@aquaglass
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Cancer man & marriage talk
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I’m not interested in kids or getting married. Idk where some chicks here are finding cancer men that are saying ‘let’s get married and have kids’ on their first date, do you find these types in sketchy bars? Are they super old and are sitting on dating websites?
If a man ever said that to me I’d be like peaceee buddy. 🏃🏻♀️💨💨
Cancers don’t play around about creating families. That’s something really really important to them, so this guy thinks highly of you and you’re in for life in his eyes
He did say that he is serious. I tried to make sure if he really is talking about it, he said yes he is.
But then after the call, he didn't talk as much as he used to.
It wasn't the first time he's being this way. Things are always on and off between us.
Seems like cancer men, more than others, tend to talk a big game right before they ghost. Maybe he does mean what he says...only way to find out is see what happens with time.
They will say anything if that's the emotion they are feeling at the time. Check back the next week if he is still feeling the same. Sad but true..
Seems like cancer men, more than others, tend to talk a big game right before they ghost. Maybe he does mean what he says...only way to find out is see what happens with time.
It has been 6 years now
They will say anything if that's the emotion they are feeling at the time. Check back the next week if he is still feeling the same. Sad but true..
He is still there, still talking and such. Just not talking that much. Well, he is kind of busy with work and family there though. Maybe it's just me being not that trusting that he really wants it, idk.
Aw that is sweet.
Now you have to crush his poor Crab heart.
Haha tiz!!
They will say anything if that's the emotion they are feeling at the time. Check back the next week if he is still feeling the same. Sad but true..
He is still there, still talking and such. Just not talking that much. Well, he is kind of busy with work and family there though. Maybe it's just me being not that trusting that he really wants it, idk.
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Go with your gut!
They will say anything if that's the emotion they are feeling at the time. Check back the next week if he is still feeling the same. Sad but true..
He is still there, still talking and such. Just not talking that much. Well, he is kind of busy with work and family there though. Maybe it's just me being not that trusting that he really wants it, idk.
Go with your gut!
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I'd marry him today if i go with my gut. Buuuuut, wait, did i just say that?
Seems like cancer men, more than others, tend to talk a big game right before they ghost. Maybe he does mean what he says...only way to find out is see what happens with time.
It has been 6 years now
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6 years since he said he wants to marry you over the phone?! Girl, don’t hold your breath.
I strongly advise that you read the Cancer man left me threads. They have a distinct pattern. @LadyNeptune and @LostinmyMind11 are low key warning you and so am I.
They will say anything if that's the emotion they are feeling at the time. Check back the next week if he is still feeling the same. Sad but true..
He is still there, still talking and such. Just not talking that much. Well, he is kind of busy with work and family there though. Maybe it's just me being not that trusting that he really wants it, idk.
Go with your gut!
I'd marry him today if i go with my gut. Buuuuut, wait, did i just say that?
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I get that but go by his actions not fluff words
Seems like cancer men, more than others, tend to talk a big game right before they ghost. Maybe he does mean what he says...only way to find out is see what happens with time.
It has been 6 years now
6 years since he said he wants to marry you over the phone?! Girl, don’t hold your breath.
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I meant we have been talking for 6 years. He did mention about it since few years ago, then he said it again last week.
He told me that i was the reason why he couldn't have serious relationship with anybody there.
But things aren't that smooth and easy for us. We even hardly meet in person, plus the distance between us is just so far away.
I don't even know if we could really process the fiance visa for me to move there. It's not that easy.
Seems like cancer men, more than others, tend to talk a big game right before they ghost. Maybe he does mean what he says...only way to find out is see what happens with time.
It has been 6 years now
6 years since he said he wants to marry you over the phone?! Girl, don’t hold your breath.
I meant we have been talking for 6 years. He did mention about it since few years ago, then he said it again last week.
He told me that i was the reason why he couldn't have serious relationship with anybody there.
But things aren't that smooth and easy for us. We even hardly meet in person, plus the distance between us is just so far away.
