Cancer man ignoring a Pisces

Hey everyone. I dated a Cancer guy for two months. He claimed I was too busy and that we texted too much(it's too impersonal). I apologized for not giving him what he wanted and asked if it was over. No answer. The second time I told him I had trust issues and asked again "are you done?". His response was "what else can I do? I'm done" He ignores me when he sees me but I thought he would have been more sympathetic about me opening up about my trust issues..

Why? I have no clue.

It's been a month and NOTHING. Does that mean he never cared about me in the first place?
Should I move on?

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Posted by Poisson
Would a male crab kindly please respond "yes" to her last question. First one who does gets a free drink from me.... or a piece of cake.... i know you guys like food... and cake is delicious.

Did not want to say it so bluntly... but there you go...

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Ok. I get the point. Lol.

What about the second to last question?
I think it would help me in terms of closure even though not directly from him.

LOL, Poisson.

@Dapadon. Move on, junior Pisces. What part of the "I'm done!" don't you understand? You'll be creating an awkward situation for both of you, if you continue to cling onto him.

Why should he be "more sympathetic about your trust issues"? He's not your therapist, he's just a boy.

Wear an elasticated bracelet and pinch yourself every time you are thinking about him. Find something else to be obsessive about. And work on your trust issue before entering the dating scene again.

Make a list with the qualities you have (ask your friend to help with) and a similarly longer list with those you want in a boyfriend. Read the list every day while getting to know (casually) as many boys as you can. Happy hunting!

Let the crab alone in his rock pool, please. Yours is the ocean!

I'm a Cancer sun woman and have to say don't put your life on hold, continue to have fun and enjoy yourself, and live your life. I would say it is over, for it to be that long and he isn't saying anything or making efforts.

Posted by Undine
LOL, Poisson.

@Dapadon. Move on, junior Pisces. What part of the "I'm done!" don't you understand? You'll be creating an awkward situation for both of you, if you continue to cling onto him.

Why should he be "more sympathetic about your trust issues"? He's not your therapist, he's just a boy.

Wear an elasticated bracelet and pinch yourself every time you are thinking about him. Find something else to be obsessive about. And work on your trust issue before entering the dating scene again.

Make a list with the qualities you have (ask your friend to help with) and a similarly longer list with those you want in a boyfriend. Read the list every day while getting to know (casually) as many boys as you can. Happy hunting!

Let the crab alone in his rock pool, please. Yours is the ocean!

Junior Pisces? What makes me any more junior in class compared to you? Lmao. Idk I found that funny.

Anyways, a yes or no would've more helpful although I did value the middle piece of your comment.

Posted by prettyladii
I'm a Cancer sun woman and have to say don't put your life on hold, continue to have fun and enjoy yourself, and live your life. I would say it is over, for it to be that long and he isn't saying anything or making efforts.

Makes plenty of sense.

Can anyone give insight about the second to last question?

Posted by Dapadon
Hey everyone. I dated a Cancer guy for two months. He claimed I was too busy and that we texted too much(it's too impersonal). I apologized for not giving him what he wanted and asked if it was over. No answer. The second time I told him I had trust issues and asked again "are you done?". His response was "what else can I do? I'm done" He ignores me when he sees me but I thought he would have been more sympathetic about me opening up about my trust issues..

Why? I have no clue.

It's been a month and NOTHING. Does that mean he never cared about me in the first place?
Should I move on?

No worries, Cancer men are always ignoring someone. Just disappear for a while he will look you up.

"Junior Pisces? What makes me any more junior in class compared to you? Lmao. Idk I found that funny."

Firstly, your naivety.

Secondly, your age.

No one could give you the answer to that question, only you and Mr.Crab would know the full extent of your circumstances.
From what little you had shared, he could have, might have, but now it is dead for certain, and that is most important. The Present.
Sometimes there is no riddle at all, when a man does not respond and disappears, then his silence is his very answer.
We, woman make things more complex than what was intended, when a man says/does something, believe him.
In this case...You are not the one, The End.

Posted by Dapadon
Can anyone give insight about the second to last question?

