@LadyLynda0712
13 Years
Cancer in love x 2...help!
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Very unusual for a committed Cancer, I know. Both these guys bring out the best sides of her (why can't it be ONE person— lol). First, Aries man (6 yrs older). Deep, emotional connection. Not so great on the day-to-day, likes/dislikes stuff. But explosive (good) when alone together and can talk and laugh for hours. Deep spiritual connection. Doesn't believe in or like the astrology stuff, which she holds sacred. Second, Taurus man (10 years younger). Instant, mutual attraction--not just attraction, magnetic-like attraction. Can't go one day without the other or both are a mess. Mutual likes/dislikes. Again, deep emotional connection. Cancer worries about age difference; Taurus says he loves her stability and maturity. He is not the typical Taurean, though from what she's read. She thought they were home-lovers; this one likes to be outdoors all the time (she'd rather be home with him). He says he's not home because he's not found anyone to be home with (until now). All she needs to do is ask, and he'll be there.
How can a Cancer, who wasnt' even looking (going through divorce) all of a sudden get not one but two men thrust into her life like the proverbial lightening bolt, and each bringing out such good things in her that she thought was lost forever. Cancer and Aries? Cancer and Taurus? She can't decide, and neither the men can let go.