Helena1988
@Helena1988
6 Years
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Cancer man mood swings ?
You think he might be cheating?
Yes but hiding something..
I suppose it's not something good.
I suppose it's not something good.
11 years?!?! 😲😲😲 And you're still feeling insecure about the relationship? 🤔😬
11 years?!?! 😲😲😲 And you're still feeling insecure about the relationship? 🤔😬
Never felt insecure.
During all these years.
But recently im feeling he is hiding things from me
During all these years.
But recently im feeling he is hiding things from me
Emotional cheating probably! Trust your gut. Check out his phone, you will find out quick🙃
You’ve been with him 11 years. Don’t go seeking information on infidelity if you are not ready to walk away, if indeed he is cheating. Do it if you plan on walking away. Otherwise leave it alone.
those silent days are his out days. he is with other women 😉 trust me
We'r engaged and he baught me a very beautiful expensive ring ..and we will wedd in june .. he spend most of his time with me im not saying he is not but sometimes he dispear four hours and ask me for space.. he never dispear for days..i don't know since we set the date for our wedding and we started preparing for our new home..he showed another face that i never saw during whole those years.
He's more possessive more controling.
His moods is worse then ever
He fights for small stupid things.
He criticize me ..and yes it happened to call me names..
And when i get angry .and decide to ignore him he ask forgivness telling me how much he loves me N how only death will do us apart.
I'm sure he really loves me ..also im 100% Sure he's hiding something.
Im confused.
Wish to find answers.
He's more possessive more controling.
His moods is worse then ever
He fights for small stupid things.
He criticize me ..and yes it happened to call me names..
And when i get angry .and decide to ignore him he ask forgivness telling me how much he loves me N how only death will do us apart.
I'm sure he really loves me ..also im 100% Sure he's hiding something.
Im confused.
Wish to find answers.
11 years? So what.
If you ain't happy, leave him.
You cant marry a man who calls you names.
If you ain't happy, leave him.
You cant marry a man who calls you names.
Posted by Helena1988
We'r engaged and he baught me a very beautiful expensive ring ..and we will wedd in june .. he spend most of his time with me im not saying he is not but sometimes he dispear four hours and ask me for space.. he never dispear for days..i don't know since we set the date for our wedding and we started preparing for our new home..he showed another face that i never saw during whole those years.
He's more possessive more controling.
His moods is worse then ever
He fights for small stupid things.
He criticize me ..and yes it happened to call me names..
And when i get angry .and decide to ignore him he ask forgivness telling me how much he loves me N how only death will do us apart.
I'm sure he really loves me ..also im 100% Sure he's hiding something.
Im confused.
Wish to find answers.
You're thinking of marrying someone who criticises you, calls you names and disappears on you?
Whether he's cheating on you or not, do you want to share your life with a man who treats you this way?
Maybe he is getting cold feet. Is it an arranged marriage?
Posted by Helena1988
We'r engaged and he baught me a very beautiful expensive ring ..and we will wedd in june .. he spend most of his time with me im not saying he is not but sometimes he dispear four hours and ask me for space.. he never dispear for days..i don't know since we set the date for our wedding and we started preparing for our new home..he showed another face that i never saw during whole those years.
He's more possessive more controling.
His moods is worse then ever
He fights for small stupid things.
He criticize me ..and yes it happened to call me names..
And when i get angry .and decide to ignore him he ask forgivness telling me how much he loves me N how only death will do us apart.
I'm sure he really loves me ..also im 100% Sure he's hiding something.
Im confused.
Wish to find answers.
You're about to marry a man who CALLS YOU NAMES, PICKS FIGHTS, DISAPPEARS for hours and NEEDS SPACE? He's a real prize. You better PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN and SEEK marital COUNSELING BEFORE walking down that aisle. Men who are possessive become WORSE once it becomes official. Proceed with caution. Not sure why you don't know what to do. Either leave and end the mess or stay and make him go to counseling. If he's unwilling, then he's been wasting 11 years of your life. Love fights to correct the wrong. Period.
Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by Helena1988
We'r engaged and he baught me a very beautiful expensive ring ..and we will wedd in june .. he spend most of his time with me im not saying he is not but sometimes he dispear four hours and ask me for space.. he never dispear for days..i don't know since we set the date for our wedding and we started preparing for our new home..he showed another face that i never saw during whole those years.
