cancer man gone for good this time?

if a cancer man falls in love with you, can he just suddenly be out? got broken up with for the thousandth time it feels. but this time it's different. he's adamant, and cut me out now. first he said we could be friends, then he said its not appropriate for him to text.

his reasons for breaking up were all across the board, from "we're a bad couple" and that we've worsened hugely, and he just wants someone to be there for him, and not be an obstacle before he goes to bed at night, to it's not fair of him to ask me to be with him (eight year age gap and he has a child, and were from two dif countries). i can't tell what the reasoning is, and if he'll ever come back.

he was adamant i couldnt "change his mind" and that i was dumb to not give up, i told him that i loved him and couldnt give up and i know he still loves me. he was angry and shouted I dont love you! it's done and has been for two weeks. but he couldnt say he didnt love me when i asked him directly and looked him in the eyes. only that we cant be togehter.

i really want him back but he's expressed feeling like anything i say is just talk. and he refused to give me any chance to prove myself. saying i should have already. however the two months we've been back together int he same country, has been extremely stressful find a job/home/dealing with roommates and then our relationship as well.

he said id made him feel lonely, hurt, ugly, and just bad about himself. i said he'd hurt me so much too and i just wanted to be able to talk and move forward and stop doing this stupid stuff to each other. just those small things that build up and need to be talked about, but he never would talk to me when it came to that stuff! but then he also told me that i was still his favorite person to be with, his favorite company.

three days after breaking up he texted saying " i havent forgotten about you all. still very much preoccupied with you"

then after twice of trying to meet and talk, though hed been texting and offering to meet, he just got very angry, said he was done. etc. said hed still text, as i asked he not treat me like i never mattered. but he texted yesterday saying " i said i'd text but it's clear thats not appropriate. i hope everything works out great for you. goodbye".

again he's done all this type of thing before. i have no idea what to think. if its truly over or if hes running hurt/scared.