Cancers hate negativity

I'm going through a couple of issues with my cancer bf right now and it's mainly over my disposition being so negative at times. He says he feels like our relationship is stale. He says he wants me to change and be upbeat and postitive the majority of the time and not just every so often. That when I'm negative or gloomy, it drags him down as well. He's very outgoing and cheerful most of the time. I want to be that way too not only for me but for the sake of our relationship. He now says he wants time to think and space for me to work on that and for things to get better, which is fine. But now I can't help but worry endlessly about what's going to happen. I guess it's a virgo trait to worry a lot. My question is what is the best thing I could do right now to bring him back and for our relationship to be fixed of the staleness? There were other little issues and we've had past break ups but he always comes back. But everytime we go through this, I'm a nervous wreck until things calm down. 😢 Should I just give him room to miss me?

Yeah, we Cancers love to nurture/baby others...but not for extended periods of time it just drains us and brings us down. Girl, you got Gemini rising and moon Leo, tap into those resources! You got fun and fire in you. Let the lion chase away the little Vigo girl who is cramping your style and for goodness sakes let the twins play!