I don't even know if we could really process the fiance visa for me to move there. It's not that easy.
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Oh no, no no no....find you a local guy. These long distance where you either never meet or meet a couple times ...let's just say it's really rare that they work out.
Seems like cancer men, more than others, tend to talk a big game right before they ghost. Maybe he does mean what he says...only way to find out is see what happens with time.
It has been 6 years now
6 years since he said he wants to marry you over the phone?! Girl, don’t hold your breath.
I meant we have been talking for 6 years. He did mention about it since few years ago, then he said it again last week.
He told me that i was the reason why he couldn't have serious relationship with anybody there.
But things aren't that smooth and easy for us. We even hardly meet in person, plus the distance between us is just so far away.
I don't even know if we could really process the fiance visa for me to move there. It's not that easy.
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So your a fantasy for him. That’s dangerous...
Seems like cancer men, more than others, tend to talk a big game right before they ghost. Maybe he does mean what he says...only way to find out is see what happens with time.
It has been 6 years now
6 years since he said he wants to marry you over the phone?! Girl, don’t hold your breath.
I meant we have been talking for 6 years. He did mention about it since few years ago, then he said it again last week.
He told me that i was the reason why he couldn't have serious relationship with anybody there.
But things aren't that smooth and easy for us. We even hardly meet in person, plus the distance between us is just so far away.
I don't even know if we could really process the fiance visa for me to move there. It's not that easy.
So your a fantasy for him. That’s dangerous...
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Oh yes he mentioned that it would be like a fairy tale for him
Seems like cancer men, more than others, tend to talk a big game right before they ghost. Maybe he does mean what he says...only way to find out is see what happens with time.
It has been 6 years now
6 years since he said he wants to marry you over the phone?! Girl, don’t hold your breath.
I meant we have been talking for 6 years. He did mention about it since few years ago, then he said it again last week.
He told me that i was the reason why he couldn't have serious relationship with anybody there.
But things aren't that smooth and easy for us. We even hardly meet in person, plus the distance between us is just so far away.
I don't even know if we could really process the fiance visa for me to move there. It's not that easy.
So your a fantasy for him. That’s dangerous...
Oh yes he mentioned that it would be like a fairy tale for him
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There’s no way you could live up to the expectations he has of you, and vice versa. Fantasies are dangerous cause they got no flaws. And your 6 years deep down the rabbit hole.
Are there any concrete plans to get you two on the same continent together? Or is it all pretty words and empty promises...
I have an Aqua acquaintance.
Cancer guy promised family life and the world basically. Said all that and more to her.
They got married. He provided for her and her child.
Then he got super clingy and she said controlling. Expected her to stay home with kids. Be less independent. She hated it. She divorced him.
Didn’t end well. So in that case, yes, he meant it. But it wasn’t what she really wanted I guess.
Ask him if he wants 3 girls just so he gets to chase the would be boyfriends with a gun when the girls are at dating age.
This Cancer man knew on the second date...
Yaron Versano
According to Gal Gadot...
"We met nearly 10 years ago through mutual friends at this very strange party in the Israeli desert. It was all about yoga, chakras, and eating healthy — we didn't exactly find ourselves there, but we found each other. I think I [knew he was the one], but I was too young to get it. He did. He's 10 years older than me. He told me on our second date he was serious and wasn't going to wait more than two years to ask me to marry him. Fast-forward two years; he proposed. We were married in 2008."
You were in the picture 6 years...and he's still on and off.
You be the judge.
Cancer men are a lot more intuitive than people give them credit for.
A Cancer will mean what they say, but don't ever believe the words of somebody who doesn't show it by actions.
People are all talk and just bluff.
Watch his actions closely, but do not give up your whole world just for him.
I have seen women and not only them too, also men destroying their life by just believing every word
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Cancer man said "we would marry, you'll move here, then we build a business together and raising 3 girls", on the phone.
Does he really mean it? Do you guys really mean it when you're talking about that kind of thing?