Cancer does not want relationship. Leo is in love.

He is a Cancer. 7/5 I am a Leo. 8/7

Any advice appreciated... Please

Over the last 6 months my friend and I have gotten closer. In Feb and March we took two trips together where we acted like a couple in love. It is completely clear to me that I am in love with him, it is not so clear to him. I am one for taking it slow, but we weren't just weaving in and out of friends and something more.. whenever we got too close he would blow me off and I could not take the running away. Sunday night he came over and we cooked dinner and were having a great night. Well, until I started talking ??_). I told him that I wanted to do what was healthiest for us and if we were careless with what we had we would break it. So we could be friends and truly friends only or we could take it to the next level and see where it goes. (The Leo in me needs that consistency). That I was not comfortable in the gray area and did not want FWB. He said he did not want a relationship right now with anyone (translate.. with me). That he was worried though that he would lose the best thing that has happened to him. I said I thought we should take a break from each other with no contact for a month to hit the reset button and come back as friends only. He didn't like that idea, but I felt that if we did not take a break we would say friends only and then in a week or more be back coupley and then he would blow me off and the cycle would continue.

I did pull a complete romantic comedy move (Leo!) and when he left after ten minutes I got upset. I texted him to turn around. He came running back into the house and hugged and kissed me, but then said he had to go home to sleep in his own bed. (Not the traditional romantic comedy ending).

Two days later he posts this on facebook. My spidey senses were tingling. I think it has to do with me, because if not why would he ever post such a thing in the situation we are in?

"I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.??

I don't know what to do with this Cancer. I want him to break the silence because he loves me, in my dramatic Leo fashion. But, realistically, if he doesnt want a relationship it truly means he is just not in love with me. period. Move on.

Ugh...

Another Leo-Cancer relationship idea?

You guys will get along about as well as two male Rams butting heads over a female.

See the "Don't Tell Me What To Do" thread for more information.

your situation sound like my friends, she is a leo and he is a virgo though and they have been on several trips together but he will not make if offical so now they are on the out's again.

Scuba and you saying leos and cancers can't work at all?

Dude, there is no way a Cancer and a Leo will be happy together.

Cancer goes best with Pisces, because we let them do what they want and not get pissed at them over stupid crap.

Leos, on the other hand, tend to be one step away from making people obey them, and they get pissed over stupid shit all the time. Totally annoying to Cancers.

it can work, he may just be scared of getting hurt.

Posted by Scubafish
Dude, there is no way a Cancer and a Leo will be happy together.

Cancer goes best with Pisces, because we let them do what they want and not get pissed at them over stupid crap.

Leos, on the other hand, tend to be one step away from making people obey them, and they get pissed over stupid shit all the time. Totally annoying to Cancers.

Scuba, I know 3 people right now who are in leo-cancer relationships and they are all VERY happy together. One of those relationships has even stood the test of time. 42 years and counting...

I hate seeing everyone generalize so much. In reality, I witness tons of astrologically mismatched couples and marriages. Ones that are even seemingly (GASP) happy!

you realize that compatibility between people is more than just sun signs?
do you happen to know his moon, venus, merc and mars signs?

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Posted by caesarkreshen
Friends with benefits doesn't exist especially not to cancer.

CK

I have to disagree w/ that one...

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I'd like to think that even if the relationship is labeled a FWB, the cancer wouldn't take things as lightly as another sign would. He may even show that he is completely detached, but things are not always as they seem are they?

Lol... Cancerians are still men guys dont listen and self centered.

Leos love us Cancers, lol. There was another thread like this w/ a Leo in love with a Cancer usually the Leo women loving the Cancer men and I can see why. I think they can be compatible and it can work with some adjustments. As for best matches for Cancer I still believe Scorpio, another Cancer and maybe Pisces depending on the gender roles. Although I haven't had that connection with Pisces men.

@Freetobe007. Did you read the title of this thread? It says "Cancer does not want relationship, Leo is in love" how does your musing answer the poster's question? Just another hater..move on...

@Freetobe007. Did you read the title of this thread? It says "Cancer does not want relationship, Leo is in love" how does your musing answer the poster's question? Just another hater..move on...