. IS that enough to deter them?
That did it for me l ain't playing to unstable!! had a Libra do this to me , freaked me out and made me insecure. NO WAY!!
That did it for me l ain't playing to unstable!! had a Libra do this to me , freaked me out and made me insecure. NO WAY!!
If you can't take the time to respond to my text/phone call then I won't take the time to ask you out.
Cancers are old fashioned...even the more current looking ones...they might be able to return flirts and conversations with you...join you in group settings, the whole bit...but they're looking for something a little more solid than a pretty face that knows how to flirt...
I love Libra men or vice versa...I attract them by not giving to craps what they think of me and being their friends...Aqua moon i suppose...in the end, I dont know if there is enough depth to the guy Libra's I have met to stay with one or stay with me....
You should find out what your moon is and your Venus sign...
Cancers dont like to be probed in the beginning...the like to get to know and trust you...they like dependability- blowing their calls, etc. shows none- and they will tire easily
I love Libra men or vice versa...I attract them by not giving to craps what they think of me and being their friends...Aqua moon i suppose...in the end, I dont know if there is enough depth to the guy Libra's I have met to stay with one or stay with me....
You should find out what your moon is and your Venus sign...
Cancers dont like to be probed in the beginning...the like to get to know and trust you...they like dependability- blowing their calls, etc. shows none- and they will tire easily
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