Cancer wants to come back but

My Cancer girlfriend from a few months ago who walked out of our home and left me wants to finally come back.

For the last three months I have been relentlessly apologizing, sending flowers, texts but she has been ignoring me.

She asked me if we could have an open relationship and I exploded at her. She left and I felt horrible for losing my temper.

Now, I don't want her back.

I don't know what to say. I did feel very bad and I also loved her and wanted to be married and have kids. Now after trying to get her to forgive me, I am pretty disgusted by her.

I don't want her because I can't take the chance of her leaving again like a child. I need an adult not a woman who acts like a 2 year old and runs away. I also can't look at her the same as she asked for an open relationship.

Am I wrong?

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Just tell her. Yoy both fucked up but she shouldnt of ran away like a baby.

Thats stupid. She doesnt sound like wife material just on account of the running away.

As for the open relationship. Im a cancer and i had an open relationship amd it was all my idea too. Cancers are freaks.

my ex never wanted it until i broke up with him after 5 years

You're not wrong at all. I wouldn't want to deal with that either. Just sounds like you two aren't compatible.

She further distanced herself because you belittled yourself by begging and pleading. What were you apologizing for?

For loving her? For being a good partner?

What was the gifts, flowers, texts and apologies all about?

You fuckin suckered yourself.. Chasing after being dumped only leads to more hurt and confusion. It works against you.

When you commit these actions after a break up, a woman subconsciously thinks to herself "damn, I was right about them. I have to get far away"

Why does a woman think this?

Because it's weak.. It's needy.. Which is a possible reason why she dumped you. Women are hardwired to want strong partners.

The best thing to do after ANY break up, is just to move on.. Act like she never existed. Never agree to being friends, never agree to any relationship changes that you didn't volunteer yourself.

Fuck her.. Now if you are serious about moving on, you find yourself another girl.. Remember what I said.. Don't be weak. Don't be needy.

Best advice....^^^^^^^