@cappygirl11
12 Years
Do cancerian men ever get over things
NO 😢
yes, eventually
I kid OP, I'm sorry you are going through this rough patch, I think try to talk to him but not push too hard and try to use a soft tone, other than that there is not much you can do. It seems frustrating that THAT is the communication between you too.
I'm thinking that I need to reconsider dating him
He's probably busy lining someone else up, if he really respected / loved you he would never turn down seeing you. he could be wasting your time- cancer guys will stay in relationships long term just for the security of it. mine left a girl he was with for 4+ years for me cause I was the "one who got away"... its messed up I know but they do that.
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I mean I just questioned my bf of 5 years once about where he really was and asked y is he avoiding me. He went crazy. First didn't speak to me for a week. Then told me now he really is avoiding me. Refused to see me. I had an accident he still refused to see me..... today he tells me if I wad broken enough not to have sex he would reconsider our relationship. ... and I'm thinking....wtf...have u been wasting my life.