Cancer Male Explosive Temper

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by lichii on Tuesday, January 25, 2011 and has 2 replies.

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@lichii
16 Years

So I started to date this cancer guy.. I like him so much.. but i find in him a lot of similarities with my personality: I am also a cancer. He will get terrible mood swings, he will get very extremely impatient, a very dry sense of humor ( that most people can get annoyed by , even myself) , he will snap horribly at a very little issue and make it a huge deal ( he wont realize his words hurt me and willblame everything on me) and he is so sensitive and emotional(that I need to be careful of what I say of do around him).. I feel I am describing myself which is a bad/good thing. He really understands when I get sad but on the other side he will put his walls up when he gets offended and is so hard to get him out of that. Even when I can see myself in him ( at least all the bad traits and behaviors) he is the sweetest guy I ever met, kind and always caring for others.I dated a cancer boy before and it was just catastrophic!!!!!!I was scared to start a new relationship with a cancer boy because I know how this will end.It was fight after fight because we were hurting eachother all the time for every little thing. It drives me crazy being always fighting for little things and if this relationship is destined to failure I much rather cut strings before it gets more complicated. Guys, I am really falling in love with this guy but I need advise from Cancer - Cancer couples that went through this before: How do you overcome all these difficulties?

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@Leo1970
15 Years

And I thought I was imagining things. You've just described what happens with me and my cancer, however I'm a leo. Two cancers together, I can only imagine.

I feel your pain love.

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@lichii
16 Years

Ahhh Thanks!!! Well i just think the more You know cancer the more careful You have to be about what you say or do!!! Extremely sensitive people!!! Aww I wish he was a little more easygoing 😢