So I’m a Gemini and I started seeing this cancer guy. It’s a pretty recent thing, only a few months or so. Everything seemed to be going well and then he just disappears. I’m extremely puzzled by this type of behaviour. Just a plain “I’m not interested” would have done the job... but no, only silence and it’s making me feel like I’m being tortured for some reason... but I don’t know what I did and how long it’s gonna last...and it’s sort of driving me mad. Being the Gemini that I am I channeled the discomfort into some good old web browsing and apparently random ghosting spells are just a thing that (unevolved) cancer males do... so I’m curious: how do you communicate that this sort of behaviour is a no go to someone who obviously doesn’t let rationale dictate their actions... any successful Gemini/ Cancer pairs who have any tips? And how do you tolerate each other during the moods wings? I’ve been toying with the idea of just texting him that this type of behaviour doesn’t fly... but I can just foresee myself sinking down to his level of childishness turning full psycho (mars in Aries and moon in Scorpio here) if he keeps on ignoring my texts! I don’t want to make things worse but I also want to give him a piece of my mind... I’m really confused 🤷♀️ BECAUSE I DON’T KNOW WHATS GOING ON! But I also don’t want to start playing games to be able to get intel out... this is obviously bothering me more than it should... maybe I’ll regain my sense of sanity when Venus goes back direct but for now I need advice!
Cancer and Gemini... any hope?

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