@britneybabe26
11 Years500+ PostsGemini
cancer male and sex
I know cancer men like to be friends first before anything but I have one moving way too fast but when I told him it was too fast he slowed down which showed respect. I think if you make it clear what your intentions are in the beginning it helps to set the tone of what the relationship will be whether FWB or a actual relationship. Doesn't mean they are not excused from manipulating to get what they want though .
Signed
TAURUS who fell out of romance with a CANCER who won't commit.
So basically one you go to bed with them they are not going to let you go.
Mine is not Willy nilly about sexual relations..his words. Sex is NOT his main focus by any means..he very much needs to build up trust first.
Posted by britneybabe26
So basically one you go to bed with them they are not going to let you go.
Boy necessarily. I heard that they mix love and sex as one (the not developed ones)... And don't be too clingy or needy they will definitely pull away. That mushiness and the beginning? Will fade. Just go with the flow. Let him lead.
Not I meant not boy ... Spell check is stupid.
I knew a cancer once off the chart sex addict
I'm asking because he initiated on the second time we met and we did make it to bed but only foreplay and lots of kissing.
Posted by britneybabe26
I'm asking because he initiated on the second time we met and we did make it to bed but only foreplay and lots of kissing.lol.
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What's so funny?
That wasn't bold ... Bold would be taking it out and just having sex... Ain't no bed unless we going all the way... ŠŠTaurus don't play that... Too sexy to be sending signals... Either we wait or we smashing ‚‚
Too. Sexual not sexy
Posted by Shaniajam
That wasn't bold ... Bold would be taking it out and just having sex... Ain't no bed unless we going all the way... ŠŠTaurus don't play that... Too sexy to be sending signals... Either we wait or we smashing ‚‚
He really wasn't angry we didn't have sex
Posted by Shaniajam
That wasn't bold ... Bold would be taking it out and just having sex... Ain't no bed unless we going all the way... ŠŠTaurus don't play that... Too sexy to be sending signals... Either we wait or we smashing ‚‚He really wasn't angry we didn't have sex
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Oh I'm not stamping on your parade. Mines wouldn't have cared if we did in the beginning either. Now he's gone 8 months later Lmaoo ... Carry on. Hopefully a cancer can give better insight.
Posted by Pisces15
Cancer boy & I fooled around & then out of no where he asked for sex...I said no because I wasn't ready for that big step! He's now done a runner! Mmmm someone was after casual sex I I reckon.....
His feelings might just be hurt... Be prepared he may return.
Posted by Pisces15
Cancer boy & I fooled around & then out of no where he asked for sex...I said no because I wasn't ready for that big step! He's now done a runner! Mmmm someone was after casual sex I I reckon.....His feelings might just be hurt... Be prepared he may return.
Hurt from what though? The fact I said no to sex?
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Yes!!! It's called #rejection! They are not up front so when he was he thought he would get a yes and didn't. Hence rejection hence shell time.. Then again he may be gone for good if he was being manipulative. Who knows about these crabby patties Lmaooo
Posted by Pisces15
Cancer boy & I fooled around & then out of no where he asked for sex...I said no because I wasn't ready for that big step! He's now done a runner! Mmmm someone was after casual sex I I reckon.....His feelings might just be hurt... Be prepared he may return.
Hurt from what though? The fact I said no to sex?
Yes!!! It's called #rejection! They are not up front so when he was he thought he would get a yes and didn't. Hence rejection hence shell time.. Then again he may be gone for good if he was being manipulative. Who knows about these crabby patties Lmaooo
This is my issue; we're not in a relationship therefore how can he expected me to say yes— It got boundaries in place to prevent myself & him from being hurt. I've been there before; had sex without commitment in previous dating situations; the minute you give up the goods, poof they're gone, so thought I'd go about it a different way. I said to him later into the night I wanted to at some point in future just wasn't 100% ready. I thought he would understand....clearly not!!! And I'm not going to be used for sex to determine whether or not he wants a relationship with me.
I just wish he'd talk to me but f u c k it!
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I agree with your tactics and he may talk about it later on when he comes back out to play or not at all. Either way it's sad that they can't tap into their communication skills.
OK but this is going of topic haha my question was does he care for me? I heard cancer man don't bed just anyone
Posted by Arielle83
Think of the crazy/hot ratio. If you're hot and seem mellow he might wait it out in case your coy demeaner turns feral. Give it a bit of time to see if you pass.If you're average and chill, you'll get in right away.
So I'm average and chill since we slept together :-)
Posted by Arielle83
Think of the crazy/hot ratio. If you're hot and seem mellow he might wait it out in case your coy demeaner turns feral. Give it a bit of time to see if you pass.If you're average and chill, you'll get in right away.
So I'm average and chill since we slept together :-)
no you're just dumb, men like to chase, not to get things so easily
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It wasn't sex thou..
Posted by MiZLeo
I've never known a cancer who rushed into sex. They have always respectfully waited for me. Even after we had sex, if I told them I couldn't then they respectfully waited. I'm not saying there aren't exceptions out there, but I'm saying if he likes you, even a little, he will wait.
We were naked kissing and foreplay he asked if he should out on protection I said no because I wasn't ready for that.. He wasn't angry at all.
Posted by Arielle83
Think of the crazy/hot ratio. If you're hot and seem mellow he might wait it out in case your coy demeaner turns feral. Give it a bit of time to see if you pass.If you're average and chill, you'll get in right away.
This will not happen because of the over analyzing and Fatal Attraction complex unfortunately.
Posted by britneybabe26
Do Cancer men have sex or get into bed and just fool around with anyone or do they need to earn your trust?I've experienced both... My husband was friends first - that worked with me best. Others were super fast about wanting to get physical an came off to me as needy and desperate (especially when I didn't reciprocate) and that was a TURN-OFF.... No challenge.
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Yeah no thanks. I agree it depends on the dude.
I think so. It sucks but it happens. Look at the posts on this board. Haha!
Word!
I think Cancers have a dark relationship with sex. My ex I know for a fact would fuck all kinds of random girls but couldn't get sexually turned on by them with normal means because he wasn't into them emotionally. He needed some kinky/freaky shit with them. And then when I met him and had him under my spell we had the most romantic sex I've ever had. Never anything freaky, it was always super loving. I think feelings go a long with with this man in bed when it comes to his sex style.
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Do Cancer men have sex or get into bed and just fool around with anyone or do they need to earn your trust?