Devastated & heart broken. Leo woman... cancer man.

He has a cap moon I have a sag moon. I have been with my cancer man for 3 years and we have talked every single day but 2 days ago he accidentally sent me a text that he meant to send to someone else. The text was harmless but I playfully was making a big deal about it and told him "Do you."... when I saw that he was taking me seriously through text I called him and we talked for like a hour. He sounded mad but he kept saying that he wasn't mad.... & he kept saying "if I was mad I wouldn't have called you back. I'm not mad... don't play with me like that... etc..." After he got off the phone for an hour because he said he was busy working I wasn't done talking so I continued to text him. He texted me back twice and after that I have not heard from him. I have been calling over and over and even went to his house and he wasnt there. He texted me this morning saying "I'm ok, you don't have to worry"

As a leo I HATE being ignored. I am over dramatic and extremely hurt thinking I've lost my man. My feelings are so dramatic to the point I get depressed. He is my best friend, we talk about everything and we talk everyday. We've even said if we stop talking we will remain friends.



My question is what should I do? Should I ignore him back or continue to chase him?

After he said "I'm ok you dont have to worry" I kept texting him... he didnt reply. I called no answer, I sent him text no answer.... I'm worried I lost him.

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I was only being clingy because I felt something was wrong. If you talk to someone EVERY single day and they disappear its something wrong. I'm not a clingy person but being with someone for 3 years and talking to them everyday, he is my best friend. When he texted and said I'm good you dont have to worry I still was worrying because this not like him and I want to be there if things are going bad. If somethings wrong I feel I'm supposed to be there. Idk. So I'm overreacting?

Posted by brownhunnie
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I was only being clingy because I felt something was wrong. If you talk to someone EVERY single day and they disappear its something wrong. I'm not a clingy person but being with someone for 3 years and talking to them everyday, he is my best friend. When he texted and said I'm good you dont have to worry I still was worrying because this not like him and I want to be there if things are going bad. If somethings wrong I feel I'm supposed to be there. Idk. So I'm overreacting?

I suggest that you look up cancer traits.. water puts out fire.. elements wise.

I see this pairing a lot sun wise and moon wise, and the Leo usually ends up hurt...

He's guilty right now and manipulating the situation.. you'll be just fine. Block him if he doesn't hit you back and start moving on. Cancers can switch off just like that, and if they're not happy no one else is.

It's normal to panic when someone ghosts you.

Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
Youve been together 3 years and you don't feel any sense of security that he wouldn't leave you after what seems like a pretty minor fight?

Is the relationship undefined? Long distance?

No we are in a healthy relationship. I just know he is older than me and always getting in his feelings about things I say. I agree it is VERY minor. But he's acting out of the ordinary thats why I have concerns. I've texted him saying "Call me" no response. I said all type of stuff he wont respond or call me back.

Personally I have deep pessimistic feelings about relationships which could seem some of my feelings. I just wanted to know if I'm overreacting and he needs time to cool down or what? Should I ignore him too? Should I chase him?

Posted by arose32

Posted by brownhunnie
@confusingconfused



I was only being clingy because I felt something was wrong. If you talk to someone EVERY single day and they disappear its something wrong. I'm not a clingy person but being with someone for 3 years and talking to them everyday, he is my best friend. When he texted and said I'm good you dont have to worry I still was worrying because this not like him and I want to be there if things are going bad. If somethings wrong I feel I'm supposed to be there. Idk. So I'm overreacting?

I suggest that you look up cancer traits.. water puts out fire.. elements wise.

I see this pairing a lot sun wise and moon wise, and the Leo usually ends up hurt...

He's guilty right now and manipulating the situation.. you'll be just fine. Block him if he doesn't hit you back and start moving on. Cancers can switch off just like that, and if they're not happy no one else is.

It's normal to panic when someone ghosts you.

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do you think he is going to leave?

Lol give him space. If i dont text a girl back i expect her to know i am busy and stfu

@brownhunnie I can't answer that. But don't let him manipulate the situation for doing you wrong or messing up.. they're good at that. I hope it works out.

And when he disappears, let him.. move on.. he'll come back around, they always do.

Posted by Taurasian
Lol give him space. If i dont text a girl back i expect her to know i am busy and stfu

You a taurus though

Posted by arose32
@brownhunnie I can't answer that. But don't let him manipulate the situation for doing you wrong or messing up.. they're good at that. I hope it works out.

And when he disappears, let him.. move on.. he'll come back around, they always do.

Yea this has never happened so im completely thrown off

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Posted by arose32
@brownhunnie I can't answer that. But don't let him manipulate the situation for doing you wrong or messing up.. they're good at that. I hope it works out.

And when he disappears, let him.. move on.. he'll come back around, they always do.

Yea this has never happened so im completely thrown off

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Just look at other threads .. and I've dealt with a cancer moon.. they're truly annoying, if he comes back .. keep your guard up more.. and then move on to someone more positive girl, as a Leo moon when my cancer moon disappeared I panicked and stuff. But now I'm moving on, they're COWARDS when they're wrong.

Posted by arose32
@brownhunnie I can't answer that. But don't let him manipulate the situation for doing you wrong or messing up.. they're good at that. I hope it works out.

And when he disappears, let him.. move on.. he'll come back around, they always do.

move on as in just live my life and be happy? or move on as in get another man. I can easily move on and when I've done it in the past it just made the situation worst.

Posted by brownhunnie

Posted by arose32
@brownhunnie I can't answer that. But don't let him manipulate the situation for doing you wrong or messing up.. they're good at that. I hope it works out.

And when he disappears, let him.. move on.. he'll come back around, they always do.

move on as in just live my life and be happy? or move on as in get another man. I can easily move on and when I've done it in the past it just made the situation worst.

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It's tough when you're in a relationship to think about just living your life and letting the chips fall where they may because you're usually totally invested in the relationship, but it's never a good idea to tie your ego up to someone else.

I don't know what that text he accidentally sent to you was all about, so I don't know if he felt guilty about it and decided to ghost you in a panic. Some of my best buddies are Cancer sun guys and I don't know them to flake out like that on their girlfriends or wives, so I don't personally think it's a sign thing. I really don't understand why he's doing that.

If he's acting stupid, it's understandble that you try to contact him, but it sounds like you did your part. Text him and say that you won't waste anymore time trying to get ahold of him and he can contact you when he's ready to sac up.