@Piscestash
6 Years
Pisces man
He feels he's not your type by your own admission. Then b4 that, you distance yourself from him in from of your mutual friends; twice. Why would you care what your friends think? Unless...
Now, you could tell him that he is your type and see how that goes.
Time for you to show and prove.
Your mutual friends know that he likes you too and they probably told him that you dont like him from the way you treated him.
OP what’s your sign?
You guys are really funny! I feel bad, I didn’t see this as rude as I knew I would be flocked with questions if they knew. I more so just asked him to walk in a while after I didn’t and then leave a bit before
OP what’s your sign?
You guys are really funny! I feel bad, I didn’t see this as rude as I knew I would be flocked with questions if they knew. I more so just asked him to walk in a while after I didn’t and then leave a bit before
What’s your sign?
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I’m a Pisces as well
OP what’s your sign?
You guys are really funny! I feel bad, I didn’t see this as rude as I knew I would be flocked with questions if they knew. I more so just asked him to walk in a while after I didn’t and then leave a bit before
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Why were you worried about questions?
You could have always told them, that you'd rather keep your romantic life private.
Cant put the needs of the group before the needs of your love interest.
That doesnt make sense of you're trying to build a connection
I'm not a Pisces but I think it was what you said....... Here are my thoughts.
Him jokingly asking you out was probably because then things wouldn't get awkward if you had said "no". Because then he could say it was only a joke anyway. And if you had said "yes", well, then you were both safe to proceed. Pisces can be subtle like that.
He obviously takes relationships serious, and that's probably why he asked why you were acting like you were not together. He was probably trying to figure out how serious you were taking the whole thing. Testing you, if you will. You laughing probably felt to him like you were either not understanding him or that you were not taking this seriously. Did you answer him at all?
Him asking about your type and you sort of replying that your type is a person that is totally not him, probably was a sign for him that you are not interested. So, adding it all up, he probably thinks you want nothing with him. Maybe he got discouraged by your answers.
You could try to fix it by hinting he is your type after all. Or maybe ask him out and try to explain how you feel about him.
I did add him to Instagram a couple of month later we spoke a few times, flirting at most. I told him he was adorable but my friend said that word probably made it worse? Anyway he never asked to see me again. I also made the mistake of telling him I’m used to guys chasing me and it’s odd that he is not. Looking back now , I’m a retard. If he was attracted to me, I’ve probably talked him out of that
I'm not a Pisces but I think it was what you said....... Here are my thoughts.
Him jokingly asking you out was probably because then things wouldn't get awkward if you had said "no". Because then he could say it was only a joke anyway. And if you had said "yes", well, then you were both safe to proceed. Pisces can be subtle like that.
He obviously takes relationships serious, and that's probably why he asked why you were acting like you were not together. He was probably trying to figure out how serious you were taking the whole thing. Testing you, if you will. You laughing probably felt to him like you were either not understanding him or that you were not taking this seriously. Did you answer him at all?
Him asking about your type and you sort of replying that your type is a person that is totally not him, probably was a sign for him that you are not interested. So, adding it all up, he probably thinks you want nothing with him. Maybe he got discouraged by your answers.
You could try to fix it by hinting he is your type after all. Or maybe ask him out and try to explain how you feel about him.
I did add him to Instagram a couple of month later we spoke a few times, flirting at most. I told him he was adorable but my friend said that word probably made it worse? Anyway he never asked to see me again. I also made the mistake of telling him I’m used to guys chasing me and it’s odd that he is not. Looking back now , I’m a retard. If he was attracted to me, I’ve probably talked him out of that
Just reach and ask him how he’s doing. Are y’all quarantined? You can just ask him how it’s going.
Don’t overthink it so much and don’t sabotage yourself.
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Thank you. ❤️
OP what’s your sign?
You guys are really funny! I feel bad, I didn’t see this as rude as I knew I would be flocked with questions if they knew. I more so just asked him to walk in a while after I didn’t and then leave a bit before
Why were you worried about questions?
You could have always told them, that you'd rather keep your romantic life private.
Cant put the needs of the group before the needs of your love interest.
That doesnt make sense of you're trying to build a connection
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Right! Unbelievable 🤦
If you're bold enough to tell someone you're attracted to, that your preference is someone who looks NOTHING like them, then you should be just as direct in telling your friends to stay out of your dating life 🤷
I mean, damn, OP ran the dude away SMH
You rejected him and expect him to still chase you?
If you want him back, be direct. Tell him you want to see him again and tell him he’s your type.
you did everything you could to make him think you're not interested in him
so he's got no reason to ask you out again
So this is a bit of a story. I met a Pisces man through a group of mutual friends. We didn’t speak much in the company of them but he would compliment me sometimes. One time seemingly joking he asked me out. Anyways, we saw he each other outside of there and exchanged numbers. We went to a park the next day and talked for a bit and then went to our mutual friends home. We walked in at different times as I told him I didn’t want people assuming anything. When we left now, I did the same thing. When we got outside he asked me why lm acting like we weren’t together. I laughed. We then went to a local restaurant and had some drinks, he asked me what my type is. He’s a tall white white guy, which is not usually my type, though I am very attracted to him. I told him I like tall dark skin guys who are “ hood”. I have no idea why I said such a stupid thing but i did. He asked me if I was hungry I said yes but that we could take food to go. We did that and spoke some times after that but he never asked me out again. Was it what I said or was he just possibly not into me otherwise?
Reach out to him and tell him that your interested in getting to know him, then balls on his court.
pisces x pisces is such an awkward disaster lol. been there
pisces x pisces is such an awkward disaster lol. been there
I can imagine
WholelottaNeptune 🙃
pisces x pisces is such an awkward disaster lol. been there
I can imagine
WholelottaNeptune 🙃
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a lot of mutual ghosting, coming back around, unspoken communication/attempts thereof lol, fighting/cussing, then signs of affection
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So this is a bit of a story. I met a Pisces man through a group of mutual friends. We didn’t speak much in the company of them but he would compliment me sometimes. One time seemingly joking he asked me out. Anyways, we saw he each other outside of there and exchanged numbers. We went to a park the next day and talked for a bit and then went to our mutual friends home. We walked in at different times as I told him I didn’t want people assuming anything. When we left now, I did the same thing. When we got outside he asked me why lm acting like we weren’t together. I laughed. We then went to a local restaurant and had some drinks, he asked me what my type is. He’s a tall white white guy, which is not usually my type, though I am very attracted to him. I told him I like tall dark skin guys who are “ hood”. I have no idea why I said such a stupid thing but i did. He asked me if I was hungry I said yes but that we could take food to go. We did that and spoke some times after that but he never asked me out again. Was it what I said or was he just possibly not into me otherwise?