@paries
14 Years
Cancer - He's both the best and the worst
paries you are right.as much they are adorable they are bitter >
RED FLAG
Me thinks you have yourself a problem child.
Yep, I agree. But the good is so amazingly good that (for now) I'm willing to tolerate the bad. (The bad tends to be directed towards other people, events or himself - not me - but I do get caught in the crossfire).
paries.... I so know what you mean... I was there the other day with my crab... it wasn't anything i did. It was just stress and pressure he was feeling and I got caught in the cross fire and he ended up saying things to me that really hurt.. But I gave him a day or so.. asked him how he was ... and told him i missed him.. he told me he was sorry and it should have never happened and he didn't mean the things he said.. my very first encounter with this.. man, it broke my heart!! but things are somewhat back to normal.. you can't help but love them.. I just wish my crab could see all that reasons why he is such a great guy like how i see him..
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I've never dated a man more affectionate, sensitive, loyal, caring, passionate, emotional or open than my crab. But I have also never dated a man more moody, temperamental, angry, bitter, cranky, vindictive than him either. Such extremes. It's like a freak of nature, lol.