Why do they suddenly stop talking?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Capricorn109 on Thursday, March 2, 2017 and has 23 replies.

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@Capricorn109
9 Years

Thank you I do not think I am guilty of not appreciating him because I really do. You know us Capricorns are a bit shy with our feelings. It just seems like he is a bit distant lately names me wonder what us up

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@mcaesar91
9 Years

Not that this is related, but i've lately been interested in a Pisces female and have been getting the same sort of vibes. Was told she was interested, I reached out and we talked for a while but it just seems like she's not into it. When we meet she's very quiet, doesn't talk much, but online she txts/msgs fine.

Definitely feel like it's not worth the time or she's lost interest....is this a typical piscses thing to do man or women? just disappear all of a sudden

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@netpower
9 Years

Posted by mcaesar91
Not that this is related, but i've lately been interested in a Pisces female and have been getting the same sort of vibes. Was told she was interested, I reached out and we talked for a while but it just seems like she's not into it. When we meet she's very quiet, doesn't talk much, but online she txts/msgs fine.

Definitely feel like it's not worth the time or she's lost interest....is this a typical piscses thing to do man or women? just disappear all of a sudden

She may be shy. Or nervous around you

Be gentle and persistent with her. Keep things light with lots of humor

Don't make any demands. We kinda go with the flow of things so trying to force anything will make her swim away

You could just ask her things directly without any demands to see where she stands

What your sign btw?

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@pooface222
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Capricorn109
Thank you I do not think I am guilty of not appreciating him because I really do. You know us Capricorns are a bit shy with our feelings. It just seems like he is a bit distant lately names me wonder what us up

Hi ya..

I know the feeling. I'm a bit shy with my feelings too. But I hide it with a smile ?

Once I feel comfortable then I open up.

Pisces men are definitely confusing. I've met a couple of them in my life and sometimes they make me feel like they don't like me.

One of them got paranoid and asked me if I was playing games and to not play with him. But - he plays games himself!?!?

I think the games are to protect himself though. .

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

ANY man of ANY sign can stop liking ANY woman of ANY sign under rule...I don't like you anymore since this morning...no actually since 4am last night...

Are you serious—

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@pooface222
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by mcaesar91
Not that this is related, but i've lately been interested in a Pisces female and have been getting the same sort of vibes. Was told she was interested, I reached out and we talked for a while but it just seems like she's not into it. When we meet she's very quiet, doesn't talk much, but online she txts/msgs fine.

Definitely feel like it's not worth the time or she's lost interest....is this a typical piscses thing to do man or women? just disappear all of a sudden

Hi..If this helps then I know a Pisces man like this.

He is very quiet face to face and doesn't talk much until I ask him questions then he talks lots. But generally is quiet.

But on messaging it will be lots more.

I think it's a shyness thing x

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@pooface222
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
They will inside their heads or he has probably returned to his goldfish bowl and there is not enough room for two.

Pisces men play a lot of games and they have a few tables turning at the same time...

Mirror him... that's the only way to win and stay sane...

Hi ya..

So are you saying to play games back? And to go silent back? I've noticed table turning with Pisces men too.

When you say 'Win' what do you mean? ☺

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@pooface222
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Pisco
We swim. We like swimming. You either have us or you don't. It's that easy. So if we're disappearing, we're not interested anymore.

Hi ..

I've heard that after time has passed Pisces will swim back. And the reason for this is that they miss you. And also that Pisces have a tendency to return to their old flames.

Is this true?

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@pooface222
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by netpower
Posted by mcaesar91
Not that this is related, but i've lately been interested in a Pisces female and have been getting the same sort of vibes. Was told she was interested, I reached out and we talked for a while but it just seems like she's not into it. When we meet she's very quiet, doesn't talk much, but online she txts/msgs fine.

Definitely feel like it's not worth the time or she's lost interest....is this a typical piscses thing to do man or women? just disappear all of a sudden

She may be shy. Or nervous around you

Be gentle and persistent with her. Keep things light with lots of humor

Don't make any demands. We kinda go with the flow of things so trying to force anything will make her swim away

You could just ask her things directly without any demands to see where she stands

What your sign btw?

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I think the OP is Capricorn. Their username is Capricorn109

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@4reefer2man0
9 Years

Posted by pooface222
Posted by Pisco
We swim. We like swimming. You either have us or you don't. It's that easy. So if we're disappearing, we're not interested anymore.

Hi ..

I've heard that after time has passed Pisces will swim back. And the reason for this is that they miss you. And also that Pisces have a tendency to return to their old flames.

Is this true?

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When I leave a relationship of any kind it is usually a done deal. Ive never went back to an ex, even if I did miss them.

When pisces quits talking and dissappears they probably wont be coming back.

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@mcaesar91
9 Years

To all those who commented before, I'm a gem, so i'm naturally more attracted to conversation and/or believe that a lack of conversation generally means a lack of interest.

I do feel she is shy, but of course incredibly hard to get a read when she may respond and then disappear for 5 days haha

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by mcaesar91
Not that this is related, but i've lately been interested in a Pisces female and have been getting the same sort of vibes. Was told she was interested, I reached out and we talked for a while but it just seems like she's not into it. When we meet she's very quiet, doesn't talk much, but online she txts/msgs fine.

Definitely feel like it's not worth the time or she's lost interest....is this a typical piscses thing to do man or women? just disappear all of a sudden

She could just be shy in person.

I personally am super shy / will do things that might indicate I don't like someone in person because I'm nervous.

I've literally avoided someone once the whole night at a party because I was super nervous.lol

She caught me at the end of the night though and slightly confronted me about it...to which I didn't respond.lol

and I'm in love with her so.

I also rarely initiate texting her. She texts me from time to time which i always respond to but I'm still trying to play it cool.

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Also pisces are fickle. Let's say she's not interested in you anymore. That could literally be different tomorrow.

Most of us ( especially Pisces women) go back and forth about whether we like someone or should like someone initially upon meeting them/the beginning stages of any relationship.

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@urbane101
12 Years

ok so I have done something like this too, when things move too quickly between me and someone else, I just stop talking to that person because I start getting anxious. Like "this is going way too well" kind of deal. But I (like everyone) have been hurt pretty bad (about a year ago) and it makes me act this way although I know its wrong and I cant help it. Me personally I need someone who likes me, but can still be themselves and lead their own lives. once I overcome this stupid anxiety I ask them out, see how things go for a few weeks (by now we have a good friendship established already, one with 0 judgments for dinosaur noises at restaurants for example) and I let them know how I feel and how I want to continue if i haven't gotten any bad vibes, otherwise the cycle starts over again. Havent dated for a few months going on a few more but thats how I used to be. Maybe its the same way unless you were rude to them?