Cancer guys/girls I need help!

I met this guy online and we have been talking everyday for the last 9months and we get on really great. Im aries and he is a cancer. We have been on a few dates but they didnt go so great due to me being super shy. But are last one was great!
Anyway he started going a little cold on me before are last date so the other day I was talking to him online and I came across a message he had left on his profile to another girl calling her babe ect.. and me being aries got a bee in my bonet and told him to go take a run and jump and then i Deleted him.I didnt even ask who she was but a did take a sneak peek at her photos and looking at her i had nothing to worry about!! I was half hoping to get a text or an email from him but nothing!
Im confused do I try and contact him? Or would he have contacted me?

after spending nearly a year trying to build a strong foundation with this guy, going on a few dates, u see one questionable comment on his social networking site and u cut him off? just like that? the impulsiveness of aries is hard to shake it seems but it will kill a relationship ur trying to maintain with an earth or water. both elements prefer security and stability. u should have just asked him, in a playful and teasing way, what that comment was about. that way ur not flipping out over a possible nothing, u get the info ur seeking, and he would have likely been perceptive. cancers like attention and a little jealousy on ur part. makes them feel desired.

however, after 9 months, only a few dates, and u not opening up, he might be losing interest. i know i would but i'm also a leo. maybe he thinks ur just good friends by now and someone he can have a date with every now and then. the cancer guy i've been seeing had a lady friend just like that. they're very patient folk though so who knows for sure?

You're confused?


Really?



I think not. You weren't confused when you cut off your nose to spite your face, were you?

How does your bed feel? Sleeping well?

Hi Sarahjock

I have to agree with Ninjamu, you should have asked him who that person was instead of cutting him off like that. Imagine that trust is built up veerrrry slowly but can take seconds to fall apart.
By asuming he was a cheater and a liar you clearly showed him you don't trust him truly.
It also shows you lack self confidence and, if the guy is trying to project a relationship with you..he can predict that, if you deleted him on account of an innocent comment in a social network, he will not have any stability with you..and Crabs love stability.
You were way tooo impulsive and now you will suffer the consequences.
If you are truly interested in him, you should call him and clear the situation and admit you were jealous and you lost it. Be honest and open, and control your impulses..I know it is hard but if you care, it is worth it.
I am dating a crab, and at the beginining of the relationship, a lot of girls commented his photos in FB ..I was so jealous but I never interfered. I made a comment about how "popular" he was, I mean, I showed some jealousy which I know he LOVED, but never made a scandal. He tried to reassure me that these were only friends and they were affectionate like that with him...OK , I had to grin and bear it.
But as the relationship continued, little by little these girls disappeared. I'm sure he has told them to stop being so "affectionate" cos I might get hurt.

When there is a will , there is a way , and if this is meant to be, it will. If you are interested, be honest and just tell him the truth. If not , walk away.