cancers men in bed

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cancerobssesion on Wednesday, July 12, 2006 and has 24 replies.

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@cancer12
20 Years

i'm cancer female - heard they were aggressive from friends that have slept wit them - anyway i tried one out for size (lol) few months ago - pretty aggressive - it was a very nice change for me - i can get aggressive sometimes but man u can get hurt -

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@Storm
21 Years

Without a bit of guidance, they can be a bit too aggressive... But if you show them what's up, they're eager to please, and make things mind altering....

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@cancer12
20 Years

hahahahah greatbull cracks me up --u're funny man

ok cancerobssesion -- size depends on the individual - i noticed that small framed men have slimmer "boys" but hey dats jus my experience -- they say the size doesn't matter it's how u use it - lol --all i know is size matters to me

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@agent006
20 Years500+ PostsVirgo

"I thought virgo was the roughest sex maniac, and thus assumed my virgo side was to blame..."

we can be rough, but we like to cater to people. so if you can handle it,...but i digress. let's get back on topic before i change my mind about hijacking this thread.

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@leo/virgo75
20 Years

I've only been with one.

I wouldn't say he was really "rough" but not too gentle either. I like extremes: rough or gentle, not much for the in-between so it wasn't that great for me.

He usually took his time but after a while I would get bored and he would just be "enjoying himself." He usually wanted to get right to business and wasn't all that big on foreplay, not for me anyway. It was ok though, he wasn't too good at it.

I cared about him and all, but it just wasn't there. We would talk about it and I would try to share with him or show him what was good for me, but with all that Cancer sensitivity he would be hurt that I wasn't just screaming and moaning whenever he touched me.

Oh well.

Hope it's better for others.

P.S. I'm not downing *ALL* Cancer men by a long shot, things just weren't that hot with the one I was with.

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@o_O
20 Years500+ Posts

Virgo? No, no, it's capricorn. Capricorn in the ruler in the bed.
Capricorn will give no mercy and hold it in, just to wait for you to scream!

If you're into romance, Cancer can give you the Best orgasism in the world, they're very patient, and they'd rather pleasure their mate then themselves. Aggressive yet Romantic in bed. Expect to be grasped by them alot & Kissed. Their best move is doing with no hands! Fast and furious? I don't think so. It'll take out a chunk of time. ~ Be prepared

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@pato
21 Years

leo/virgo...exactly the same for me (I'm a cap) "i would just get bored, and he would just be "enjoying himself" he wasn't into foreplay either, just did a lousy job, almost annoying. o__O...i did experience the no hands method. it was ok, but "they're very patient, they'd rather pleasure their mate then themselves", "grasped and kissed", "it'll take a chunk of time." haha...i don't think so, not my experience.

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@o_O
20 Years500+ Posts

leo/virgo...exactly the same for me (I'm a cap) "i would just get bored, and he would just be "enjoying himself" he wasn't into foreplay either, just did a lousy job, almost annoying. o__O...i did experience the no hands method. it was ok, but "they're very patient, they'd rather pleasure their mate then themselves", "grasped and kissed", "it'll take a chunk of time." haha...i don't think so, not my experience.

As I said "If you're into romance"
Cancers are timid little cry babies.
If they don't feel comphy around you, then don't expect to get far off the limit.
But if you can see eye to eye, and if he or she can express himself to you, then you're in 😉

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@melody
20 Years

Timid and shy until I kinda gave him the 'go-ahead' in bed -- then, sizzling, rough, hot machine-gun sex...thinking about it in more detail but won't say it here. 😉 Oh, and I loved the way he smiled while he watched me... and the way he'd close his eyes and moan when ... 😛

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@scorpioncrab
20 Years

The best lover I ever had was a Cancer (but so was the worst) Cancers like to take their time and they are not selfish,very passionate and tender until they decide they want to make you lose your mind, in which case something might get broken (renter's insurance anyone?) It is very hard to resist a Cancer b/c we (they) are very seductive (for us that's half the act). Cancers like to touch and get close enough for the skin to barely touch and then take you, unmercifully! To be honest, I believe that this and the romantic,vulnerable, sensuous side of Cancer male is why women end up falling for them and then getting hurt when he doesn't want to commit. Better off sticking w/ a Scorpio who can make your toes curl and still let you know he just a playa so you don't get attached. And from my experience and my friends', I think the word "persistent" is attached to Cancers for a reason...won't see them buying Viagra!

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@o_O
20 Years500+ Posts

WHATEVA, WHATEVER, MY BUTTOX.

lol, I am a cancer, and I wanna commit...well, maybe it's because i'm a cusp///*Cancer/Leo*

I don't want to take anything serious until I know it is 🙂

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@phoenix_rising
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Interesting thread...

The last time I dated a Cancer, I was somewhere around 15 years old, so I experienced everything but sex with them (not "them" at the same time, lol...different Cancers, different times). I may be able to answer this question some day, though. 🙂 Anyway, what I did experience was unspeakably delightful. That's all I can say without getting really shy.

I can imagine, though...and imagine I have....

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@phoenix_rising
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Interesting...and very unfortunate, lol...

I cannot STAND male insecurity in the bedroom. Of all places, they need to have (or at least pretend to have) a lot of confidence in that area of life. If I feel like I have to baby them through ANYTHING I'm annoyed and turned off.

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@let.go_jump.in
20 YearsPisces

i dated a cancer guy for 2 years. he never liked being on top o_O
but hey, i didn't complain - i like being on top.

He was really kissy and stuff to. he'd always kiss me.. and he lasted.. ;]
He was also focused on pleasing ME, but i was focused on pleasing him, so in the end .. it was awesome. xD hahha
i say they're great. =D