crab withdrawl?

Im a gem and I met this crab on tinder... Haha . As trivial as this may sound I really am making a post about this because I am so confused. So please bare with me :3
So we had an amazing conversation, we wrote paragraphs to each other all day about our feelings and emotions. He shared a lot with me and I with him. It was really idea 😄
I really thought he was something special and it was going perfectly but he asked me to come over and hang out tonight... I would be down but my car is in the shop.. So explained my situation and he told me about his horrible experience in my city after I invited him over.
I tried to be understanding and told him my own horrible experiences and I understand his sentiments about spending time here.
He started shifting on me.. I explained to him that's perfectly safe secure building. He seemed detached and I asked him to spend time with me tomorrow at my place and he really seemed annoyed by that and stopped responding to me even though I knew he was online.
I have an aries mars so I have a temper on me too, I don't like being ignored!
So I basically explained to him that I was not trying to pressure him to do something he is uncomfortable with... and ended with good luck with life haha.
I really did like talking to him. It's nice to meet a sensitive and caring man. I don't completely understand what happened? Do Crabs prefer hosting or something?
I'm just very confused!!!!! Miscommunication for sure.

Also I wanted to add it was his idea to hang out! I would be okay with waiting until we are both comfortable meeting. Generally I am pretty open and I understand timing. If he really wanted to meet me soon why would I deny that? If I wait a week he might meet someone else haha.
I know for sure he is not looking to hookup since this is something we talked about. 😛

pease excuse. my internet is slow. ba typing.

I suppose I see your point... I was intrigued by his sensitivity. Maybe this guy was was in the extreme spectrum because emotional people are often selfish.
It's funny because I was thinking the whole time that he needs to meet me halfway?!?!?!?!
I didn't want to be insensitive but I do live in the city and when physical altercations begins, shit happens to you... and he only lived say 20 minutes out in the suburbs where there's nothing to do..

still nothing..
I'm finding a lot of men to be very demanding and selfish lol. this ain't burger king, you can't have it your way... 😄 😄 😄
It's not just the cool and detached ones even men who cry probably cry about not having it there way. 😛

So you guys met in life already? You both know each other as real humans and not catfish? Hmmm interesting. Well you probably came off as too clingy I guess.

Another thing could be you're not the only one he's talking to. It's Tinder! People use that to be hoes. Hope that helps. 🙂

I told him to snap chat me if he's concerned.. since we cant send photos since our phones have different, IOS his response was I don't have one.. It could be that he is a catfish, his pictures are convincing that he is probably a real person. Unless he is a very good catfish..
yeah I did come across as clingy... 😛
But there is no method, when I'm chill that does not always mean they will eat out of the palm of my hand..
Sometimes you need to wear them down 😛


I mean that could be it too, from what I understand he is against hoe activity on there... My month using I have not had many conversations as intense as ours most of them have been pretty relaxed or just sexually charged.
So this is why I'm not concerned about that....

* another point to make, most catfishes are hesitant of meeting so soon.
Yet he wanted to go over to help with his project that night.. Unless this project was murdering me, but I'm usually mentally prepared for those scenarios to take place.