No, he didn't care enough to want you as his girlfriend.

To add, let it be.
If you are the one, a man when he realizes so, will find you.
Otherwise live your life as it were, keep moving, moving on.
What will be, will be. If a man loves you, he will find a way.
You can not know or figure this out, all you can do is swim your merry way, do what Mermaids do best 🙂

Posted by Undine
"Junior Pisces? What makes me any more junior in class compared to you? Lmao. Idk I found that funny."

Firstly, your naivety.

Secondly, your age.

The latter is an understandable reason (I can't see your age on your profile. I new to the forum so maybe it's me)
But to say my 'naivety' as the first reason is so unnecessary. I know for a fact that NO ONE knows everything. I asked a question simply because I didn't. You're "higher than thou" approach was so unnecessary. Please just answer without the "dead weight" comments or don't say anything.

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Posted by Undine
"Junior Pisces? What makes me any more junior in class compared to you? Lmao. Idk I found that funny."

Firstly, your naivety.

Secondly, your age.

The latter is an understandable reason (I can't see your age on your profile. I new to the forum so maybe it's me)
But to say my 'naivety' as the first reason is so unnecessary. I know for a fact that NO ONE knows everything. I asked a question simply because I didn't. You're "higher than thou" approach was so unnecessary. Please just answer without the "dead weight" comments or don't say anything.

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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
To add, let it be.
If you are the one, a man when he realizes so, will find you.
Otherwise live your life as it were, keep moving, moving on.
What will be, will be. If a man loves you, he will find a way.
You can not know or figure this out, all you can do is swim your merry way, do what Mermaids do best 🙂

I will keep swimming. I have no choice. But I will remind myself of this comment. Thanks.
If he wants to be with me it will be clear

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Posted by Dapadon


Why? I have no clue.

It's been a month and NOTHING. Does that mean he never cared about me in the first place?

Should I move on?

Why ?

Him talking about the mode of communication wasn't designed to be a relationship breaking conversation, he was pretty much saying that he is too insecure for it and needs more human and emotional feedback from you which texts do not often provide. In other words, he was insecure too. You then asked him if you guys are done which implies that relationship security will always be an issue. I'm not trying to put any blame on anyone, I just see an insecure cancer man, a Pisces with trust issues and a situation that kind of escalated quickly. That's my impression of reading the background story.

Does that mean he never cared about me in the first place?

Depends on the rest of the stuff you didn't mention, but from what you wrote, I believe he cared enough.

Should you move on ?

Absolutely. Not that he is a bad guy or there is nothing good in having a relationship with him, but he isn't mature enough yet. It will always be filled with very emotionally draining drama and life is just too short. He doesn't need to be a bad guy and you don't need to be a victim for you to just move on at the right time, hope that makes sense.

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I agree. It all happened so fast it took me for a whirlwind. That's why I'm a little shocked and confused as to how he disappeared.
He would always mention that I'm too busy for him and I could sense he was uneasy about it. I also noticed that he didn't like to express any issues openly with me though. He waited for everything to build up to let me know that my mode of communication(texting) was affecting everything. Had he told me sooner I would have talked more on the phone without a problem.

I told him that him being so persistent in the beginning was new for me that's why I was being so cautious. He said he felt like I was holding back from him. If I had more time with him I'm sure I would have opened up more. But I guess
it's done.

I told him I took the blame for my part. I'm not sure if he is considering if he had any faults in this

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Posted by Dapadon
Hey everyone. I dated a Cancer guy for two months. He claimed I was too busy and that we texted too much(it's too impersonal). I apologized for not giving him what he wanted and asked if it was over. No answer. The second time I told him I had trust issues and asked again "are you done?". His response was "what else can I do? I'm done" He ignores me when he sees me but I thought he would have been more sympathetic about me opening up about my trust issues..

Why? I have no clue.

It's been a month and NOTHING. Does that mean he never cared about me in the first place?
Should I move on?

No worries, Cancer men are always ignoring someone. Just disappear for a while he will look you up.

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I hope very soon. Lol