@Aquastic
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I'm nervous about this New Cancer guy
I don’t just think that telling you he has anger issues is a red flag, I’m also concerned about why he divulged something so blatantly negative like that in early phases when people put their best face forward to appeal to their romantic interest. Either way it’s suspicious.
Posted by aquarius09I don’t just think that telling you he has anger issues is a red flag, I’m also concerned about why he divulged something so blatantly negative like that in early phases when people put their best face forward to appeal to their romantic interest. Either way it’s suspicious.
He were talking about the lessons learned in our previous relationship, the EX talk, so he was telling me how the previous relationship left him with an anger which has become an issue for him.
Posted by RaakacYou're overthinking, you didn't even have a single date and you're already thinking ideas like relationship, mistakes and so on, when you meet him see how it goes and then go from there. 😉 Best of luck! 😄
thank you I hope it goes well
Posted by KoniPosted by HeartofTopazzAnger issues = red flag
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Will try to get him to explain it more, cause my dad had anger issues and it was not pretty
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09I don’t just think that telling you he has anger issues is a red flag, I’m also concerned about why he divulged something so blatantly negative like that in early phases when people put their best face forward to appeal to their romantic interest. Either way it’s suspicious.
He were talking about the lessons learned in our previous relationship, the EX talk, so he was telling me how the previous relationship left him with an anger which has become an issue for him.
Didn't you just get dumped—
Also he seems stuck on his ex
Why don't yyou guys just become friends
Take it slow
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I did recently get dumped, but I can't just sit and cry, m trying to move on.
He's not really stuck,he only spoke about her after I asked, and besides she is the mother of his child,she will always be in his last life.
Didn’t you just get out of a messy relationship? These things take time.
Treat the cancer man as a fun distraction. Just don’t expect him to be a quick fix for your hurting heart.
Posted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09I don’t just think that telling you he has anger issues is a red flag, I’m also concerned about why he divulged something so blatantly negative like that in early phases when people put their best face forward to appeal to their romantic interest. Either way it’s suspicious.
He were talking about the lessons learned in our previous relationship, the EX talk, so he was telling me how the previous relationship left him with an anger which has become an issue for him.
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It really doesn’t matter what the context is. It’s straight suspicious. Tread carefully.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09I don’t just think that telling you he has anger issues is a red flag, I’m also concerned about why he divulged something so blatantly negative like that in early phases when people put their best face forward to appeal to their romantic interest. Either way it’s suspicious.
He were talking about the lessons learned in our previous relationship, the EX talk, so he was telling me how the previous relationship left him with an anger which has become an issue for him.
Didn't you just get dumped—
Also he seems stuck on his ex
Why don't yyou guys just become friends
Take it slow
I did recently get dumped, but I can't just sit and cry, m trying to move on.
He's not really stuck,he only spoke about her after I asked, and besides she is the mother of his child,she will always be in his last life.
Ok then have fun don't think of this serious
Stop asking questions about a guy you're most likely not going to ends up with
Be safe. Be smart.
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But how would you know I won't end up being with? M puzzled
Posted by LadyNeptuneDidn’t you just get out of a messy relationship? These things take time.
Treat the cancer man as a fun distraction. Just don’t expect him to be a quick fix for your hurting heart.
Dets why m just trying, I wanna see if I can't try being with someone else.My previous relationship took a lot of confidence from I was too hooked.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09I don’t just think that telling you he has anger issues is a red flag, I’m also concerned about why he divulged something so blatantly negative like that in early phases when people put their best face forward to appeal to their romantic interest. Either way it’s suspicious.
He were talking about the lessons learned in our previous relationship, the EX talk, so he was telling me how the previous relationship left him with an anger which has become an issue for him.
Didn't you just get dumped—
Also he seems stuck on his ex
Why don't yyou guys just become friends
Take it slow
I did recently get dumped, but I can't just sit and cry, m trying to move on.
He's not really stuck,he only spoke about her after I asked, and besides she is the mother of his child,she will always be in his last life.
