Blimey. 3 weeks after dumping me because his ex is texting and confusing him with his feelings, he messages "hope your ok Baby x" followed with "I wanted to make sure your ok sweetheart, I have not forgotten you" ——? Well actually no I'm not ok…
So I have known this guy for 2 years and met him only once for a hook up. First, we got really close texting and messaging. I kept on trying to get him on date and one night he just randomly wanted to come over. After a month of waiting him to ask me…
I at times admit I just don't know how to deal with Cancers when they get their mood swings. I just normally stay away and just leave them be. But what are some ways that someone can deal with a Cancer when they are going through their mood swings?…
First things, first I love you all for the most part. You guys are so kind, caring, and ridiculously funny. I've never actually dated a cancer, I usually date air signs, but I find that they usually have heavy water placements, especially cancer…
What kinds of things would Cancers normally worry about? I'm curious because I know I worry a lot about things but it seems like Cancers worry about…
Should I tell my cancer ex I miss them? Been about a week since contact, and they still have feelings for me. Cancer ex asked for the break up…
I do that shit way too much but sometimes I just need to organize my thoughts and things that I need to finish and get done and I can't do that when I'm trying to stroke other peoples egos. Like I don't want to be around them and be fake and pretend a…
My cancer friend has been trying to avoid me in a sense that he does not want to work with me in projects and stuff, but he doesnt really try to stay away from me. He is able to have conversations with me concerning basic/important stuff but when i try…
Ok here goes. Brief as possible. We met Dec 16, dated several times, text constantly, rings me and speak for hours. He was widowed ten years ago, has 2 children from this first marriage. He remarried a few years ago but she left him for another man in…
It's true, it's so easy for my mind to try to compare them and it's a challenge. But I think I manage well because I'm not desperate and I see the differences between them. However they seem to have the typical cancerian characteristics and I want to try my best to make it work.
Another thing I need your advice is with intimacy (not necessarily sex). I want to do it right but not sure at what amount without being too much scaring her or also too little making her thing I don't fancy her.
She's obviously not initiating any touching, kissing etc (not even sexual hits) but also when I try she doesn't pull back. She rather seem not sure how to respond. We're getting better but very slowly (it's been just 2 weeks anyway). It's also true that I haven't tried anything strong myself such as hold hands/hug or kiss her (apart from hold hands/hugging/kissing on the cheek when we separate our ways).
Next week (week 3) I've invited her to cook for her at my place and not sure if I should try to kiss her (just that nothing more). Would you advise so or it depends on the signals I get?