
cappiegirl12
@cappiegirl12
8 Years
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Came here for some insight on the usual cancer man confusion 😉
There was guy at work 4 years ago who I was very close friend with but never crossed the line even he liked me due to personal circumstances. I left the company 2 years ago and we kept in touch from time to time. Since last year our communication become more frequent with his expression of feelings for me (mutually exchanged) and we started long distance relationship 3 months ago.
He is typical awesome Cancer caring, affectionate, loving and with mood swings and insecurities which I thought handled well being Capricorn. I always show my love and appreciation. I know his family members and his close friends and he does know mine, we share and talk about everything so I feel confident we have a strong bond. He surprised me by having photos of me he got those years ago and kept.
However 5 days ago something happen, we had great day together but I had to bring up an issue about money where I thought he might have lied, I asked him in open and loving way, he gave me answer and we closed it. Unfortunately because we cleared this at the end only I was full of anxiety during our time together as it was a big deal so it came out via teasing him 2-3x more then I normally do in way that I realized upset him. He showed me he was upset and I told him it was just a joke/tease and I thought everything was fine as we continued our day as normal and he dropped me home too. And we kept talking about future plans etc
But I have not heard from him since, nor he replied to my 2 lovey messages nor 2 phonecalls...now sure he could be having other issues but because I am aware that I made him upset and maybe insecure this could be also purposely. I love him dearly and never would want to hurt him, this was just few bad comments/jokes that I made and I thought I smoothed it afterwards.
So my question is, would he pretend everything is ok and then go home and think about it and then to ignore me to process it (if it is not other issue). We were never without communication for 5 days before. Should I leave him be.. or should I try to ask/apologies? I really love him and don't want to lose him especially after all those years that we wasted wanting each other and now finally being together.