CANCER FWB

I have a gemini & cancer man friend/co-worker overseas. Gemini is very vocal in his feelings towards me, but being Straight forward capricorn, i told him that i dont like him and i see him just a close friend. But he still asking me even i rejected him more that 10x. The 3 of us were always hang out we drink alot.,

And just happen, me and cancer guy had sex. Actually drunk sex. Which im the one who initiates maybe my hormones or i was just drunk. After we talk about that we can be FRIENDS with benefits we both agreed. But i notice something to him that after we had sex he's acting weird and shy, but when our friends around he acts normal, (like talking to me). He’s not into sex, if i will not tell him iwant, he’ll not going to ask me.

But when our gemini friend went for his vacation. He do the moves. Like being sweet, non stop calling even we’re at work. Calling me for his joke, telling his family problem, hes making me jealous using our co-worker. His blushing evertime he looks at me. And he blooms everytime we’re together, he even tell to his friend we were dating, when i heard that i actually tell him that i like him but he said HE DONT LIKE ME or not his type of girl, and we dont have a relationship and dont assume..thats lasted for 1month.

He change when gemini cameback from vacation. He gets easily annoy with me, he become mean, rude and

Always wanted to get argued with me even we dont had a problem or i dont know whats the reason what he acted. Nobody knows what happen to him but he already give a hint to our friends that we have something.

And now hes acting distant, hes avoiding my call/text. Not talking to me when we had a staff bonding..

I feel that the FEELING IS MUTUAL.

By the way hes married (complicated situation) he and his wife only talks regarding about their child and child support.

HELP ME I DONT know WHAT TO do.Im trying to understand him

Last saturday we had party with the staff. And i heard him giving some hint again about us. And now his comportable talking to me. And again his trying to say something to me but i dont mind him cause i know that his not yet done sorting his what he trully feels. Yes his married and he tellinf me what the real score between them. He let me read their exchance convos.

Yeah i know what you mean. But the thing is they have a deeper problem thats y i understand him why he acted like that to his wife.

I don't get the point of this thread. Are you trying to be more then someone he fucks only?

I know, I shouldn’t do this, this is wrong to falling inlove with married man, which were just supposed to be fwb only and we are far from family. The last time we talked. I tol him that if he thinkS and feel that he still have feeling for his wife even a little, just pursue it cause they have a child and they are married.. i tried my best to stop what i feel for the sake of his child. We still friends whatever happens. And i stop the fwb thingy so we avoid the feelings. And now hes the one who do the rumors about us.

honestly i likehim much but i still thinking and searching what should i do. Cause its hurt me alot

Posted by Capriqueen

honestly i likehim much but i still thinking and searching what should i do. Cause its hurt me alot

I don't even know why you want to willing get into this shit show. Dude cannot start anything when his last relationship isn't even over.

He won't leave his wife. And unless you hear it from his mouth directly, stop looking at his actions as any reason you can to make you think he likes you back. You're at the point your analyzing everything and twisting it to be what you want.

If you were someone he really cared about he wouldn't ignore you and avoid you. He won't leave his wife, but he will fuck you occasionally cause he can.

Rumors that we already had a relationship, so the other friend gut who got interest in me wouldn’t go in me.. and Yes some others notice that hes been jealous to gemini. And ofcourse honestly feeling already develop for him. I shouldnt trust him iknow but u know that heart was really stubborn.

Yup i already hear that when hes going back he gona settle his separation to his wife. Many times hes telling it to me.

As i was saying, in this point hes the one whos initiating that we had have a relationship. Hes already pointing it. To the fact that relationship here at work are not allowed.

* that his married

Maybe your right im looking a point that he can be like me too.

I actually i stop this fwb thingy, cause i know my feeling to him will develops Alot.. and now hes the one who looks like chasing,like giving hint to our coworkers that we have a relationship not directly telling it was me. But they already know that was me cause they notice the treatment towards me. I really like him. Theres a deeper problem in his spouse thats y he so angrily mad to her.. im not tolerating his words to her, i still advising him what should or think before his action cause they have a child. But he was so stubborn. As of now all I know was hes bring it to lawsuit.

The point is the character of his signs ( cancer ) that he will not tell what he really trully feels unless hes really sure..

