Cancer Sun Venus in Gemini - anybody ever dated one?

Cancer Sun Venus in Gemini - anybody ever dated one?

Yes I dated one, it was a disaster, you may try this question in relationship and astrology too.

I am one. It's a confusing combination. I think we're nurturing/deep on a soul level yet kind of detached/lighthearted/vacillating when it comes to love. Hope you're adaptable 🙂

Posted by bubbythewhale1
This combo made me think about: "Investigative discovery: The passionate killers" O_O

But really that combo seems really sweet, playful and creative....flighty & anxious at times

Is this why I love ID? 😕 I thought it was my 5th house- pluto in scorpio...

Honestly though, I can see this. On a less positive note I've been told it's hard to get me to take things seriously at times...Nor would I describe myself as romantic as the generalized Cancerian stereotype, all that stuff seems corny to me. Indecision is also another issue.

Posted by Canbullrius
I am one too 🙂

I'm a different personality to the poster above me who is my astro twin though, i am the ESFJ-A type, extrovert but with everything else of a usual crab minus the mood swings.

I'm ENFJ. What does the extra A mean for you?

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Posted by Canbullrius
I am one too 🙂

I'm a different personality to the poster above me who is my astro twin though, i am the ESFJ-A type, extrovert but with everything else of a usual crab minus the mood swings.

I'm ENFJ. What does the extra A mean for you?

It's just added to it, it has absolutely no explanation.

Other than that i am the Guardian personality, and excellent with people.

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^ Is that consistent with your astrological descriptions?

I'm one. I'm very nutring and caring, but I tend to be very airy and detached. I love being goofy and laughing. It's a bit hard for me to be serious. In relationships I sometimes get bored and may need space and variety. I love romace, but then I'm always awkward about it. I'm an INFJ.. a bit shy, but kinda extroverted tooo

I only seriously date if I really feel for that person. I hate casual dating because it reminds me of applying for a crappy job. I like those instant connections then you find out more and having a common ground. I also hate boring routine. I don't mind slamming beers and napping on the couch on a Sunday but we better go somewhere the next day.

I am one as well. People hate me.

fuck 'em

Posted by Koniuchaa
My friend is one. He always has a girlfriend, but has told me he gets bored and wants to take off eventually

Lol! How rude.

Eh I only want to take off if i'm not sure where I stand. Why stay and waste time if you're not wanted?

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My friend is one. He always has a girlfriend, but has told me he gets bored and wants to take off eventually

Lol! How rude.

That is why he stays in the friend zone

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Hahaha

I am one ...go for it GONNA BE AWESOME!

Posted by Koniuchaa
My friend is one. He always has a girlfriend, but has told me he gets bored and wants to take off eventually

I met a a Cancer/Pisces girl with a Gemini Venus and it was the best sex of my life by far. Never had anything like it before or sense. This coming from my Leo Venus lol

This girl did have like 5 facebook accounts for all the different guys so I guess she needed variety lol

I just found it strange Gemini Sun women are totally different when it comes to Gemini Venus women in bed. Its a big of enough difference to note in my book.

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I just found it strange Gemini Sun women are totally different when it comes to Gemini Venus women in bed. Its a big of enough difference to note in my book.

This explains my amazing sexual performance then lol.

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This how Gemini Venus people roll then lol

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Posted by HighTide
I just found it strange Gemini Sun women are totally different when it comes to Gemini Venus women in bed. Its a big of enough difference to note in my book.

This explains my amazing sexual performance then lol.

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This how Gemini Venus people roll then lol

I need to connect mentally. Love intelligent people who know how to communicate. Very flirtatious. Very lighthearted if I'm not serious about the person. Don't like clingy. Deep confessions of love when I barely know you scare the shit out of me. I will run! Be fun and interesting. Once I find someone I'm very committed and loyal. Not all of us are cheaters or have multiple partners though we get that rap. So that irritates me.

Posted by Silver7nz
I need to connect mentally. Love intelligent people who know how to communicate. Very flirtatious. Very lighthearted if I'm not serious about the person. Don't like clingy. Deep confessions of love when I barely know you scare the shit out of me. I will run! Be fun and interesting. Once I find someone I'm very committed and loyal. Not all of us are cheaters or have multiple partners though we get that rap. So that irritates me.

Well boredom can set in once you feel like someone is too attached or they stop stimulating you mentally or aren't as fun or exciting while ceasing to be a challenge in love in which you did very little to win them over and they cling to you for energy.

I don't think cheating in the traditional sense applies, just have alot of different people they like for different reasons and probably aren't malicious in trying to hurt other people. When the interest totally fades and when they pushed into that corner I think they are more likely to disappear then actively try to shove a new person in your face where you can see it out in the open and make you feel worse. I think Gemini Venus is a good thing as they probably give a super fun memorable experience to people who might be the underdog and need their spirits lifted or someone who just likes the excitement of it. Even if it can be short lived it has a pure childlike element to it where there isn't a deep pain attached to it. Maybe disappointment but nothing monumentally disturbing. I think one can look back on one with a Gemini Venus in a fun way for more of what they gave you then what they didn't.

When I always see this part of Virgin Suicides I think of a Gemini Venus experience

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I need to connect mentally. Love intelligent people who know how to communicate. Very flirtatious. Very lighthearted if I'm not serious about the person. Don't like clingy. Deep confessions of love when I barely know you scare the shit out of me. I will run! Be fun and interesting. Once I find someone I'm very committed and loyal. Not all of us are cheaters or have multiple partners though we get that rap. So that irritates me.

Well boredom can set in once you feel like someone is too attached or they stop stimulating you mentally or aren't as fun or exciting while ceasing to be a challenge in love in which you did very little to win them over and they cling to you for energy.

I don't think cheating in the traditional sense applies, just have alot of different people they like for different reasons and probably aren't malicious in trying to hurt other people. When the interest totally fades and when they pushed into that corner I think they are more likely to disappear then actively try to shove a new person in your face where you can see it out in the open and make you feel worse. I think Gemini Venus is a good thing as they probably give a super fun memorable experience to people who might be the underdog and need their spirits lifted or someone who just likes the excitement of it. Even if it can be short lived it has a pure childlike element to it where there isn't a deep pain attached to it. Maybe disappointment but nothing monumentally disturbing. I think one can look back on one with a Gemini Venus in a fun way for more of what they gave you then what they didn't.

It is true that boredom can set in and that is why I tend to gravitate towards people with lots of fire or just enough. Plus I have an Aries moon as well. I feel like people with fire are both exciting and not overly emotional. However, I'm still a cancer so it's complicated lol.

I do like a lot of people when I'm with someone but I mostly like different aspects of them. I see everything interesting about them. I'm still loyal to the one I love. Again though once there is no excitement, challenge or mental stimulation I get bored and my relationship is now in danger for me. I think this has to do with my moon again. So then of course I need to communicate my feelings. Hopefully things get better and most the time they do.

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