Ok then have fun don't think of this serious
Stop asking questions about a guy you're most likely not going to ends up with
Be safe. Be smart.
But how would you know I won't end up being with? M puzzled
Ok i knew it. You're putting the cart before the horse
Please stop
Please stop being so needy
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Lol m being needy now!? Wow! U have issues! And ain't got time!
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09I don’t just think that telling you he has anger issues is a red flag, I’m also concerned about why he divulged something so blatantly negative like that in early phases when people put their best face forward to appeal to their romantic interest. Either way it’s suspicious.
He were talking about the lessons learned in our previous relationship, the EX talk, so he was telling me how the previous relationship left him with an anger which has become an issue for him.
Didn't you just get dumped—
Also he seems stuck on his ex
Why don't yyou guys just become friends
Take it slow
I did recently get dumped, but I can't just sit and cry, m trying to move on.
He's not really stuck,he only spoke about her after I asked, and besides she is the mother of his child,she will always be in his last life.
Ok then have fun don't think of this serious
Stop asking questions about a guy you're most likely not going to ends up with
Be safe. Be smart.
But how would you know I won't end up being with? M puzzled
Ok i knew it. You're putting the cart before the horse
Please stop
Please stop being so needy
Lol m being needy now!? Wow! U have issues! And ain't got time!
Please do tell us how this goes. I am curious to see how a nutty Aqua captures her little crab as he goes back and forth with the ex.
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WTF!?
Posted by Ladyleo18If you feel like you might be making a mistake, you probably are. Don't discount your gut. Find someone without anger issues, baggage and that has enough time to meet your needs. If you're worried about it before meeting him, then it's going to be a problem later.
Figure out what you want in a partner and find it. Don't just settle for someone because they show interest. If you do that, you'll just end up with less than you settled for.
Profound!
Posted by ASCoppVenusIs it not possible to be single for a bit and enjoy life being single? Whats the rush in dating? I dunno but i have observed that women who date quite immediately after a breakup tend to end up in the wrong relationships a lot. One of the reasons is not being healed yet or not knowing themselves better after the last rs. So...
I've been preparing myself when he started acting funny and treating so horrible while we were dating,he was behaving like he was single so I started going to gym and preparing myself cause I could tell he wanted to dump me the minute he wished his ex a happy birthday referring to her as his "Hun" and made sure I see it, that killed me,so I been technically single.
Posted by JanMayMarryPosted by Ladyleo18If you feel like you might be making a mistake, you probably are. Don't discount your gut. Find someone without anger issues, baggage and that has enough time to meet your needs. If you're worried about it before meeting him, then it's going to be a problem later.
Figure out what you want in a partner and find it. Don't just settle for someone because they show interest. If you do that, you'll just end up with less than you settled for.
Everyone, you and me, we all have baggage. But you're right...the anger issue is the one that's disturbing. 😢
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I will try get him to talk about his anger issue and understand it,trust me I will not take it any further if the findings pose a danger to my well-being.I know how people with bad temper can ruin lives.
Posted by JanMayMarryPosted by ASCoppVenusIs it not possible to be single for a bit and enjoy life being single? Whats the rush in dating? I dunno but i have observed that women who date quite immediately after a breakup tend to end up in the wrong relationships a lot. One of the reasons is not being healed yet or not knowing themselves better after the last rs. So...
I agree.
After the Sag from Florida, I went back to singlehood life for half a year, before I step back into the dating scene and then became exclusive with Aqua.
We all need time to heal. And to jump back into a rs rightaway, just because of loneliness and wanting to fill that void, is so wrong. But that's my take.
To each his own. I hope it turns out well for you though, dear Aqua.
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I don't easily fall in love, I always take my time.you are right about the healing part though,I just can't help it, I will go insane if I don't keep myself busy with this Cancer
Do you think you may have some co-dependency issues?
