Cancers please help!

Please, i have spent over a year in hell... i need help with my cancer man. We have been together for 5 years now but after we married in dec 11 he cheated. I was completely blindsided, not just because he is a cancer but because of his character. It has taken me over a year just to understand that he did. We had the love... nothing i have ever felt or even heard of. People around us could feel it and would comment. Or ask how we found it. We appear an odd couple but inside we r perfect. He broke it off quick said it was a mistake and has spent a year saying sorry and he wants me back. Is it manipulation? Please help me, i can leave him if i have too but i dont want too and i would never try again with another... I have had real love and you dont recover.

5 years. we talked for about a year before that just texts and virtual hangouts. Im a leo, sigh... so close to virgo but yet so far away

when i left i took nothing and would not and he does know that. i am sorry i meant 2010 that we married, over enthused you see...the cheating was last july.

okie dokie, i read and i thank u. As for crabby...im sorry to offend. Please let me sorry with a dumb blond moment of the day to chear you. i was taking a lady's food order at the restaurant where i work and she says, i will have the ham steak... and i said straight faced "How would you like that cooked?".