Cancer Ex Contacted me!!!

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Andrea2308 on Monday, February 20, 2017 and has 15 replies.

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@Andrea2308
9 Years

Blimey. 3 weeks after dumping me because his ex is texting and confusing him with his feelings, he messages "hope your ok Baby x" followed with "I wanted to make sure your ok sweetheart, I have not forgotten you" ——?

Well actually no I'm not ok and I thought you and her were getting back together. Apparently not so he tells me.

So Cancer guys, what should I do? Pour my guts out again and tell him I still love him and will have him back or give him his matching orders and do one?! I was just getting used to the idea of being single again and BANG he's messsged!!!

Now my heads all over the place.

He says he realised he needed more time and should not have started a relationship with me then next thing he back and im his baby again. I asked him not to call me that as I'm clearly NOT his babe anymore.

So, what to do? Listen to him or ignore as s crabby dance ?

Flipping heck you crabs are wonderful but a right pain lol x

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@Pisces1803
13 Years500+ Posts

Ignore and ask him not to contact you again until he sorted out his issues with his Ex. Do you really want a guy who's going to dump you each time his Ex starts messaging?

Don't be that rebound girl that he keeps running to when things don't work out with the Ex.

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

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you know i love cancers.i realllly do. However my ex did this to me.. and welp he's an ex again for a reason.

I know not everyone is the same and not all crabs are the same. however much of what she shared is similiar to the crabs that do this to get what he wants and his cake to.

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Ugh! I don't like how he's all baby and sweet... no sir you are not entitled to those terms of endearment once you call it quits. How about you start walking the talk and show your intentions?

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by nikkistar
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Cancer men attract the fucking craziest women I swear....

Hey... I have a Cancer. WTF YOU TRYING TO IMPLY HERE!?

You're out of your mind. I thought I was clear... huh. lol

"What is this cancer man is trying to say when he said I am crazy? Does he mean he will never stop loving me till I cut him slowly?"

I was joking, I know I am crazy. lol

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Well technically If you "know" you're crazy, then you're not ?

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@nikkistar
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by justagirl
Posted by ChrisIsKodak
Cancer men attract the fucking craziest women I swear....

HEY!

Eff you LOL

I think cancer men secretly love the craycray right @nikkistar

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Mine does. lol

I already know I am being nuts when I am being nuts. I call him and even tell him I am being nuts at that moment, and say I just need reassurance. He's like "I know you are being a girl right now, everything is fine". lol

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by nikkistar
Posted by justagirl
Posted by ChrisIsKodak
Cancer men attract the fucking craziest women I swear....

HEY!

Eff you LOL

I think cancer men secretly love the craycray right @nikkistar

Mine does. lol

I already know I am being nuts when I am being nuts. I call him and even tell him I am being nuts at that moment, and say I just need reassurance. He's like "I know you are being a girl right now, everything is fine". lol

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yupppppppp just need that validation er reassurance that it's all going to be okaaaayyyyy LMAO

Cancer men, hate em and love em at the same time.

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by ChrisIsKodak
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by ChrisIsKodak
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by ChrisIsKodak
Cancer men attract the fucking craziest women I swear....

Hey... I have a Cancer. WTF YOU TRYING TO IMPLY HERE!?

You're out of your mind. I thought I was clear... huh. lol

"What is this cancer man is trying to say when he said I am crazy? Does he mean he will never stop loving me till I cut him slowly?"

I was joking, I know I am crazy. lol

Well technically If you "know" you're crazy, then you're not ?

Yeah you're another one. You should find a cancer man probably. lmao

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Nah, I'm just Kra Kra... besides I like Gems with some Cancer placement so that's an order of Krazy with a shot of ?

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@sparkle11
10 Years

Jerk! Haha don't buy into it. This is coming from a girl who's boyfriend ( formerly cancer ex) came back. Meaning he straight up left the girl he was with for four years to come back to me (his prior gf of 5 years). He just wants attention cause she's probably not giving him enough, but he wants her. he just wants control over you but he loves his ex.