He's more possessive more controling.
His moods is worse then ever
He fights for small stupid things.
He criticize me ..and yes it happened to call me names..
And when i get angry .and decide to ignore him he ask forgivness telling me how much he loves me N how only death will do us apart.
I'm sure he really loves me ..also im 100% Sure he's hiding something.
Im confused.
Wish to find answers.
You're about to marry a man who CALLS YOU NAMES, PICKS FIGHTS, DISAPPEARS for hours and NEEDS SPACE? He's a real prize. You better PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN and SEEK marital COUNSELING BEFORE walking down that aisle. Men who are possessive become WORSE once it becomes official. Proceed with caution. Not sure why you don't know what to do. Either leave and end the mess or stay and make him go to counseling. If he's unwilling, then he's been wasting 11 years of your life. Love fights to correct the wrong. Period.click to expand
Touché
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Women on DXP = “He disappears FOR HOURS” 😭😭
Me = 😂😂😂😂😂🤣
Why is that funny?
No it's not arranged marriage we met in the airport 11 years ago and we dated 3 years before having relationship and got engaged last year in july.
Yes sure he needs a nap and needs space to watch football or whatever.
Im talking about the times when he is free and we can spend time together
But he doesn't call at all.
I never act clingy or insist to call him
I gave him space and i respect when he ask for boundries.
But when i gave him space he fights and accuse me that i don't care about him
That im selfish and i don't try to call to check if he's ok.
He ask for space = i gave space
I don't call him = he calls fighting
And for those who told me to leave him
I tried to do it 4 times
During 11 years
He starts crying asking forgivness
Begging me not to leave him.
I always forgive
1 - because i love him.
2- he never cheated
3- because he tries always to make me happy ..buys me expensive gifts.
And loves to surprise me.
Why am confused bcz
He changed
He's more moody
More distant
Acting wired.
Fights more then usual.
I just want to know is it bcz of the wedding and he's scared of commitment.
Or is he cheating?
Im talking about the times when he is free and we can spend time together
But he doesn't call at all.
I never act clingy or insist to call him
I gave him space and i respect when he ask for boundries.
But when i gave him space he fights and accuse me that i don't care about him
That im selfish and i don't try to call to check if he's ok.
He ask for space = i gave space
I don't call him = he calls fighting
And for those who told me to leave him
I tried to do it 4 times
During 11 years
He starts crying asking forgivness
Begging me not to leave him.
I always forgive
1 - because i love him.
2- he never cheated
3- because he tries always to make me happy ..buys me expensive gifts.
And loves to surprise me.
Why am confused bcz
He changed
He's more moody
More distant
Acting wired.
Fights more then usual.
I just want to know is it bcz of the wedding and he's scared of commitment.
Or is he cheating?
I've known couples who have been dating for years, get married and then it falls apart
I'd think very carefully before committing
You probably need to bite the bullet and ask him what he really wants...
I'd think very carefully before committing
You probably need to bite the bullet and ask him what he really wants...
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by Helena1988
We'r engaged and he baught me a very beautiful expensive ring ..and we will wedd in june .. he spend most of his time with me im not saying he is not but sometimes he dispear four hours and ask me for space.. he never dispear for days..i don't know since we set the date for our wedding and we started preparing for our new home..he showed another face that i never saw during whole those years.
He's more possessive more controling.
His moods is worse then ever
He fights for small stupid things.
He criticize me ..and yes it happened to call me names..
And when i get angry .and decide to ignore him he ask forgivness telling me how much he loves me N how only death will do us apart.
I'm sure he really loves me ..also im 100% Sure he's hiding something.
Im confused.
Wish to find answers.
You're about to marry a man who CALLS YOU NAMES, PICKS FIGHTS, DISAPPEARS for hours and NEEDS SPACE? He's a real prize. You better PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN and SEEK marital COUNSELING BEFORE walking down that aisle. Men who are possessive become WORSE once it becomes official. Proceed with caution. Not sure why you don't know what to do. Either leave and end the mess or stay and make him go to counseling. If he's unwilling, then he's been wasting 11 years of your life. Love fights to correct the wrong. Period.
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Not yet we still engaged
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During those years i never had doubts .. and i knew he never cheated..but now i m confused that he might be?
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