Cancer zodiac are more on ACTION IS LOUDER THAN WORDS.

fwb with a cancer or a cancer placement? good luck 🙂

Posted by Pandora101

fwb with a cancer or a cancer placement? good luck 🙂

I dont know either..

Posted by vivi4656

Oh gosh! Don't do it. Cancer men will never move on from their honey. Trust me.. I'm a cancer woman. Cancer men are super devoted to their relationship and get soooo emotionally attached to one person. They will have sex with other people but it's because they are hurting internally and will want to forget about their pain... but most of the time, cancer men will never leave their family behind.

Update:

Yeah maybe your right. We talked last night and ask him what is his really intension to me cause i dont know what should react in his action. And he said that either him cannot think straight right now. I said if he likes me tell me honestly and if not tell it to me to even its hurt. Im not tolerating the idea being a # 2. Dont give me a hope there will be an us.

We can still be friends and i can move on this feelings. He just say sorry and let him wait after his vacation so he can tell me what is his really plan.

Thank you..

Yes he has a plan for a divorcement. He always telling me his plan about that. He ask me about my opinion and I honestly told him, if go back home, do some sorting if he still have a feeling for his wife, even just a small percent, cause they are still married and her daughter might suffer. But i he doesn’t have, just be civil cause shes still his daughter’s mother. Their fight got into deep, thats why hes really angry to her. Its been years since they are not in good terms.

Though i like him and im not yet really inlove with him, im just so happy at contented with him, were so comportable to each other the fact that we become friends before we did the fwb things, i surely told him that we can separate the sexthing over our friendship incase we had a problem. And now i can say we really understand what he trying to push. He wants me to stay beside him but not dont involve our feelings for now cause he wants to settle first his problem.

The things is he lays his card on me thats y, i do understand his situation. And even if i was on him i get angry, thats y write here cause ( complicated situation in his part )

Posted by vivi4656

Oh gosh! Don't do it. Cancer men will never move on from their honey. Trust me.. I'm a cancer woman. Cancer men are super devoted to their relationship and get soooo emotionally attached to one person. They will have sex with other people but it's because they are hurting internally and will want to forget about their pain... but most of the time, cancer men will never leave their family behind.

If they’re fucking someone other than their spouse, they’re not devoted. 🙄

Posted by Capriqueen

I have a gemini & cancer man friend/co-worker overseas. Gemini is very vocal in his feelings towards me, but being Straight forward capricorn, i told him that i dont like him and i see him just a close friend. But he still asking me even i rejected him more that 10x. The 3 of us were always hang out we drink alot.,

And just happen, me and cancer guy had sex. Actually drunk sex. Which im the one who initiates maybe my hormones or i was just drunk. After we talk about that we can be FRIENDS with benefits we both agreed. But i notice something to him that after we had sex he's acting weird and shy, but when our friends around he acts normal, (like talking to me). He’s not into sex, if i will not tell him iwant, he’ll not going to ask me.

But when our gemini friend went for his vacation. He do the moves. Like being sweet, non stop calling even we’re at work. Calling me for his joke, telling his family problem, hes making me jealous using our co-worker. His blushing evertime he looks at me. And he blooms everytime we’re together, he even tell to his friend we were dating, when i heard that i actually tell him that i like him but he said HE DONT LIKE ME or not his type of girl, and we dont have a relationship and dont assume..thats lasted for 1month.

He change when gemini cameback from vacation. He gets easily annoy with me, he become mean, rude and

Always wanted to get argued with me even we dont had a problem or i dont know whats the reason what he acted. Nobody knows what happen to him but he already give a hint to our friends that we have something.

And now hes acting distant, hes avoiding my call/text. Not talking to me when we had a staff bonding..

I feel that the FEELING IS MUTUAL.

By the way hes married (complicated situation) he and his wife only talks regarding about their child and child support.

HELP ME I DONT know WHAT TO do.Im trying to understand him

I feel sorry for the Gemini. The poor bastard. Gemini’s should never get involved with heartless Capricorns. Actually, I’d feel equally as bad for the cancerian if he wasn’t married. Sounds like his marriage is shit but in a marriage each person plays a part, so it’s perhaps partially his fault. Anyway, yeah, only Capricorns should get involved with other Capricorns so that they can mutually exploit the other. Or perhaps other earth signs. They know how to use and discard people almost as good as a Capricorn. Almost.