Posted by SpaceBirdDon't be nervous. 🙂 x
Can't help it! Mara will try.😉
Posted by nikkistarDo you think you may have some co-dependency issues?
Not really,I love my space too much,and I do everything myself,I enjoy my own company, but everyone deservescompanionship
Posted by AquasticPosted by nikkistarDo you think you may have some co-dependency issues?
Not really,I love my space too much,and I do everything myself,I enjoy my own company, but everyone deservescompanionship
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I agree everyone deserves companionship, but why do you feel a need to essentially entertain yourself and distract yourself with this new Cancer? You just broke up with someone, and that relationship's death is fresh. Do you think it is beneficial to you, to use someone else as a distraction from making taking a break from all men, to heal yourself first? What if this man, ends up having feelings for you, is that fair to him?
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Lol did u delete?
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Lol did u delete?
No, strange. I never hide posts, unless its doubles. Duncan is playing games with coding today.
Posted by RaakacYou're overthinking, you didn't even have a single date and you're already thinking ideas like relationship, mistakes and so on, when you meet him see how it goes and then go from there. 😉 Best of luck! 😄
Yes totally agree with this.
Why to worry about things before they happen 😄
why do you like water signs?
Are you a cusp?
Posted by Sag898Are you a cusp?
No m not
Posted by Sag898why do you like water signs?
I don't know why, all I know is that m attracted to them and they attracted to me. I have 3 Pisces friends ,and 2 cancer friends. And my daughter is a Pisces.
Just to be out of topic:And I hate Earth signs but they like me,for some odd reason.
Posted by AquasticPosted by Sag898why do you like water signs?
I don't know why, all I know is that m attracted to them and they attracted to me. I have 3 Pisces friends ,and 2 cancer friends. And my daughter is a Pisces.
Just to be out of topic:And I hate Earth signs but they like me,for some odd reason.
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I see maybe it's chart too or something. interesting
Girl, just let it happen and flow. No need to be stressing already and you have yet to meet. Him saying he has anger issues now because of the ex is a red flag. He's angry at her which could lead to issues not only towards her but women in general, but i think you are aware of that.
Posted by FantamRoosterWe were all just soothing you over another guy a couple days ago. Wouldn't a breather be nice?
It's not like m planning to sleep with him, it's an interest ,and I wanna try something bew
Posted by justagirlGirl, just let it happen and flow. No need to be stressing already and you have yet to meet. Him saying he has anger issues now because of the ex is a red flag. He's angry at her which could lead to issues not only towards her but women in general, but i think you are aware of that.
I know hey m just nervous and excited at the same time.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by AquasticPosted by nikkistarDo you think you may have some co-dependency issues?
Not really,I love my space too much,and I do everything myself,I enjoy my own company, but everyone deservescompanionship
I agree everyone deserves companionship, but why do you feel a need to essentially entertain yourself and distract yourself with this new Cancer? You just broke up with someone, and that relationship's death is fresh. Do you think it is beneficial to you, to use someone else as a distraction from making taking a break from all men, to heal yourself first? What if this man, ends up having feelings for you, is that fair to him?
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If he starts feeling m gonna also develop feelings in the long run
Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by AquasticPosted by FantamRoosterWe were all just soothing you over another guy a couple days ago. Wouldn't a breather be nice?
It's not like m planning to sleep with him, it's an interest ,and I wanna try something bew
You should do what works for you. It just seems really soon to already have new man problems. lol
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We promised to learn each first, we talk everyday till late just trying to understand each other,we might end up being friends ,who knows?
M chatting to him as we speak.😍
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So I've been talking to this Cancer guy for about a week now.But I haven't met him in person, we only planning to go on a date next week.
Hes good looking ,he goes to gym take good care of himself.converrsation flows ,like I can safely say we click.
My only problem with him is. 1. he does 3 jobs, m just worried that if I get into a relationship with this guy he might not have enough time for us. 2. Says he has anger issues but working on it, which
A part of me feels like I might be making a mistake.Starting a new relation is exciting but the nerves are strong.